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Posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 11:53:58
And I did it about 30 minutes before I was supposed to be there....talked to the secretary. I wanted to just not show up but couldn't. Didn't sleep at all last night. Am a complete mess. Have no idea what I want or if I can keep it together.
Posted by Dinah on April 3, 2007, at 12:35:41
In reply to Canceled T, posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 11:53:58
I'm sorry you're feeling so bad. :(
Posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 12:58:09
In reply to Re: Canceled T » jammerlich, posted by Dinah on April 3, 2007, at 12:35:41
Thank you, Dinah. You know, I almost didn't post this because you tried to help me reason my way out of this yesterday and I was afraid you'd be disappointed in me, knowing I didn't go.
And I know I did it to myself, but I feel worse for not going. I just wonder if I'll remember this next time I consider doing the same thing.
Posted by Dinah on April 3, 2007, at 13:05:03
In reply to Re: Canceled T » Dinah, posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 12:58:09
I'm not disappointed that you didn't go. I understood.
But I'm sorry you aren't feeling good about it.
Posted by gazo on April 3, 2007, at 17:17:50
In reply to Canceled T, posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 11:53:58
i am sorry honey. i know you are hurting and i wish i could help. :o( You matter you know. You do. You seem like a really nice person IMO. i am sorry that not going made you feel worse.
Posted by Iwillsurvive on April 3, 2007, at 23:20:30
In reply to Re: Canceled T » Dinah, posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 12:58:09
> Thank you, Dinah. You know, I almost didn't post this because you tried to help me reason my way out of this yesterday and I was afraid you'd be disappointed in me, knowing I didn't go.
>
> And I know I did it to myself, but I feel worse for not going. I just wonder if I'll remember this next time I consider doing the same thing.**mebbe you could save this post to remind you.
Jammer, your a sweetie with alot to offer, does your T understand these 'games'(not he best word I know) you play w/her/yourself? Cuz I done same thing w/my T, and she DIDN'T get them I don't think, as far as I know, or mebbe she just weren't gonna play? I dunno. I suspect the former. Cuz T's can't mind read, least mine can't. I been thinking bout what (annirose? mebbe?) said bout just blurting out your thots in T, and how sometimes that'll lead to something...I think there's merit in that.....I proly will try that myself.
Gonna go write it in my journal right nwo b4 it goes outta my damn head.
Hope you can make it to next appt Jammer, but you know we like you either way!
Take care.
Posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 23:31:51
In reply to Re: Canceled T » jammerlich, posted by Iwillsurvive on April 3, 2007, at 23:20:30
I've never been very good at blurting. Any time I thought I'd try, the words just got stuck.
And I'm not sure I HAVE a next appointment, since I didn't go to the last one.
Posted by jammerlich on April 4, 2007, at 12:57:24
In reply to Re: Canceled T » Iwillsurvive, posted by jammerlich on April 3, 2007, at 23:31:51
I called this morning to reschedule. I see her tomorrow at noon. Now, please help me keep the strength to go. Please?
Posted by Iwillsurvive on April 4, 2007, at 21:58:46
In reply to Rescheduled, posted by jammerlich on April 4, 2007, at 12:57:24
Well. Mebbe you could go for me? Cuz I like you, and I want you to be able to figger out how you can feel more better more of the time?
Mebbe I not doing the best right now but I do have better times and they are SO great. I want this for you too.
I hope you can let your T help you carry your burden for a bit. Hate to see you struggling alone.
(((Jammmer)))
Hope you can make it, and hope you can mebbe write something to her bout how hard it is for you, cuz these damn T's they just can't mindread, wish they could.....
Take care.
Posted by Dinah on April 6, 2007, at 10:32:05
In reply to Rescheduled, posted by jammerlich on April 4, 2007, at 12:57:24
I hope you got the courage to go? I know you were upset about canceling.
I also hope that she was helpful.
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