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Posted by fachad on July 25, 2002, at 11:52:02
In reply to Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 11:27:37
I was baptized in the church baptistery at around age 13.
Our church taught that baptism was an act of obedience to Jesus, and was neither necessary nor sufficient to be truly saved. So we were allowed to decide for ourselves when we wanted to be baptized.
They also taught that real baptism was by immersion, not sprinkling.
The Baptistery was a big clear tank above the pulpit, built into the wall. The preacher would plug your nose, then swing you backwards until you were completely dunked. Here he would say, "Buried in the likeness of Christ’s death."
Then he would pull you back up out of the water, and say "Raised in the likeness of Christ’s resurrection"
And all the people said, AMEN.
> Is that allowed?
> How/When were you baptised, if you were at all? How old were you? Was it in a church baptismal with just a little water on your head, or was it a complete dunking? Was it in a nearby lake?
> Don't feel pressured to answer, just a curiousity question and it is open to all.
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> Personally, I was baptised as a baby in the Catholic church with a little water dripped on me. About 5 years ago I was baptised again through a local church at a lake nearby - completely dunked by the pastor and it was incredible. I truly felt like I left the "old self" there and felt really great. Not just because the water was freezing hahaha.
Posted by Phil on July 25, 2002, at 12:21:18
In reply to Re: Can I ask a question about baptism? » SandraDee, posted by fachad on July 25, 2002, at 11:52:02
Baptised just like fachad...I was 35. It was one tough time in my life...life, not the baptism.
Posted by Dinah on July 25, 2002, at 13:57:36
In reply to Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 11:27:37
As a baby in my father's church (by sprinkling). As an older child in my mother's church (by immersion).
Posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 19:57:08
In reply to Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 11:27:37
Any more? Just curious how different churches/religions did baptisms and which ones don't believe in it at all.
My church doesn't believe that you HAVE to be baptised to be 'saved' just that it's sort of an outward sign that you are making that choice.
Posted by Mark H. on July 25, 2002, at 21:30:10
In reply to Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 11:27:37
In the Episcopal Church, you are considered "saved" not by any action of your own whatsoever but by the actions of Jesus Christ on the Cross two thousand years ago. The act of Baptism, whether as an infant or in confirmation as an adult, seals your soul to the living Christ and his church.
As a practicing Vajrayana Buddhist of the Tibetan Nyingma school, I still enjoy an active and eternal relationship with the risen Jesus, even though I have long ago abandoned His church and its beliefs -- beliefs that to me violate His teachings and spirit and intentions.
I'm glad I was baptized as an infant and bound thereby to a tradition larger than myself and my immediate family. I think that is important, regardless of the religion into which we are born.
We have traditions similar to baptism in Vajrayana Buddhism, and for the same reasons. I believe there is a universal truth that threads its way through all legitimate religious and spiritual paths.
Thank you for asking.
With kind regards,
Mark H.
Posted by Phil on July 25, 2002, at 23:36:46
In reply to A Baptized Buddhist, posted by Mark H. on July 25, 2002, at 21:30:10
Mark, you are a great writer. I'd like to hear more fom you if you feel like it.
You explained my feelings towards the teachings of many churches.
Posted by SandraDee on July 26, 2002, at 10:18:02
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist, posted by Phil on July 25, 2002, at 23:36:46
Thank you very much. I was just wondering if the general idea out there was that you do not have to be baptized to be "saved". And it seems that overall most churches believe that.
I don't believe you have to go to church every Sunday (or Saturday) to have a relationship with God. I go because I get taught there, and for the fellowship (well, okay, and they usually have treats after sermon too!).... Thanks again to everyone... any others??
Posted by Dinah on July 26, 2002, at 11:47:48
In reply to You guys are great... , posted by SandraDee on July 26, 2002, at 10:18:02
Sandra, I guess I never did answer the question about baptism as it relates to salvation.
My current church believes that baptism is merely a symbol of the consecration of a child to God. It is a symbolic recognition of the relationship with God that every person is born with. So under my current (Christian) church's guidelines, baptism is not necessary for salvation. God takes care of that himself.
