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Posted by Dr. Bob on December 14, 2006, at 2:05:35
In reply to Displaced Grief, posted by mixed_state on December 12, 2006, at 2:28:05
> in retrospect, I do think Squiggles was displacing his/her feelings over the loss, to the messenger of the information - Dr. Bob - an inclination I myself had. ... Somehow, through displacing my own feelings of mortality and the loss of this real person into the linguistic realm of my own therapy, I have been able to work through it to be able to move on and know that I must keep struggling.
Welcome, and thanks for sharing your experience. I'm glad you've been able to work though this.
Losses do evoke a variety of feelings. Some may be displaced onto me, but I wouldn't assume all feelings about me are displacements, either...
Bob
Posted by rubenstein on December 17, 2006, at 21:29:50
In reply to Re: Displaced Grief, posted by Dr. Bob on December 14, 2006, at 2:05:35
>I didn't know, I have been so busy with finals, how awful, so much death this year, I am so sad
rachel
> in retrospect, I do think Squiggles was displacing his/her feelings over the loss, to the messenger of the information - Dr. Bob - an inclination I myself had. ... Somehow, through displacing my own feelings of mortality and the loss of this real person into the linguistic realm of my own therapy, I have been able to work through it to be able to move on and know that I must keep struggling.
>
> Welcome, and thanks for sharing your experience. I'm glad you've been able to work though this.
>
> Losses do evoke a variety of feelings. Some may be displaced onto me, but I wouldn't assume all feelings about me are displacements, either...
>
> Bob
Posted by muffled on December 18, 2006, at 11:38:56
In reply to Re: Displaced Grief, posted by Dr. Bob on December 14, 2006, at 2:05:35
, but I wouldn't assume all feelings about me are displacements, either...
>
> Bob**Ahhhh yes, how I love to hate Bob.
He's not real. He has no emotions. He's some sort of inhuman robot that runs these boards.....
But then, I think to myself, mebbe he's OK?
Mebbe he DOES get hurt.
Damned if I know.
Bob, I don't think anybody CAN have true feelings about you. You never show enough of yourself for anyone to HAVE any actual true feelings. Noone knows who Bob is. Your a figment. Not real.
Muffled
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