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Posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
Special thanks to Daisy (and Racer.)
There was an ad in the paper for a job that I got turned down for, I emailed the person who rejected me and I saw him today. The person they hired didn't work out (please positive thoughts for her to get the right job) and I start on Monday. A job that uses my brain and pays okay! I have a 90 day probationary period, so failure at 50 still applies, but wouldn't it be a miracle if I was still there and doing well?
Poet
Posted by Dinah on March 29, 2007, at 23:36:16
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
I hope this is just the job you're looking for.
Posted by frida on March 29, 2007, at 23:39:58
In reply to Hoooray!!!!! » Poet, posted by Dinah on March 29, 2007, at 23:36:16
I wish you the best in your new job and I hope it all goes well :-)
You've been trying so hard, I really hope you like the job and it goes well.Frida
Posted by gazo on March 29, 2007, at 23:40:16
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
oh joy! good for you! i am so proud of you :o)
Posted by LadyBug on March 30, 2007, at 0:32:21
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
You are not a failure! I'm excited that you got a new job! Things look brighter now! Good luck on Monday and all the days to follow! Congratulations Poet!
LadyBug
Posted by Daisym on March 30, 2007, at 1:24:00
In reply to Re: Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a » Poet, posted by LadyBug on March 30, 2007, at 0:32:21
You are so welcome. (she bows) It is easy to know what to say when you have so much good to work with.
I'm excited for you.
Hugs,
Daisy
Posted by canadagirl on March 30, 2007, at 5:18:49
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
Congratulations and well done! Sending you good vibes for Monday!
Posted by annierose on March 30, 2007, at 6:03:39
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
I am so happy for you!! I was thinking about you yesterday wondering how you were doing - so I woke up to a giant smile this morning reading the good news.
How wonderful!!
You get to wear your new clothes again!
Posted by madeline on March 30, 2007, at 6:52:08
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
It just sounds to me as though that company finally came to their senses and hired the right person!
Congrats for getting the job and SUPER congrats for not giving up!
Maddie
Posted by TherapyGirl on March 30, 2007, at 7:26:12
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
Way to go! No doubt, this company will soon realize the brilliance of their decision.
The universe is righting itself.
Posted by antigua on March 30, 2007, at 9:53:30
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
Posted by Fallsfall on March 30, 2007, at 11:54:59
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
Boy are they lucky!!
Posted by Racer on March 30, 2007, at 12:40:43
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
An awful lot would have to change for you to be a loser at 50 -- because you're not a loser now, and haven't been in the time I've known you. You've always been what you ae now -- one of the smartest, funniest -- and yes, most enjoyable people I've had the very great good fortune to know.
This guy is damned lucky, Poet. Think of what he's got now: a smart, funny, beatiful woman, with one hell of a great brain. You're so fabulous, I hope he can live up to you.
I was tickled when I got your message. Nearly drove off the road hooting and hollering for you. I'm so pleased for you, and hope they're good enough for you.
Oh, I was on my way home from dropping off paperwork from the Siamese Rescue at my vet's office. I hope Her Ladyship will have company soon.
Posted by All Done on March 30, 2007, at 15:38:55
In reply to Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job, posted by Poet on March 29, 2007, at 23:33:15
I'm so happy for you, Poet!!!
And proud and impressed...I bet it took some courage to email after they initially didn't give you the job. Way to go!
Have a great day on Monday! And enjoy your weekend too, of course!
Laurie
Posted by Poet on March 30, 2007, at 16:38:47
In reply to Re: Maybe, a big maybe, not a failure at 50, got a job » Poet, posted by All Done on March 30, 2007, at 15:38:55
I think my T expected to see me drag myself in today. I got the job late yesterday afternoon so I decided to surprise her this morning. Of course, now she has to find evening appointments for me, which means working around my classes, but she fit me in for the next two weeks.
So I have a job, two sessions with my T that work with my school schedule, and lots of faith in me from all of you. I don't have much in myself, what's in my head, is from you and my T.
Poet
p.s. Racer, darn it, how do you know everything? I sure don't know much...
Posted by Happyflower on March 30, 2007, at 17:59:58
In reply to Big Reply to Everyone, posted by Poet on March 30, 2007, at 16:38:47
Yay Poet!
A late congradulations! When do you start your new job? We all knew you were awesome! :-)
Posted by Daisym on March 30, 2007, at 23:14:49
In reply to Big Reply to Everyone, posted by Poet on March 30, 2007, at 16:38:47
>>>>>p.s. Racer, darn it, how do you know everything? I sure don't know much...
<<<<<<She calls me, of course. :)yeah, not competitive am I?
Posted by Poet on March 31, 2007, at 10:39:47
In reply to Re: Big Reply to Everyone, posted by Happyflower on March 30, 2007, at 17:59:58
Hi Happyflower,
I start on Monday. It's a good thing it's spring break so I can ease into studying/doing homework at night, it's been a long time. I can do this, I can do this...
Poet
Posted by Poet on March 31, 2007, at 10:40:43
In reply to Re: Big Reply to Everyone, posted by Daisym on March 30, 2007, at 23:14:49
Hi Daisy,
Ah, so that's Racer's secret. As for you being competitive? Never. ;)
Poet
Posted by philyra on April 1, 2007, at 20:45:31
In reply to Big Reply to Everyone, posted by Poet on March 30, 2007, at 16:38:47
I'm so happy for you Poet!
your message put a big smile on my face.
YAY!!
Posted by Poet on April 2, 2007, at 17:58:22
In reply to congratulations!! » Poet, posted by philyra on April 1, 2007, at 20:45:31
The atmosphere of the office felt so much friendlier and lighter than the last place. Someone actually showed me wear to hang my coat, asked what kind of soda I liked (it's FREE) and I can wear jeans. My kind of place.
I'm still taking clonazepam, but no panick attacks in sight!
Poet
Posted by TherapyGirl on April 2, 2007, at 18:44:12
In reply to Despite Anxiety, I Survived my First Day » philyra, posted by Poet on April 2, 2007, at 17:58:22
That's great, Poet. I completely understand the anxiety, having just gone through this 4 months ago. It took me about 3 weeks to finally settle down -- of course, some of my anxiety was due to spending 13 years at the workplace from h*ll. So as soon as I figured out nice, sane people worked where I work now, I was able to relax and let go.
Hope it continues to go well. The hardest day is behind you!
Posted by Daisym on April 2, 2007, at 20:53:04
In reply to Despite Anxiety, I Survived my First Day » philyra, posted by Poet on April 2, 2007, at 17:58:22
Hurrah Poet! I hope you asked for diet Coke with Lime. :)
I think it is great that the atmosphere is so relaxed. I can't wait to hear what your therapist says about how you are managing your stress. I bet she is bursting at the seams with pride!!
You go girl...
Posted by annierose on April 2, 2007, at 20:58:08
In reply to Despite Anxiety, I Survived my First Day » philyra, posted by Poet on April 2, 2007, at 17:58:22
It's amazing how finding a place to hang your stuff and a road map to the bathroom can make a big difference on day one of a new job!
I'm so happy that the hardest day is now behind you.
Do you like the type of work they are giving you too?
Spring really is a time for new beginnings ...
Posted by scratchpad on April 3, 2007, at 7:15:58
In reply to Despite Anxiety, I Survived my First Day » philyra, posted by Poet on April 2, 2007, at 17:58:22
That's great, Poet! An auspicious start.
Cross your fingers and toes for me; I start this morning as a volunteer at a local science center. It's the closest thing to a job I can manage right now. Scared stiff of making a fool of myself.
scratchpad
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