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Posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
Hi everyone,
I heard from toomuchpain tonight. Her world's turned upside down right now. I think some of you know she got involved again with her ex-T. It ended badly. Very badly. She's pregnant. She wants to post about it, but she is not feeling ready to yet. But she wanted people to know. She's feeling scared, angry, hurt, you name it. Please join me in offering her our support and caring. I hope she will post herself about this soon.((((((((tmp)))))))))
gg
Posted by TofuEmmy on November 22, 2004, at 23:58:32
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
TMP - Big hugs to you hon! I wish you strength and offer you support. Pregnancy should be such a simply joyous time for a young woman. I'm sorry it's such a complicated time for you. I hope you are being supported by family and have loving people in your life to help with the times ahead.
Please come back and post when you are able. You will find great support here when you are ready!
Take care! emmy
Posted by Susan47 on November 23, 2004, at 0:27:10
In reply to Re: Message from toomuchpain, posted by TofuEmmy on November 22, 2004, at 23:58:32
What TofuEmmy said, ditto toomuchpain. You have my support here too.
Posted by antigua on November 23, 2004, at 7:44:37
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
TMP,
We are here if you need us. Post if it helps.
I'm sending hugs and comfort you way.
antigua
Posted by partlycloudy on November 23, 2004, at 8:11:46
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
Toomuchpain, hang in there for us, OK? We care very much about you and are here for you.
Posted by Dinah on November 23, 2004, at 8:36:13
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
Posted by saw on November 23, 2004, at 8:45:47
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
How frightening for you. Please look after yourself.
With kind thoughts sent your way
Sabrina
Posted by Joslynn on November 23, 2004, at 11:21:39
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
TMP,
Please do what you have to do to take care of yourself and your baby.
I hope you find a good therapist, ob-gyn, pdoc and a good attorney as well.
Do you have support of family and friends around you? Now is when you need people close to you in real life. And also, I don't know your spiritual beliefs, but if you have a spiritual community, church or temple etc., I would draw close to them now and find nonjudgmental caring people who can help you through this.
Also, the good thing is, you did have the courage to go to that professional board and all of that is on record now. This will make things easier for advocating for yourself in the future, when you are ready to deal with that.
Just breathe, one day at a time.
Posted by shrinking violet on November 23, 2004, at 19:46:57
In reply to Re: Message from toomuchpain, posted by Susan47 on November 23, 2004, at 0:27:10
Posted by Susan47 on November 23, 2004, at 20:36:03
In reply to Re: Message from toomuchpain, posted by Joslynn on November 23, 2004, at 11:21:39
tmp,
How is the male sperm donor treating you and handling this?
Posted by Aphrodite on November 23, 2004, at 20:42:11
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
I think Joslynn has very wise advise for you.
Please post if you think it will help. We will respond and support you.
Posted by Aphrodite on November 23, 2004, at 20:43:04
In reply to Re: Message from toomuchpain » gardenergirl, posted by Aphrodite on November 23, 2004, at 20:42:11
Posted by Fallen4MyT on November 23, 2004, at 23:47:45
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
I haven't been around for a long time but will be on more often and I am here for you girl...praying for you too.
Posted by fallsfall on November 24, 2004, at 7:09:13
In reply to Message from toomuchpain, posted by gardenergirl on November 22, 2004, at 23:24:42
(((((Toomuchpain)))))
I will look for your post. In the meantime, know that I am sending you my support. Please take care of yourself.
(((((Toomuchpain)))))
With love,
Falls.
Posted by toomuchpain on November 24, 2004, at 7:14:58
In reply to Re: Message from toomuchpain, posted by fallsfall on November 24, 2004, at 7:09:13
hi all thanks for the support i am so glad that u guys are here for me ... like i told gg i was scared to death ppl would not be suppotive and ppl would just think i was bad person something that is why i didnt post ...
i am feeling so many different emotions it is un real .... i will keep every one up to date on my situiton ... if u all want to talk to me i have yahoo and aim/aol ill give u all the name if u would like to chat
(((((thanks))))))
Posted by pegasus on November 24, 2004, at 13:16:47
In reply to Re: Message from toomuchpain, posted by toomuchpain on November 24, 2004, at 7:14:58
Oh, sweetie, of course we'll support you. I'm sorry that you even had to worry about that. We know what you've been through, and that none of this can be easy for you now. I join with everyone else in wishing you support outside of babble as well. I hope that you find some peace and even happiness in all of this.
Sending all my positive energy to you
pegasus
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