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Posted by Augustina on February 17, 2005, at 10:45:04
My T would not let me end session last night until I promised to make a doctor’s appointment for a medical problem I have related to my eating disorder. I casually mentioned the problem to him towards the end of my session and he became very serious all of a sudden and wanted to know why I haven’t done anything about it yet. I tried to make light of the situation saying that I would eventually see an MD but he wouldn’t buy that and kept at me until I basically promised him that yes, I would make the appointment ASAP.
After session I felt so many strange emotions about that interaction; growing up, my parents, though not neglectful, did not show too much concern about my physical health and I hardly saw the doctor unless it was truly a matter of life/death. My T’s persistence made me feel cared for (a feeling I didn’t get a lot of as a child) and his concern really touched me.
Anyways, I don’t post often but I just wanted to share that with you all. Thanks.
Posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 17, 2005, at 11:54:04
In reply to Feeling cared for, posted by Augustina on February 17, 2005, at 10:45:04
That's a wonderful feeling, isn't it, when you know they care? Hold onto that feeling!
Posted by B2chica on February 17, 2005, at 12:23:37
In reply to Feeling cared for, posted by Augustina on February 17, 2005, at 10:45:04
thank you for sharing that.
that must have felt wonderful. sounds like you have a good T.
b2c.
Posted by Augustina on February 17, 2005, at 12:51:19
In reply to Re: Feeling cared for, posted by Miss Honeychurch on February 17, 2005, at 11:54:04
Posted by Augustina on February 17, 2005, at 12:58:28
In reply to Re: Feeling cared for » Augustina, posted by B2chica on February 17, 2005, at 12:23:37
b2C,
I don't always get that feeling at every session so when I do, I definitely cherish it!
A.
Posted by Aphrodite on February 17, 2005, at 14:58:57
In reply to Feeling cared for, posted by Augustina on February 17, 2005, at 10:45:04
This could be a very transformative moment for you. Not only was there genuine interest and concern about *you*, but in an area where you have been neglected in the past. This could take you quantum leaps forward in your healing and your therapy. Hold on to it and build on it. Thanks so much for sharing!
Posted by Augustina on February 18, 2005, at 1:14:53
In reply to Re: Feeling cared for » Augustina, posted by Aphrodite on February 17, 2005, at 14:58:57
Aphrodite,
thank-you for your insight! I didn't even think of it in this way but now I feel more encouraged about my therapy and where it is taking me. I'm hoping I'll have the courage at my next session to let my T know how he made me feel. Thanks again.
-A.
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