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Posted by crushedout on June 30, 2005, at 9:35:57
I'm kind of dreading it. Can anyone please tell me what I should say to her? I feel so stuck and depressed and anguished about the whole thing. Like, I want to tell her I'm going to leave her and get a reaction out of her. I just need a reaction. I'm sick of the blank slate.I know what you all are going to tell me: I just have to tell her exactly what I'm telling you. Right?
Please give me something to say, a way to start. I'm lost.
Posted by crushedout on June 30, 2005, at 14:45:20
In reply to I have therapy today, posted by crushedout on June 30, 2005, at 9:35:57
I talked to her about how I've been feeling about therapy and she was very receptive to everything I had to say, made some good connections, and felt optimistic that we could work it out and that doing so was important.I feel a lot better. It was hard to talk about but I did it. My faith in her is renewed and I have hope that it will be ok.
Of course, in two weeks I may be singing a different tune again but I guess that's how it goes. Round and round.
Posted by happyflower on June 30, 2005, at 14:52:01
In reply to It went really well, posted by crushedout on June 30, 2005, at 14:45:20
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> I talked to her about how I've been feeling about therapy and she was very receptive to everything I had to say, made some good connections, and felt optimistic that we could work it out and that doing so was important.
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This is great! It always feel better when they can reconnect. I think our relationship with our T's is as important as our other relationships with other people.> Of course, in two weeks I may be singing a different tune again but I guess that's how it goes. Round and round.
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I feel like I am on that merry-go-round right now. It is driving me crazy! Good job on todays session. Take a break and put your feet up and eat some chocolate! :)
Posted by fallsfall on June 30, 2005, at 16:32:53
In reply to It went really well, posted by crushedout on June 30, 2005, at 14:45:20
Good job, CrushedOut.
You talked about what was important to you. And that was helpful. I'm glad that it made things better for you.
And it does go round and round, doesn't it?
Hang in there!
Falls
Posted by Dinah on July 2, 2005, at 9:49:30
In reply to It went really well, posted by crushedout on June 30, 2005, at 14:45:20
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