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Posted by LadyBug on June 18, 2006, at 22:13:48
I've been thinking about you on and off today and wondering if you went to see your T. And if so, how did things go? Did you tell him to go to hell?
I still can't believe he did this to you.
I wish I knew of a way for you to get through the grieving process without going through the pain of it. Like anything we have to go through in life, we have to go through it to get to the other side. If we go around it, we won't ever get the stuff we need in the middle. I know that sounds nuts, but I think you know what I mean. I think you should see a female T to help you through this. Going away, or out of town would help but how long can you stay gone? Will the pain be waiting for you as well as go with you? We can't hide from grieving can we? I don't know of any way to do so.
I'm wishing you the best for whatever choices you make. I'm glad you have meds to help lift the pain. I've been there lots of times I've needed the relief too. I'm sorry this is so hard for you. I want to be here for you and take away your pain. Maybe we could take your T. and put him out of his misery. (wishful)
LadyBug
Posted by Dinah on June 19, 2006, at 0:57:53
In reply to Dinah, Did you see your T?, posted by LadyBug on June 18, 2006, at 22:13:48
Yes, I did see him today.
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20060615/msgs/658312.html
I'm fighting the urge to call him and tell him I just can't stand this and I'll do my best to work through it with him.
I may be being unfair to him in what I'm saying. I'm trying to objectively report what actually happened, although I'm leaving out some of the parts I'm embarassed about for myself. But maybe my viewpoint is so warped that I can't be objective.
It's hard to know if you're really being fair to someone else.
Thanks for asking.
Dinah
Posted by Frida on June 19, 2006, at 1:25:30
In reply to Re: Dinah, Did you see your T? » LadyBug, posted by Dinah on June 19, 2006, at 0:57:53
Dear Dinah,
(((((Dinah))))) This is so painful-I would tell you to go ahead and call him- or write a letter to him expressing all you're feeling..totally from your heart. I don't know if it's the right thing, but after 10 years, I would do that. I would tell him how much I am hurting over this...
I hope you find some relief to this soon
Frida
Posted by LadyBug on June 19, 2006, at 7:39:24
In reply to Dinah, Did you see your T?, posted by LadyBug on June 18, 2006, at 22:13:48
Thanks for pointing out the thread for me so I could read it. I just thought you'd start a new one.
You have my support in whatever you choose to do. I hope you can work it out in the best way that will fill your needs.
LadyBug
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