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Posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 0:14:20
AS YOU ALL KNOW MY SITUITON AT LEAST MOST OF YOU.
I AM CURRENTLY SEEING A THERAPIST NOW WHICH I HAVE BEEN SEEING SINCE THE TRANSFER.. WHICH IS IN THE SAME OFFICE/BUILDING AS MY EX-T. I SEE MY EX T EVERY TIME I GO THERE. SEEING HIM IS HARD TO BARE ... IT HURTS TO MUCH !!!
SHOULD I GO TO ANOTHER THERAPIST OUTSIDE THAT OFFICE THAT DONT KNOW WHAT HAS HAPPEN WITH MY EX T OR SHOULD I STICK IT OUT ...
MY THERAPY SESSIONS I HAVE HAD REVOLED AROUND MY EX T AND THE FEELINGS THAT WERE INVOLED ON BOTH ENDS.
HOW HEALTHY IS IT TO TALK ABOUT THIS ALL THE TIME AND EVERY SESSION? I DO HAVE OTHER PROBLEMS I TRY TO TALK ABOUT BUT SHE ALWAYS AVOIDS OTHER SUBJECTS AND GOES RIGHT ON TO MY EX T .
I STRUGGLE AT HOME AND MY EVERY DAY LIFE OVER THIS STILL WHICH EFFECTS MY OUTSIDE REALTIONSHIPS.. AT LEAST WITH MY BOYFRIEND.. SEX ..I CAN NOT DO CUS I AM CONSTANLY THINKING ABOUT MY EX T ?? IS THAT WRONG ??
I JUST WANT TO RUN AWAY WITH MY EX T .. I FEEL CRAZY ...
JUST INCASE ANYONE FORGOT I AM FORMER LILMSBUBBLES
THANKZZZ FOR LISTENING TO MY RANT ...
ANY ADVICE WOULD BE HELPFUL !!!!
Posted by gardenergirl on March 1, 2004, at 0:21:33
In reply to where should i go ?, posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 0:14:20
If you are having trouble with the office and the new T, certainly you can try going somewhere else. It sounds like a really difficult situation you are in. No wonder it is so hard. Perhaps you could consult another T, to talk about what you are looking for, what you experienced with your old T (briefly), and what you are doing with your current T. Maybe this can help you sort it out.
Another thought I had is you could talk with your current T about treatment goals. If your own goals are different from hers/his?, then that will make treatment more difficult.
Good luck in working this out. I really feel for you.
(((toomuchpain)))
gg
Posted by Crooked Heart on March 1, 2004, at 14:28:53
In reply to where should i go ?, posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 0:14:20
I'm sorry you don't feel you're getting anywhere at present. Can't add anything to gg's advice, but I'm thinking of you, you're having such a tough time.
Keep posting.
Posted by terrics on March 1, 2004, at 15:14:35
In reply to where should i go ?, posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 0:14:20
Sorry you are having such a bad time. Perhaps it would be a good idea to start looking somewhere else for a T. I would check out a few. good luck. Let us know. terrics
Posted by Fallen4myT on March 1, 2004, at 16:49:05
In reply to where should i go ?, posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 0:14:20
Hi I think...JMO, that maybe looking for a new T out of that office WHILE you see this one...least till you have a T would be best.,.then you could work on ALL issues NOT just one..Let us know please?
Posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 22:40:22
In reply to Re: where should i go ? » toomuchpain, posted by Fallen4myT on March 1, 2004, at 16:49:05
what do u guys think of what i am sayin??? or any advice
thank u everyone for ur input ... i appreticate it greatly
Posted by Dinah on March 1, 2004, at 22:49:03
In reply to dinah...karen kay...still hurting..panda bear, posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 22:40:22
I'm always loathe to suggest that someone find a new therapist, but it can't hurt to look, can it? If you don't think this one is a good match?
Posted by Karen_kay on March 2, 2004, at 7:44:07
In reply to dinah...karen kay...still hurting..panda bear, posted by toomuchpain on March 1, 2004, at 22:40:22
Ahhh, hun... I'm sorry, I haven't been posting much lately as I've been busy.....
I think you should definetely try to find a new therapist, as your current one doesn't seem to be helping the situation much. Laying the "blame" on you isn't therapuetic or reasonable to help you in this matter. Is it possible for you to see someone outside of that current office? That may be your best bet.
I'm sorry it's so hard for you right now. And not having "someone in your corner" makes it even harder. It may be hard to adjust to yet another therapist, but in the long run, it may help you even more.
But, if you are still having problems facing the termination of your previous therapist, Please be sure to talk aobut that with yet another therapist until you finally receive the closure you need in this matter...
And don't let anyone tell you for a second that it was your fault. That is neither productive or accurate....
Hang in there hun! I know you'll get through this!
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