Posted by Ritch on July 27, 2002, at 22:32:23
In reply to A Baptized Buddhist, posted by Mark H. on July 25, 2002, at 21:30:10
> In the Episcopal Church, you are considered "saved" not by any action of your own whatsoever but by the actions of Jesus Christ on the Cross two thousand years ago. The act of Baptism, whether as an infant or in confirmation as an adult, seals your soul to the living Christ and his church.
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> As a practicing Vajrayana Buddhist of the Tibetan Nyingma school, I still enjoy an active and eternal relationship with the risen Jesus, even though I have long ago abandoned His church and its beliefs -- beliefs that to me violate His teachings and spirit and intentions.
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> I'm glad I was baptized as an infant and bound thereby to a tradition larger than myself and my immediate family. I think that is important, regardless of the religion into which we are born.
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> We have traditions similar to baptism in Vajrayana Buddhism, and for the same reasons. I believe there is a universal truth that threads its way through all legitimate religious and spiritual paths.
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> Thank you for asking.
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> With kind regards,
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> Mark H.
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>Hi everybody,
I never have posted here before, but I am fascinated with the discussion. Just an observation, but it seems that Christianity and Buddhism seem to be the most similar of world religions.
Mitch
Posted by SandraDee on July 28, 2002, at 9:22:56
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist » Mark H., posted by Ritch on July 27, 2002, at 22:32:23
I too thought this was interesting. Coming from the Catholic church - I always had the idea that I was saved because I was baptized as a baby.
When I went to my first Christian church, I learned differently, and I just FELT that what they taught was in my heart.
Thanks for joining the discussion. :) Hope to 'see' you around.
Posted by Medusa on July 30, 2002, at 9:44:56
In reply to Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 11:27:37
I was baptised in my parents' pond at the age of 10. It started raining right afterward, and the pastor's wife chose a hymn I hated. My younger sister was allowed to choose, whether to be baptised or not, but I had no choice and we went through pre-baptism bible study together with our parents' pastor.
I was really upset about being baptised, I thought it was supposed to mean something and for me it as sure as heck was not something I could do sincerely.
I know some people who've had un-baptism ceremonies following their deconversions, but I don't know if that would be helpful or not. Just deconverting in itself was cleansing.
Posted by mair on July 30, 2002, at 12:51:51
In reply to Re: Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by Medusa on July 30, 2002, at 9:44:56
Excuse my ignorance....
Mair
Posted by shar on July 30, 2002, at 21:14:15
In reply to Thank you for all those that have responded!, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 19:57:08
I don't know for sure, but I believe I was sprinkled. Probably as a baby.
I think in my family there were religious things that one did: baptism, first communion, confirmation, marriage. As a protestant in the military, folks had the option of going to church 'in town' or if the base was large enough, going to church on base. So, if someone went on base, they took what they could get.
My parents were Methodist, but I was confirmed a Lutheran (in Martin Luther's church) in Germany, after attending classes on base. They used real wine in the communion, that was a shock!
The one protestant chaplain I recall most clearly was the one that made me decide that the church was not for me, and never would be. Nasty, nasty man. Thoroughly disliked children, and would humiliate them quite readily, in public. He let it be known far and wide that we were not forgiven for any of our faults, and that Jesus was perfect (tho as an adult, I can see he was not), and we were damned. No matter how hard we tried, it did not count for anything.
Since then. Well, I just haven't met many people representing churches who really mean it when they say "everyone is welcome." What they really mean is "everyone is welcome as long as after a certain period of time they adhere to our system of thoughts and beliefs."
However there is a church where I live that does accept a lot of diversity in the congregation. I've thought about going there.
But, the bottom line, is that they do expect you to believe and buy into the Jesus/God thing. Trinity. That there is a god. Guess that's what keeps me home.
There is a great lady on tv, Joyce Meyer, who is pretty traditional, and I enjoy her sermons because she is very down to earth. She talks about Jesus/God/Devil and all that, and she clearly believes...but she also believes that god will bless those who live in faith, that there is an up side, not just fear. She is cool. I see her a lot because of insomnia (she is on at like 4:30 a.m.). When I last saw her, she was sermonizing about the buffet approach to religion that exists today, where people get to pick and choose their beliefs. She was pretty good, funny, too.
Oh, well, there I go rambling again.
