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Posted by Dinah on June 14, 2005, at 9:58:52
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by Dr. Bob on June 13, 2005, at 22:44:41
> > I personally think people should be able to complain to you as often as they like.
> >
> > Dinah
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> Privately, or here, too? I was thinking here...I think people should be able to complain to you as much as they like, privately. Again, perhaps you could have a separate email address for that so as not to have too much coming into your inbox.
I don't think you can conclude that people don't want to limit the complaints "here". Perhaps that they don't like the parameters of your suggestion, or that they don't want to limit complaints to you privately. But I think there seems to be a majority that would like to see complaints about individual posts or posters be made off board. General complaints about concepts could still be made here.
Posted by Dinah on June 14, 2005, at 9:59:20
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by Dinah on June 14, 2005, at 9:58:52
Posted by so on June 14, 2005, at 11:17:57
In reply to Re: refusal to listen to requests for fairness » so, posted by AuntieMel on June 14, 2005, at 9:17:00
> It was my understanding that such a rule was already in place.
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> 3 complaints about poster B by poster A - as long as all three complaints were deemed civil would be the limit.
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> Didn't that happen a few months ago?I have not yet completed a methodical analysis of administrative interventions over the past several months.
Posted by so on June 14, 2005, at 11:20:22
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by Dinah on June 14, 2005, at 9:58:52
> I don't think you can conclude that people don't want to limit the complaints "here".
Yes, he can conclude that. I am a person, and at least myself and one other person hold that view. Perhaps it might be accurate to say "not all people..." or to cite a lack of concensus.
Posted by AuntieMel on June 14, 2005, at 17:02:39
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by so on June 14, 2005, at 11:20:22
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 15, 2005, at 0:03:06
In reply to Re: refusal to listen to requests for fairness » so, posted by AuntieMel on June 14, 2005, at 9:17:00
> For instance, after the third time I asked you if a particular posters' habitually questioning others' posts was uncivil, and having you say "I think it's acceptable," I could no longer try to change that habit, without getting blocked... Even if that was only my third request in a year and the habitual questioner was questioning others' posts every day!
Right.
> He/she would only have to make sure he/she never questioned a particular person's posts more than twice.)
That still would be an improvement, wouldn't it?
> I see a rule like this as having a more conditions on it, like:
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> If a particular poster *habitually questions (any) others' posts
> And he/she does so without first asking the other to clarify
> Or he/she was not even an active poster on that part of the thread
> Or he/she is not the subject of the post or thread
> Then that poster can be warned and/or blocked.I understand the potential benefit of asking for clarification, but in practice, that hasn't always been welcomed, either.
I don't think someone needs to be active or the subject to have a valid opinion about the civility of a post.
And the more conditions there are, the more complicated the whole thing gets...
> whatever we do, I think the person whose post is being questioned should be notified they're being scrutinized, so that they may defend themselves.
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> Minnie-HahaIf the complaint isn't upheld, then do they need to defend themselves? If it is, then they'd be notified and could respond (either here or by email)...
> It was my understanding that such a rule was already in place.
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> 3 complaints about poster B by poster A - as long as all three complaints were deemed civil would be the limit.
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> Didn't that happen a few months ago?
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> AuntieMelDid it? Can you post a link? :-)
Bob
Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 8:19:31
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by Dr. Bob on June 15, 2005, at 0:03:06
It was never put into effect.
It wouldn't solve the issue many people seem interested in. But it might solve complaints about the issue.
How about my current suggestion below, that each poster be allowed one or two posts about specific posts per month on Admin (not responding to other people's requests perhaps, but one or two complaints that they originate). Then after that, they may still complain as many times as they want, but privately in an email to you.
Limiting the complaints about one poster by another would seem to only apply in a minority of cases, and would mainly benefit the administrator of the site, IMHO.
