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Posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
well how is everyone doing .... im am good !!! most of you guys know me here ... i had my baby ... it's a girl and her name is alexis nicole .. she was 7pds 5 oz and she was 3 weeks early but very healthy !!! as you all know the father of my baby was my former t and me and him are no longer speaking and he has nothing to do with me or alexis .. even know it was painful to see him leave me and leave OUr child ... it was better off for me ... even know i wish i he was here for our baby !!!
after everything i went through with him ... he turned out to be the mean hurtful person he was when all the stuff happened in therpy which i think most of you guys know that whole mess ... if i never saw him again it would suit me fine but it would hurt me to see my child grow up with out a father ... i hope everyone is doing good i have missed everyone !!!!
Posted by gardenergirl on March 22, 2005, at 23:21:51
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Oh sweetie, congratulations on your baby. I bet she is just beautiful and precious. I'm so glad she is healthy, and you sound happy, which is a joy to hear. I'm sorry that your baby's daddy is not going to be around, but it's good you know his true colors.
You've got a very special wee one now, and she's gonna love her mommy with so much love. And I bet you are already so in love with her. I'm smiling ear to ear just thinking about it.
Thanks so much for letting us know. I'm so happy for you.
((((tmp and alexis nicole))))
gg
Posted by messadivoce on March 23, 2005, at 0:58:48
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Congratulations!! I hope you have people around you to support and help...you are so strong to face this without your baby's daddy!! Welcome to the world, Alexis!!
Posted by Dinah on March 23, 2005, at 5:08:03
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
A baby is a very special blessing.
Posted by Speaker on March 23, 2005, at 7:27:40
In reply to A big kiss for Alexis from me. » toomuchpain, posted by Dinah on March 23, 2005, at 5:08:03
I'm so happy that you and baby are well!! I'm so sorry to hear a "trusted" person was not good to you. I hope even though he is not in your life that he is financially supporting you.
Posted by fallsfall on March 23, 2005, at 7:32:16
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday to you!
Happy birthday, little Alexis!
Happy birthday to you!TooMuchPain, I am so glad that the pregnancy went well and that Alexis is healthy! 3 weeks early is a little early, but 7 lbs, 5 oz is a very healthy weight for a baby. I bet she is so beautiful. I'm so happy for you.
Her father has shown that he is not reliable. Please try to protect yourself, and particularly Alexis, from the emotional rollercoaster that he puts you on.
I'm sure you are a wonderful mother, and Alexis is blessed to have you in her life. Sleep when she sleeps. Know that life won't always be the way she wants it (that means that sometimes she will cry and all you can do is be there with her - sometimes you won't be able to make it all better). And enjoy the wonder of life.
Posted by sunny10 on March 23, 2005, at 8:18:31
In reply to Re: i popppppped!!! » toomuchpain, posted by fallsfall on March 23, 2005, at 7:32:16
ooooooooh, congratulations, little mother!! Alexis Nicole is a beautiful name.
I, too, hope that daddy is at least financially responsible and that if you decide to "let him into his daughter's life" that you do so without letting him into your heart again. He has already shown great disregard for your well-being.
For Alexis' sake, I hope she gets what she needs from him- even if that is nothing!
My biological father left my mom before I was born. I never really even thought about him. My godmother kept tabs on him in case I ever wanted to meet him, but I have never felt the need to do so. You never know, Alexis may not need her daddy either.
Best wishes for you, and definitely follow that advice about sleeping when she does!
Give her a kiss from me, too,
sunny10
Posted by Joslynn on March 23, 2005, at 8:47:08
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Congratulations! I am glad you have a healthy little girl. I agree that really is a pretty name.
As for the father thing...you know, she can still get male role models from brothers if you have any, friends, or you own father if he is a good model, etc. I think that not having the biological father involved is better than having someone involved who is hurtful emotionally. And who knows, you are young, you could marry someone else who will be a great Dad, you just never know what good things are in store. So I wouldn't worry about that too much.
Just focus on your baby and your own health, and the rest will come together.
Spring must be a nice time to have a new baby!
Posted by B2chica on March 23, 2005, at 9:44:12
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Ohhhhh that's WONDERFUL!!
after all your pain, this is such an Incredible blessing!
and i agree with all the other posts, it's good you've seen 'his' true colors Now rather than later.
please becareful weather or not you decide to let him be a part of you or Alexis' new life. i also agree that there are PLenty of other male role models a little girl can have. much better than an unreliable biological one!but enough of that. YEAH!!!!!!
healthy, beautiful little girl! Congrats again. and So glad to hear mom's healthy too!lots of xxx and ooo to both mom and baby
b2c.
Posted by Annierose on March 23, 2005, at 11:19:39
In reply to Re: i popppppped!!!, posted by Joslynn on March 23, 2005, at 8:47:08
Congratulations!!
Remember the best gift Alexis has is YOU as her mommy! Wishing you oceans of happiness and sleep!
Keep us posted.
Posted by pinkeye on March 23, 2005, at 12:44:34
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Best wishes toomuchpain. I am sure Alexis is very pretty and she will grow up to be a beautiful, healthy and strong woman.
Kids need the father too, but many kids survive and grow up just fine with enough love and affection just from one parent. So be sure to shower her with love and affection and care yourself. I am sure you will take care of her very well. And you might one day marry a nice young man, who will take care of you and Alexis in ways that will make both of your hearts melt. There are lots and lots of wonderful and good men around. You just have to be open to find them.
Posted by pegasus on March 24, 2005, at 10:27:18
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Congratulations!! That's so wonderful. I didn't realize that you were so far along. I guess when you first announced that you were pregnant here, I thought you'd just become pregnant.
I hope you're enjoying your little precious baby. And I hope she's being easy on you and letting you sleep a bit. I wish we could have a babble baby shower for you, and see pics and everything. I'm sure she's beautiful.
Please check in now and then when you have a chance, and let us know how it's going.
((((TMP and Alexis)))
pegasus
Posted by annierose on March 24, 2005, at 17:04:37
In reply to Re: i popppppped!!!, posted by pegasus on March 24, 2005, at 10:27:18
I thought the same thing ... wish we could throw her an internet baby shower :) Don't think it's possible. But she can download a photo our way ...
Posted by partlycloudy on March 25, 2005, at 10:04:55
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Posted by toomuchpain on March 26, 2005, at 11:02:54
In reply to Congratulations! (nm), posted by partlycloudy on March 25, 2005, at 10:04:55
i could send everyone a photo send some email addresses my way u can send u email addy to me at sexygurlie0724@peoplepc.com
Posted by shrinking violet on March 26, 2005, at 12:27:11
In reply to Re: Congratulations!, posted by toomuchpain on March 26, 2005, at 11:02:54
Posted by antigua on March 30, 2005, at 20:05:40
In reply to i popppppped!!!, posted by toomuchpain on March 22, 2005, at 22:48:24
Congratulations, that is just so wonderful. I hope you love her to death. When I became a mother, I found a peace about the world, and a sense of belonging that I never knew existed.
I wish I could help w/the long nights (actually the days can be worse) that you have to do on your own.
But it's worth it, it's the greatest joy in the world.
Congrats,
love,
antigua
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