Psycho-Babble Psychology Thread 578025

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I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad

Posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 13:02:21

Last week at the workout place I saw my T jogging. We were done at the same time, and I joking said to him, so you done already? He said yeah, I am just going for a short run today. I said well I am just getting started, (i was already exercising before him). He said well you have more energy then me. Then while he was drinking from the fountain, I said well that is because he is a lazy bum.
Now I feel bad, I hate it when I say stuff and think later, that I shouldn't of said it even if I was joking. It was kinda insensitive of me to say that. I called him up a couple of days and left an apology on his voice mail. He didn't calle me back, but he won't unless I resquest that I want him to, and I didn't. I hope he knows I was joking, but I hope he doesn't think I am a total jerk. What do you think about this? I don't officially see him for another 3 weeks. I feel like my foot is still in my mouth.

 

Re: I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad » happyflower

Posted by annierose on November 12, 2005, at 14:24:03

In reply to I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad, posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 13:02:21

I think he knows you meant it as a joke. And on top of it, you did apologize. The comment seems harmless enough. But I know you feel bad if you think he thinks you hurt his feelings.

 

I agree with Annie :) (nm)

Posted by muffled on November 12, 2005, at 14:42:41

In reply to Re: I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad » happyflower, posted by annierose on November 12, 2005, at 14:24:03

 

Re: I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad

Posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 16:44:49

In reply to I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad, posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 13:02:21

I guess I should worry more about what he thinks when I told him that since he wasn't going to my concert I will have to find somebody else to throw my underware at . Maybe the commment has stuck with him more than me calling him a lazy bum! LOL Boy am I nuts! :) He must think I am nuts! LOL

 

Haha, and my T can't see me for 3 weeks to discuss (nm)

Posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 16:46:25

In reply to Re: I called my T a lazy bum and now I feel bad, posted by happyflower on November 12, 2005, at 16:44:49


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