This would seem to address the issue that many people would like to see addressed.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 8:42:36
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 8:19:31
> How about my current suggestion below, that each poster be allowed one or two posts about specific posts per month on Admin (not responding to other people's requests perhaps, but one or two complaints that they originate). Then after that, they may still complain as many times as they want, but privately in an email to you.
I could live with this. My suggestion only had to do with "public" complaints anyway, though maybe that's not clear. I think a person should still be allowed to ask about posts privately. It's only the public requests that I'm concerned about.
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 9:35:19
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 8:19:31
Dinah,
You wrote something like,[...this addresses issues of other people...].
Could there be exceptions to your proposed rule to allow requests without making a count of them for:
A. posts that have the potential to arrouse antisemitic feelings
B. posts that have the potential to arrouse ill-will toward a person
C. posts that Dr. Hsiung has not replied to the request for a determination so that one could ask again without 2 days to elaps to request it again
D. posts that could be considerd to be a persoanal attack at another person
E. posts that are of a poster that Dr. Hsiung applied something like the unconstitutional {U. S.} practice of {Ex Post Facto} to.
F. Posts by posters in the past here that have ridiculed me or others, belittled me or others, brought up my jewishness or the faith of others, promulgated their church group's doctrins that IMO have the potential to degrade and debase jews.
If your proposed rules could have the effect of shielding those type of posts from public view, would you be in favor of that? After all, if the requests could be made to be taken behind the scenes from public view, could not that be a way that could have the potential in your opinion to still my voice here and have the potential to foster those type of things that those type of posts promulgate?
Lou
Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 9:49:59
In reply to Lou's response to Dinah's post-shield? » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 9:35:19
No, I do not believe it will still your voice. You will still be bringing the posts to the attention of Dr. Bob and the deputies. If Dr. Bob believes that the posts are doing any of the things named, he will act. If Dr. Bob does not believe the posts are doing any of the things named, the result will be the same as present, except that people won't feel as hurt and angry. If that is the point of the requests, to have Dr. Bob sanction posts that are antisemitic or uncivil under site guidelines, then the private communications will work just as well.
I will tell you frankly that I bring my administrative concerns concerning particular posts directly to Dr. Bob, and I do not consider that my voice is stilled. I still discuss broad concepts on board.
The other possibility I can think of offhand is that the requests for determination are not made for Dr. Bob's benefit at all, but to make public the requester's concerns - even though they are addressed to Dr. Bob. I suppose that the making public would be stilled. However, the offsetting benefit would that people wouldn't feel hurt or angry over having posts that Dr. Bob considers ok brought up for review over one or two times a month.
And you could still bring one or two posts a month to public attention, if Dr. Bob does not act on them privately.
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 10:28:21
In reply to Re: Lou's response to Dinah's post-shield? » Lou Pilder, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 9:49:59
Dinah,
You wrote,[...don't think your voice would be stilled...could email Dr. Hsiung...] So, he could also not reply on the board or to me or to delay hes board respons so that the delay could have the potential to cause more of the same posts adn the delay could have the potential to allow Dr. Hsiung to not give a determination at all, for he could say that since time has run or since something else has happened, that his determination is moot.
But could it? If I requested a determination, the determination is for the rest of the board and for the time going on. The decision could be relevant for all time in the future, not just for that particular post at that time.
If you think that I am asking for the determination so that the poster could be sanctioned, I have written that that is not my intent. My intent is to discover if sommething is acceptable {or not} and not to have others sanctioned.
Thearfore, if there is no public reply, and my voice is not allowed to post, then I would like for you or anyone else to write what your definition is of a person's voice being stilled, for my definition is that if a person's voice is stilled , they have been forced to either say less so that others here less of their voice, or they are silenced so that their vloice can not be heard at all.
Lou
Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 10:35:26
In reply to Lou's replyo Dinah's post- » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 10:28:21
If your intent is to have your objection to a post recorded for all time (or as long as Babble is around), then yes, your voice will be stilled in that intent.
But in many ways on Babble our voices are stilled. We are not allowed total freedom of speech.
