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Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
My T gave me a cool book. But we went walking and I forgot it a her office. Its brand new from a store and everything. My T is awful nice to me. i don't get it. I'm afraid I'll burn her out cuz I'm such and idiot lotsa times.
My toughie2(inside person) said 'you ever had sh*t up your nose?' Why would she say that? It bothers me. I guess I goto learn to let these things go. She can be nasty anyways.
I'm so confused these days.
Why is T nice to me?
There's got to be a catch somewhere.
I just too stupid to see it.
Sorry I not much good to noone. I see posts to me.
Feels good to see.
Thanks.
Hope everyone is hanging in there, even if its by the teeth. Just hang on!
Take care
Muffled- mebbe I should chnage my name to confused.
Posted by James K on February 9, 2006, at 13:40:43
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
You've sent me some hugs lately. they meant a lot to me. ((muffled)). I hope that's okay. I've been mean to myself and others lately and you were nice to me. Please be nice to yourself right now. you are special and deserve it.
james k
Posted by Damos on February 9, 2006, at 15:09:27
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
> Muffled- mebbe I should chnage my name to confused.
If you do I'll change mine to dazed, that we can happily be dazed and confused when we post to each other ;-)
Did ya ever think that she might be nice to you because she's seeing you and not getting stuck on what you've done or how you act sometimes. Just seeing you for who you are, and accepting you for that too.
What goes around comes around Muffled. You give lots a love and kindness and caring and support and warmth and humour and other good stuff to so many here - even on days when you're doing it tuff yourself. So it's only right that some of that is coming back to you. The hard bit is to be able to just accept it and not think you don't deserve it - cause you do. You and the kids. You do.
((((((((((Muffled)))))))))))
Posted by LegWarmers on February 9, 2006, at 16:56:29
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
> Why is T nice to me?
> There's got to be a catch somewhere.
Because she cares about you, because you are a nice person> I just too stupid to see it.
You're not stupid, we can never see whats right in front of us, well I can't anyway. She obviously cares about you
>Sorry I not much good to noone. I see posts to me.
Feels good to see.
Thanks.I really appreciated the hug you gave me, so, thank you
(((muffled)))
Posted by happyflower on February 9, 2006, at 17:05:07
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
> My T gave me a cool book. But we went walking and I forgot it a her office. Its brand new from a store and everything. My T is awful nice to me. i don't get it. I'm afraid I'll burn her out cuz I'm such and idiot lotsa times.
I think you just made an honest mistake and simply forgot it. It can happen to anyone, don't be so hard on yourself. :)
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> Why is T nice to me?
> There's got to be a catch somewhere.
> I just too stupid to see it.Because you are delightful, muffy, and it is easy to care about you. I am glad you have a nice T. So are you borrowing the book, or do you get to keep it? That was nice of her.
> Sorry I not much good to noone. I see posts to me.
YOu help me everything you post. You make me smile, and you know not very many people can do that. You are a sweety!
> Muffled- mebbe I should chnage my name to confused.
HOw about magnificate? I would have to look up how to spell it though. LOL
Posted by fairywings on February 9, 2006, at 17:41:44
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
((muffled))
I think sometimes some T's are just good at what they do. Sounds like she cares about you bec. she knows you're in pain, and wants to help. She sounds so nice - taking walks with you, and thinking about you when she comes across a book she thinks you might like. That's really sweet. Sounds like she wants you to feel cared about.
fw
Posted by crazy teresa on February 9, 2006, at 21:05:41
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
Hey Muffy,
Sometimes we are nice to one another for no good reason, just like your T was to you. Don't question it, just accept it and enjoy it.
That sounds easy, but can be very hard and confusing to many of us whom have been hurt/used in the past.
The youngest one in you probably wouldn't have a problem with this (childlike faith), but some of the older ones might.
I'm so happy that you have a nice T!
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:09:04
In reply to muffled » muffled, posted by James K on February 9, 2006, at 13:40:43
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:18:24
In reply to Re: Confused*trigger* » muffled, posted by Damos on February 9, 2006, at 15:09:27
Did ya ever think that she might be nice to you because she's seeing you and not getting stuck on what you've done or how you act sometimes. Just seeing you for who you are, and accepting you for that too.
***Its hard for me to figger that. Real, real hard. She knows bout some stupid stuff I done, but she don't run away?
I don't understand it.
She does the opposite.
Mebbe she crazier than ME!!!!!
HA!
Thx Damos.
Hey you posting alot, which is nice, but you OK?
((((Damos))))
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:19:42
In reply to Re: Confused*trigger*, posted by LegWarmers on February 9, 2006, at 16:56:29
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:24:27
In reply to Re: Confused*trigger*, posted by happyflower on February 9, 2006, at 17:05:07
HA! Hey HF, my T bought ME a book! A brand new book! AND she took me for a walk with her dogs(I LOVE dogs). And she helped me with this referral thing. ALL this in one day. I don't get it.
This is not the way the world is.
I'm afraid I'll be the one to wreck her somehow :-(
Anyhow.
Ya, she real nice.
I very lucky.
I admire you trying to work on living with you husband, hope it can work for you.
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:27:53
In reply to Re: Confused*trigger* » muffled, posted by fairywings on February 9, 2006, at 17:41:44
Sounds like she wants you to feel cared about.***So like a theraputic technique. Hmmmmmm! Love it!
THAT I can accept. Otherwise it just doesn't make sense. NObody is THAT nice and doesn't get wrecked by life.
Don't want her to be wrecked.
Thanks FW.
Hope you doing ok.
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:33:45
In reply to Re: Confused*trigger* » muffled, posted by crazy teresa on February 9, 2006, at 21:05:41
** Hey CT,
>
> Sometimes we are nice to one another for no good reason, just like your T was to you. Don't question it, just accept it and enjoy it.
**Dunno if I can do that. Lifes not like that.
>
> That sounds easy, but can be very hard and confusing to many of us whom have been hurt/used in the past.
**EXACTLY.
>
> The youngest one in you probably wouldn't have a problem with this (childlike faith), but some of the older ones might.
**Hmmm. I have been wanting to SI(injury) but I need to figger out why....mebbe its the kid upset by the conflict over all this....Dunno, gotta chill on that :-(
>
> I'm so happy that you have a nice T!
***Yeah, she so nice. Not perfect(thank goodness). I hope the world don't eat her up and spit her out :-(
She tells me about God too. Guess He takes care of her....
Thanks CT.
Posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 22:41:02
In reply to Confused*trigger*, posted by muffled on February 9, 2006, at 13:22:49
I gonna try and write this better:
My T gave me a cool book. As a gift!My toughie2 said "you ever had sh*t up your nose?"(to ME, not to my T) Why would she say that? It bothers me. I guess I goto learn to let these things go. She can be nasty anyways.(toughie2 can be nasty, NOT my T)
I'm so confused these days.(DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUH!)
There's got to be a catch somewhere.
I just too stupid to see it.
There, just wanted to clear up any misconceptions, when I read that post it didn't make good sense and made my T sound bad. You guys mostly seemed to get it though. Cool. There's lots that wouldn't. Babble is cool for that. Too bad Dr. Bob is so tough on the rules though :-(
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