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Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 26, 2008, at 19:04:35
we went out for dinner and saw dead kitty by the side of the road. it was him. we buried him in the backyard with a granite headstone. I can't stop crying. He was just a baby
Posted by MidnightBlue on April 26, 2008, at 20:04:29
In reply to my cat is never coming home, posted by llurpsienoodle on April 26, 2008, at 19:04:35
LL,
I'm so very very sorry. I know Cat was a very special comfort to you. (((((HUGS))))) my sweet one.
MB
Posted by Quintal on April 27, 2008, at 13:54:01
In reply to my cat is never coming home, posted by llurpsienoodle on April 26, 2008, at 19:04:35
I don't know why animal death disturbs me more than humans. I suppose because they're innocent, like little children. Anyway, sorry to hear about little kitty. You have my sympathy (((lurpsie))).
Q
Posted by Phillipa on April 27, 2008, at 14:23:44
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home » llurpsienoodle, posted by Quintal on April 27, 2008, at 13:54:01
I want my Brandy and Sheeba little pups. But for some comfort you will cry healing tears google musical Rainbows Bridge. Love Phillipa
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 8:24:56
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home » llurpsienoodle, posted by MidnightBlue on April 26, 2008, at 20:04:29
thanks mb
I'm trying to stay busy. I have been doing craft projects, like my knitting and making jewelery.
the xanax and klonopin and zyprexa is helping too.
take care,
-Llp.s. we are getting a kitten in 4 short weeks
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 8:27:22
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home » llurpsienoodle, posted by Quintal on April 27, 2008, at 13:54:01
> I don't know why animal death disturbs me more than humans. I suppose because they're innocent, like little children. Anyway, sorry to hear about little kitty. You have my sympathy (((lurpsie))).
>
> QI haven't had anybody or anypet die in a long time. my grief was out of practice. ..
:(RIP kitty
Posted by B2chica on April 28, 2008, at 13:16:14
In reply to my cat is never coming home, posted by llurpsienoodle on April 26, 2008, at 19:04:35
it may not be that much comfort Ll, but you cat DID come home. you made that happen. and now you kitty will rest peacefully forever at home where kitty was loved most.
b2c.
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 19:57:14
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home » llurpsienoodle, posted by MidnightBlue on April 26, 2008, at 20:04:29
I remember when I first got kitty, one year ago... I was scared that I wouldn't be able to take good care of him, that I'd forget to give him food and water, or that I'd smoosh him if he slept next to me.
He WAS a great comfort to me. When I lived in Chicago, I had a mousie in my apt. When kitty moved in, my mousie moved out.
He used to sit on my lap and hiss and scratch if I tried to move. That's why I spend so much time on the computer, because kitty wanted to be comfy.
-Ll
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 19:59:14
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home » llurpsienoodle, posted by Quintal on April 27, 2008, at 13:54:01
> I don't know why animal death disturbs me more than humans. I suppose because they're innocent, like little children. Anyway, sorry to hear about little kitty. You have my sympathy (((lurpsie))).
>
> QKitty was like a little rascal, always finding a way to get into trouble, and then when we would yell in reprobation he would utter a little kitten meow "who, me?"
He was *kind of* innocent, and kind of a bad-*ss.
(((kitty)))
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 20:00:40
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home, posted by Phillipa on April 27, 2008, at 14:23:44
thanks for the suggestion, it's a lovely poem, and a moving website.
I wish I didn't have to go through this, but at least I'm not alone.
:(
' '' ' ' ' ''' ' ' ' ''
those are tears,
ll
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 20:02:25
In reply to Re: my cat is never coming home...but » llurpsienoodle, posted by B2chica on April 28, 2008, at 13:16:14
> it may not be that much comfort Ll, but you cat DID come home. you made that happen. and now you kitty will rest peacefully forever at home where kitty was loved most.
> b2c.Kitty came home and is now buried next to the bird house, his favorite place. thank goodness my h was with me. I couldn't have handled it w/o him. :(
kitty was very much loved by us.
-Ll
Posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 20:04:10
In reply to scared to be kitty's mama » MidnightBlue, posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 19:57:14
I swear I'm cracking up. I composed replies to MB and Quintal, and didn't even notice or remember that I had already replied to them. oh well. such is the nature of the porous llurpsiebrain.
my stomach is stuffed with chocolate cake.
-Ll
Posted by MidnightBlue on April 28, 2008, at 21:28:24
In reply to scared to be kitty's mama » MidnightBlue, posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 19:57:14
I remember that :-) you were a terrified Kitty Mamma! But you became a good one. Actually a terrific Kitty Mamma! And you can do it again. I know you can. I have faith in you LL.
MidnightBlue
Posted by MidnightBlue on April 28, 2008, at 21:31:20
In reply to I'm losing it » llurpsienoodle, posted by llurpsienoodle on April 28, 2008, at 20:04:10
You are not cracking up. You are just fine. You are just feeling the hurt and loss of someone you loved.
MB
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