Dr. Bob needs to weigh the desires of some posters to have their complaints visible for eternity against the desires of other posters, which they have expressed better than I could.
As far as people believing something is ok in the time between a post is made and Dr. Bob comes to the board, if many posts which do not meet board civility guidelines are made, the situation could be seen as escalating, and you could contact the deputies about an escalating situation.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 14:27:11
This is following the post at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20050614/msgs/512950.html I hope you don't mind that I started a separate thread on the subject, since it seems to be referenced in numerous places and the discussion is therefore hard to follow.
Here is the last suggestion for a 3-complaint rule (that I know of) that you’ve posted:
One possibility might be to accept complaints that are "upheld", but to limit those that aren't. What if a 3rd (about a particular other poster's posts) that isn't were considered uncivil?
And here’s what I described as an unintended consequence of the rule as suggested.
> > For instance, after the third time I asked you if a particular posters' habitually questioning others' posts was uncivil, and having you say "I think it's acceptable," I could no longer try to change that habit, without getting blocked... Even if that was only my third request in a year and the habitual questioner was questioning others' posts every day!
Your response to this was “Right.” But has anyone else got an example of an unintended consequence that concerns them?
Anyway, I was talking about trying to change a behavior that some feel is uncivil, and not necessarily about posts that are about me or something I’ve said. This scenario is a little different. What would happen under the 3-complaint rule as proposed? I am Poster A. Twice I have asked Administration to make a call on Poster B’s posts – that weren’t about me or something I’d written. Twice Admin has ruled that his/her posts were civil. Would I ever again be able to question a Poster B post? Even if it’s about me or something I’ve said? Would I need to be 100 percent sure (if that’s possible) that he/she has been uncivil without risking a PBC or block?
> > He/she [a person habitually questioning other people's posts] would only have to make sure he/she never questioned a particular person's posts more than twice.
> That still would be an improvement, wouldn't it?
It depends on your point of view.
Let’s assume there are 1,000 members on this site. Let’s say that Poster A questions each member’s posts two times. That would be 2,000 acceptability requests. If Poster A only made one request a day, the site would face them until about January 2011. Then again, if he/she decides to question only half of the members’ posts, at the same rate, the site would only face about 32 months of such requests. Of course, that’s only if Poster A alone decides to exercise this right, at this rate – and assuming no new members join.
> > I see a rule like this as having a more conditions on it, like:
> >
> > If a particular poster *habitually questions (any) others' posts
> > And he/she does so without first asking the other to clarify
> > Or he/she was not even an active poster on that part of the thread
> > Or he/she is not the subject of the post or thread
> > Then that poster can be warned and/or blocked.> I understand the potential benefit of asking for clarification, but in practice, that hasn't always been welcomed, either.
>
> I don't think someone needs to be active or the subject to have a valid opinion about the civility of a post.
>
> And the more conditions there are, the more complicated the whole thing gets...OK, I’ll drop the first two conditions and reformat the suggestion. The following is less complicated and allows people to publicly question as many posts as they’d like that are about themselves or something they’ve posted, or even posts that they just perceive to be about themselves or something they’ve written.
If a member makes habitual, public requests to Administration about the acceptability of others' posts, then that member is subject to a warning or a block, unless the member perceives that the posts are about himself or herself, or something he/she has written.
“Habitual” here means x times in an x (day/week/month) period. (Whatever Admin thinks is fair.)
BTW: What would the proposed 3-complaint rule look like when formally written? Here’s what I came up with:
If during “a calendar year” [substitute whatever Admin thinks is fair] Poster A questions Poster B’s posts two or more times, and those requests lead to two judgments by Administration that the questioned posts were civil, then any subsequent request by Poster A about Poster B, which follows with a judgment that the questioned post was civil, shall result in Poster A being blocked.
Of course, if there are any other conditions that you think would make this fair, they should be written into the rule. (For instance, what if Poster A makes a request for a ruling about a post that he/she perceives to be about him/herself?)
