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Posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 13:13:47
I saw him today when I came into the workout place and he looked so full of life.
Well after he was finished running and I was finished with my exercises, I was talking to some people by the free tea and coffee by the entrance. Well my T walked past and he was wearing a PINK dress shirt. Now he looked really good, but I just didn't think he was a pink shirt wearing kind of guy. It makes me feel weird and thrown off of what I think my T is like. He usually only wears conservative colors, so this is kinda unlike him. Am I losing it or something? Why does this feel so weird to me?
Posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 14:30:31
In reply to Saw my T today and it was weird, posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 13:13:47
I guess I am missing him this week, even though I saw him twice at the workout place, I didn't have an appointment and I want to talk to him.
I feel like I am trying so hard to keep myself from falling from all the stress I am under, I feel like I have been treading water for 30 min and am losing my strengh. I just need to hear him say my name, I just want to connect.Well I called and told him that I feel realy dumb for leaving a message, but I just wanted to say hi, and connect. I told him he caught me off guard with the pink shirt, but he looked really nice. Now I feel like such a dope.
Maybe he doesn't wear pink when I see him because when he blushes it would be too pinky. LOL I just need him. I didn't say to call me back, but I don't know why I miss him, this has happened earlier in therapy, but not so much lately. He must think I am nuts. Why do I leave such dumb messages that make me sound like so weird and juveinile.
Posted by becksA on November 30, 2006, at 14:33:26
In reply to Saw my T today and it was weird, posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 13:13:47
This is all really opinion I think....lol, not to start it off like this, but...."In my opinion", I think you may be feeling a bit strange because maybe he chooses to simply dress differently at work and outside? Even if he was in a nice professional outfit, I have seen millions of pdoc's it seems, and I can say almost all of them that go the professional-dressed route tend to go very conservative. White or blue shirt, dark suit, black shoes. That's just been my experience. If he was wearing a dress or something, that's different. If you've ever seen Frasier, there is an episode that is almost exactly like that, and they actually end up making a lot of sense out of it. He's still the same guy.
In this episode, Frasier walks in on one of his old professors that he greatly admires wearing a pink robe because it belonged to his girlfriend, I think it was just to cover himself up. Frasier then has dreams (or nightmares) about this guy seeing him in pink all the time, and he completely loses respect for him. They have a talk, and they meet and when they meet the guy puts on the pink robe. His underlying point is that it's just a piece of cloth. It's the same person, same brain, same everything you have come to know so well. Am I making any sense or did I take too much adderall today? lol
Posted by muffled on November 30, 2006, at 14:47:01
In reply to left him a message and now feel like an idiot, posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 14:30:31
Well Satin. My t would be jumping up and down with joy cuz I was "asking for what I need". Mebbe you didn't ask specifically, but you made it known.
So mebbe you can lv him a message to leave YOU a message that just says Hi, and mebbe some positive things.
Then you can save the message for those funny times we seem to have where we feel SO strongly that we want our T. One weekend I wanted my T so bad, and I must have listened to her message 100 times!!! LOL. Anyhow, I let myself immerse myself into the tone of voice the words, but mostly the tone of voice. And it DID help strangley enough.
I still get the real bad yearning, but it eases when I listen, so thats why I have to listen so often!!!!LOL
And you proly feel overwhelmed for sure, and hell you proly just plain miss him. Also sometimes when I haven't seen my T in awhile, I feel like mebbe she don't exist....or mebbe she different...or SOMETHING.
So take care,
Hope you can understaND my gibberish.
The post above bout the book...yeah, DEFINATELY strange, I wouldn't wanto read it either, but part of me wants to!
Muffled
Posted by canadagirl on November 30, 2006, at 18:20:50
In reply to Saw my T today and it was weird, posted by SatinDoll on November 30, 2006, at 13:13:47
It might have been weird because it's out of context. Maybe he was happy about something. You know, sometimes what we wear reflects our mood. And you said he looked full of life.
Posted by LlurpsieBlossom on December 4, 2006, at 21:58:40
In reply to Re: Saw my T today and it was weird » SatinDoll, posted by canadagirl on November 30, 2006, at 18:20:50
When my oldT wore his lilacpink t shirt, I always wondered-- is he trying to make himself feel like he's going to the beach, rather than going to the little cubicle where he has to deal with crazypsycho lurpsie for an hour?
hmm. and he wore that shirt for about 75% of my sessions this summer. It was very nice color on him, but an interesting choice, all around.
-Ll
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