Shar
Posted by Ritch on July 30, 2002, at 23:03:49
In reply to Hello Mitch, Welcome » Ritch, posted by SandraDee on July 28, 2002, at 9:22:56
> I too thought this was interesting. Coming from the Catholic church - I always had the idea that I was saved because I was baptized as a baby.
> When I went to my first Christian church, I learned differently, and I just FELT that what they taught was in my heart.
> Thanks for joining the discussion. :) Hope to 'see' you around.Hi,
I just checked this and forgot that I even posted anything! My parents never attended church very much. My earliest church memory was being at a Lutheran church daycare center. I always wound up going to church with my friends not my parents. My best friend in junior high was baptist, so I went to a super conservative Southern Baptist church for a while. I remember the charismatic preacher talking about Hell being hotter than most propane conflagurations, etc. I was quite mesmerized by the sermon. There was a guy in our youth group that had been smoking grass for a few months and wore pot leaf patches all over his jean jacket in church (it was a riot-it was of course in the early '70's). He later confessed in front of the church about all of his pot sins and stopped wearing his pot leaf jackets and .. quit smoking pot. Most of my friends after that time were Catholics. But they never had any inclination to ask me to go to church with them! My exposure to Buddhism was when I read "Be Here Now" by Baba Ram Dass (Dr. Richard Alpert-Timothy Leary's cohort). It was given to me by my best friend's girlfriend who was living in a commune at the time. I really got into that one. Perhaps too much. That was when I saw the similarities between Christianity and Buddhism.
Mitch
Posted by Medusa on July 31, 2002, at 6:14:33
In reply to What's deconverting? » Medusa, posted by mair on July 30, 2002, at 12:51:51
Not ignorant at all.
I don't know if "deconversion" is actually a word. If "conversion" is the process of accepting a set of religious doctrine, then for me, "deconversion" was the process of realizing that the set of doctrine to which I'd previously subscribed was incoherent.
Does that explain?
> Excuse my ignorance....
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> Mair
Posted by fachad on July 31, 2002, at 9:48:40
In reply to Re: What's deconverting?, posted by Medusa on July 31, 2002, at 6:14:33
I've had quite a few massive "deconversions" in my life.
I guess you could say I'm a devout deconverter.
I'm going to put that as my religion in the next questionnaire I get that asks for my religion and has a space for "other, specify".
-fachad
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> Not ignorant at all.
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> I don't know if "deconversion" is actually a word. If "conversion" is the process of accepting a set of religious doctrine, then for me, "deconversion" was the process of realizing that the set of doctrine to which I'd previously subscribed was incoherent.
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> Does that explain?
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> > Excuse my ignorance....
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> > Mair
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Posted by Medusa on August 1, 2002, at 9:16:20
In reply to What's deconverting? So That's What It's Called!, posted by fachad on July 31, 2002, at 9:48:40
> I guess you could say I'm a devout deconverter.
Heh, then there are all of the sub-denominations of deconverters ... personal-individual deconverters, evangelical deconverters, de-baptising-by-sprinkling deconverters, de-baptising-by-immersion deconverters, General Association of Regular Deconverters ...
Posted by karla on August 11, 2002, at 22:58:22
In reply to Can I ask a question about baptism?, posted by SandraDee on July 25, 2002, at 11:27:37
I was baptised as a baby in the Catholic church by sprinkling of holy water and in the titles "The name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit". As a married adult at the age of 28 my husband and I decided after indebth bible study to be baptised in Jesus name by complete immersion. Ten years latter my husband is now a minister and has even baptised people in lakes although it is normally done in the baptismal tank at the church(where water is heated). Our missionary friend in Antigua baptises in the ocean or a local swimming pool. It is wonderful how Baptism can leave us so clean inside and how great it feals to be barried in baptism only to be born a new creature in Christ.
> Is that allowed?
> How/When were you baptised, if you were at all? How old were you? Was it in a church baptismal with just a little water on your head, or was it a complete dunking? Was it in a nearby lake?
> Don't feel pressured to answer, just a curiousity question and it is open to all.
>
> Personally, I was baptised as a baby in the Catholic church with a little water dripped on me. About 5 years ago I was baptised again through a local church at a lake nearby - completely dunked by the pastor and it was incredible. I truly felt like I left the "old self" there and felt really great. Not just because the water was freezing hahaha.