> > whatever we do, I think the person whose post is being questioned should be notified they're being scrutinized, so that they may defend themselves.
> If the complaint isn't upheld, then do they need to defend themselves? If it is, then they'd be notified and could respond (either here or by email)...
I’d like to. And I think others would like to as well, though some may not. Maybe that could be part of the registration process. A question like, “If your posts are brought to the attention of Administration for a ruling on their acceptability would you like to be notified?” If I got a notice, I could defend myself, and I wouldn’t have to keep an eye on Admin to make sure my posts haven’t been challenged.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 14:48:27
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 8:19:31
> [re: the 3-complaint rule] It was never put into effect.
>
> It wouldn't solve the issue many people seem interested in. But it might solve complaints about the issue.I agree. Of course, I am not keen on that. (Nor would quite a few others be, I imagine.)
> How about my current suggestion below, that each poster be allowed one or two posts about specific posts per month on Admin (not responding to other people's requests perhaps, but one or two complaints that they originate). Then after that, they may still complain as many times as they want, but privately in an email to you.
I pretty much like your suggestion, though I think a person should always be able to publicly challenge a post that is about them or something they've written. (I can't tell if we agree on that.)
> Limiting the complaints about one poster by another would seem to only apply in a minority of cases, and would mainly benefit the administrator of the site, IMHO.
I agree.
> This would seem to address the issue that many people would like to see addressed.
I keep looking it over, and I think I agree!
Posted by alexandra_k on June 15, 2005, at 15:19:25
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by Dr. Bob on June 15, 2005, at 0:03:06
I think it would be nice if there was a limit on requests for determination that are false alarms, rather than requests for determination that alert Dr Bob to posts that are uncivil.
How about 3 false alarms on any particular poster by any particular poster. If there have been 3 false alarms then the request must be made via email?
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 15:42:22
In reply to Re: Dinah - Something we agree on! :-) » Dinah, posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 14:48:27
Friends,
It is suggested here that a rule be made that Dr. Hsiung could use here that could have the effect to limit one's requests to Dr. Hsiung on the administrative board.
For any that are going to reply to this suggestion, I would like for you to ask yourselves the following questions:
A. When people's speech is restrained by the government of a country , has that goverment been sanctioned by other agencys as oppressing their people?
B. What countries are people trying to flee from and come to the United States and France and England and Canada and some other countries so that their speech is not restrained by their governments?
C. Was the amendment to the U. S. constitution made to insure that citizens of the US can live their lives to seek Life Liberty and the persuit of Happiness dependant on their speech not being allowed to have the government restrict it concerning requests to them for a determination?
D. Is the restricting of another's speech to the administration of a mental health forum a sound mental-health practice?
E. Do you see that the administrative board is for the express purpose for requesting determinations from the administartion?
F. Has not restraing people's speech been a tactic used by totalatarian regimes to "silence the opposition." ?
g. Could not there be an alternative to making a rule to keep me and others from hearing, or deminishing our voices on the administrative board to have Dr. Hsiung address his thinking about what is acceptable here or not here?
H. Is not these requests about what is acceptable or not, and not about the poster of the statement in question?
Lou
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 15:43:00
In reply to Dr. Bob - 3-complaint rule or ???, posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 14:27:11
Or Dinah's suggestion (with my comments) at
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20050614/msgs/513192.html
?
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 15:45:34
In reply to Re: 3-complaint rule, posted by alexandra_k on June 15, 2005, at 15:19:25
> I think it would be nice if there was a limit on requests for determination that are false alarms, rather than requests for determination that alert Dr Bob to posts that are uncivil.
>
> How about 3 false alarms on any particular poster by any particular poster. If there have been 3 false alarms then the request must be made via email?Hmmm. I don't quite get it. Could you elaborate at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20050614/msgs/513188.html ? (I've started a thread about the 3-complaint rule, and other ideas.)
Thanks.
