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Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 20:32:33
I am feeling so extremely down.. and verge of a complete collapse. And I don't feel like talking to my hsuband or to my father today. I am so angry with both of them. I don't have anyone to talk to right now.. and I so down I am afraid.
Posted by Dinah on May 12, 2005, at 20:47:14
In reply to Can someone chat with me? extremely down **Trigger, posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 20:32:33
I need to work in a bit. But I'm free for a while.
Is it the performance review?
Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 20:50:24
In reply to Can someone chat with me? extremely down **Trigger, posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 20:32:33
I am sorry guys for posting so many triggers lately.
Forget it.. I will manage. I am going to a temple now, somehow will manage.
Thanks for your support.
I guess all this talk aobut childhood and father and stuff has made things extremely bad for me.
And I don't have enough support to handle it in real world. I am sitting here all alone and managing everything by myself.
My fahter was my strong point, and I kept him in so high esteem, pulling him down has really made things very bad for me. And I feel like I don't have anyone at all to care for me really now - not my husband, not my father, and not my mom. I wish I didn't even go to therapy here. It has made things so very bad for me.
Posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 20:55:16
In reply to What can I do?, posted by Dinah on May 12, 2005, at 20:47:14
No it is not the perf. review. It was over about a month back - and it was not a major review. So I am still safe in my work. And my work is not the first priority for me anyway now. I can find plenty of other jobs if I want to.
It is just all these personal issues. And losing my ex T, and things about my father, and childhood, and problems with my husband, and having to go back to India. And I am managing everything by myself here.. I am regressing and feeling like a child, and very hurt and afraid and scared.. and I cannot afford to do it now.
Thanks Dinah. I am going to go home now and go to a temple. I am really sorry for taking too much of everyones time and energy here. I am really sorry about it and feel really bad. These two three weeks were so pathetically bad for me.
Posted by Tamar on May 13, 2005, at 5:05:46
In reply to Re: What can I do? » Dinah, posted by pinkeye on May 12, 2005, at 20:55:16
I'm sorry you're feeling so down. You've been doing a lot of good psychological work recently, and it sounds like you're experiencing a lot of sadness about your past. Remnember your T praised you for the good work you've been doing. So although it's hard at the moment, it will get better. How often are you seeing your T? Do you need to see her more often? Is that a possibility?
> It is just all these personal issues. And losing my ex T, and things about my father, and childhood, and problems with my husband, and having to go back to India. And I am managing everything by myself here.. I am regressing and feeling like a child, and very hurt and afraid and scared.. and I cannot afford to do it now.
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> Thanks Dinah. I am going to go home now and go to a temple. I am really sorry for taking too much of everyones time and energy here. I am really sorry about it and feel really bad. These two three weeks were so pathetically bad for me.There's definitely no need to apologise for posting a lot here. You don't take too much of our time and energy. We care about you.
I hope you're feeling better soon. Sending you hugs,
Tamar
Posted by sunny10 on May 13, 2005, at 8:27:58
In reply to Re: What can I do? » pinkeye, posted by Tamar on May 13, 2005, at 5:05:46
Posted by pinkeye on May 13, 2005, at 14:00:26
In reply to Re: big, huge, gigantic hugs, pinkeye (nm), posted by sunny10 on May 13, 2005, at 8:27:58
This is the end of the thread.
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