Posted by onehandcoding on August 15, 2002, at 17:47:06
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist » Mark H., posted by Ritch on July 27, 2002, at 22:32:23
Christianity and Buddhism are two different things. Buddhism does not recognize the existence of a creator god. Buddhists as a whole have never engaged in any type of 'holy war' or the imperialist-expansionist crusades that Christianity has waged since time immemorial.
Posted by Ritch on August 15, 2002, at 22:31:27
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist, posted by onehandcoding on August 15, 2002, at 17:47:06
> Christianity and Buddhism are two different things. Buddhism does not recognize the existence of a creator god. Buddhists as a whole have never engaged in any type of 'holy war' or the imperialist-expansionist crusades that Christianity has waged since time immemorial.
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>Thanks for the info. I always tend to see the (perhaps rare and few) similarities between seemingly different things. Thanks for pointing out those differences. I would be interested in a more detailed contrast/comparison between the two religions, if you wouldn't mind letting us know.
Mitch
Posted by onehandcoding on August 15, 2002, at 23:09:12
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist » onehandcoding, posted by Ritch on August 15, 2002, at 22:31:27
> Thanks for the info. I always tend to see the (perhaps rare and few) similarities between seemingly different things. Thanks for pointing out those differences. I would be interested in a more detailed contrast/comparison between the two religions, if you wouldn't mind letting us know.
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> Mitch
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One of the cornerstones of Buddhism is that personal 'salvation'/redemption is directed inward and focuses on the concepts of ego and a 'self' being separate from others, as illusion.Another major point is that Buddhism does not recognize the existence of a 'soul', which is definitely a major concern in Christianity.
Yet another major difference is the Buddhist belief that we go through a countless number of lives.
The really cool concept in Buddhism is that of the bodhisattva, which is a highly realized, enlightened being who, although he/she has become enlightened and is fully entitled to enter Nirvana, chooses to continue returning to the cycle of birth-and-death (samsara) in order to help others. Bodhisattvas were actually the subject (and title) of a Steely Dan song, interestingly enough.
Posted by Ritch on August 16, 2002, at 10:33:15
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist, posted by onehandcoding on August 15, 2002, at 23:09:12
> > Thanks for the info. I always tend to see the (perhaps rare and few) similarities between seemingly different things. Thanks for pointing out those differences. I would be interested in a more detailed contrast/comparison between the two religions, if you wouldn't mind letting us know.
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> > Mitch
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> One of the cornerstones of Buddhism is that personal 'salvation'/redemption is directed inward and focuses on the concepts of ego and a 'self' being separate from others, as illusion.
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> Another major point is that Buddhism does not recognize the existence of a 'soul', which is definitely a major concern in Christianity.
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> Yet another major difference is the Buddhist belief that we go through a countless number of lives.
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> The really cool concept in Buddhism is that of the bodhisattva, which is a highly realized, enlightened being who, although he/she has become enlightened and is fully entitled to enter Nirvana, chooses to continue returning to the cycle of birth-and-death (samsara) in order to help others. Bodhisattvas were actually the subject (and title) of a Steely Dan song, interestingly enough.
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Thanks for that information. Just one more little question... If Buddhists do not recognize a soul, but one is capable of multiple rebirths, what is the "essence" of a life called, if not a soul?I like the concept of a Bodhisattva, too. How would one "choose" to remain in samsara?
thanks,
Mitch
Posted by .tabitha. on August 16, 2002, at 15:20:32
In reply to Re: A Baptized Buddhist » onehandcoding, posted by Ritch on August 16, 2002, at 10:33:15
Posted by Ritch on August 16, 2002, at 21:10:00
In reply to Re: essence of life = buddha nature (nm) » Ritch, posted by .tabitha. on August 16, 2002, at 15:20:32
Tabitha,
I meant the essence of *a* life, not essence *of* life in general. Can you clarify further?
thanks,
Mitch
Posted by .tabitha. on August 17, 2002, at 0:02:51
In reply to Re: essence of life = buddha nature » .tabitha., posted by Ritch on August 16, 2002, at 21:10:00
One of the main precepts if buddhism is that separateness is an illusion. Then again, there's the concept of karma, and reincarnation, which is sort of an acknowledgement that people exist as individuals beyond one lifetime.
I don't have a better answer than that I'm afraid.
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