Posted by alexandra_k on June 15, 2005, at 15:45:47
In reply to Lou's response to an aspect of this thread-oprs?, posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 15:42:22
This isn't a country Lou, it is a board that is here for support.
When frequent requests for determination are made, the majority of which are false alarms, and other people feel that their ability to support others is being affected then steps must be taken to manage the problem so that the frequent requests do not work to the detriment of the boards.
It is a shame it has to come to this.
But the first priority should be the welfare of the boards and that means all the posters. You count for one Lou, same as everyone else.
Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 15:50:29
In reply to Dr. Bob - 3-complaint rule or ???, posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 14:27:11
Not everyone *wants* to know their posts have been brought up for review. Many people avoid Admin, and don't want to know about anything here, unless Dr. Bob thinks there is a problem. In which case they will know.
I personally feel no impulse to defend myself in many cases. I trust Dr. Bob, and I trust other posters.
Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 15:53:02
In reply to Lou's response to an aspect of this thread-oprs?, posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 15:42:22
From the FAQ
"Different points of view are fine, and in fact encouraged, but your freedom of speech is limited here. It can be therapeutic to express yourself, but this isn't necessarily the place."
We are already lacking complete freedom of speech here.
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 15:58:28
In reply to Re: Lou's response to an aspect of this thread-oprs?, posted by alexandra_k on June 15, 2005, at 15:45:47
a-k,
You wrote,[ [...this is not a country...for support...].
Is it supportive to restrict or silence another's voice in this community to achieve their ends, or would you like to search for another alternative?
In your opinion, would you want this community to be a model of a totalitarian regime that does not allow their citizens to seek from thir goverment a redress of grievences or a model of a country that supports their citizens to have freedom to speak to their goverment to have redress of grievences, without restraint?
Lou
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 16:08:37
In reply to Re: Lou's response to an aspect of this thread-opr » Lou Pilder, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 15:53:02
Dinah,
You wrote,[...lacking freedom of speech...].
Dr. Hsiung's FAQ speaks to "expression" in regards to speech here. I think that is different from seeking redresss from the administraion, and I do not see any evidence that Dr. Hsiung wants to have the rule that you and others are trying to get established here. In fact, he has posted many times that it is acceptable here for me to post these requests to him on the administartive board. These determinations have been stated here that they are helpfull to another poster. His reply could be relevant to all the members here. He even posted that another could look at this situation and see other things that what you and the group of people here are trying to establish. I really think that Dr. Hsiung does not want you and the group that advocates this rule to succeed in having him establish it for you. I do not see that it is he that wants this rule at all. If he does, could anyone give me a URL that has him advocating your proposed rule?
Lou
Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 17:14:03
In reply to Lou's response Dinah's post-grpprsur » Dinah, posted by Lou Pilder on June 15, 2005, at 16:08:37
I didn't say he had. In fact, he seems to have embraced an idea that would allow posters who post in the style you post to continue to do so, but would limit others' complaints about it.
Which is fine, except that he is explaining this idea as one to address the concerns of others.
He's free to limit discussions about any particular poster's posting style. It's his board. But I don't think he should try to do it in such a way that misleads others into thinking that he is proposing this rule to address *their* concerns.
I have no particular interest in this personally. Your posting style doesn't bother me.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 15, 2005, at 18:16:58
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob - 3-complaint rule or ??? » Minnie-Haha, posted by Dinah on June 15, 2005, at 15:50:29
> Not everyone *wants* to know their posts have been brought up for review. Many people avoid Admin, and don't want to know about anything here, unless Dr. Bob thinks there is a problem. In which case they will know.
>
> I personally feel no impulse to defend myself in many cases. I trust Dr. Bob, and I trust other posters.That's why I thought it would be nice for people who would like to know to have that option. If you don't care to know (unless there's been a ruling against you), you don't get a notice. If you do care (whether there's a ruling against you or not), you do get a notice. And I am talking about public requests, not when someone sends a private email requesting a ruling.
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