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Posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 7:20:43
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to All Done » Lou Pilder, posted by Phillipa on June 9, 2005, at 23:06:13
Phillipa,
You wrote,[...article was...2001..]
Below is a link to a 2005 article.
Lou
http://www.theorator.com/bills109/s756.html
Posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
In reply to Lou's reply to All Done » All Done, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 22:16:42
There are people on this board with Lupus, or who are being tested for Lupus. They are aware of the risks, and that most people with Lupus live with it for a normal lifespan as they do with any other chronic illness.
I have Diabetes, and while I'm aware of the risks, I'm also aware that for most it is a chronic illness and you can live a normal lifespan.
But I think I'd feel distressed with someone linking to or discussing extremely negative information about diabetes.
People are trying their best to remain positive, Lou. Do you think you could help them out a bit by remaining positive yourself?
Posted by gardenergirl on June 10, 2005, at 8:41:06
In reply to Lou?, posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
I was thinking something similar, but I didn't quite know how to address it.
Thanks. You've eased some of my concern for someone I care about.
gg
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 9:28:11
In reply to Lou?, posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
Dinah,
You wrote,[...linking...infomation...help them out..]
Are you saying that my offering a link in my response to another poster's statement that my other link was [...from a few years ago and that there is new...]is a link that I should not have posted?
Lou
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 11:21:50
In reply to Lou's reply to Phillipa- » Phillipa, posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 7:20:43
Lou, So what's the problem? It's only 20%. Our point is we don't want Spriggy to worry when she has reported she is feeling so much better. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 12:09:36
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to Phillipa-, posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 11:21:50
> Lou, So what's the problem? It's only 20%. Our point is we don't want Spriggy to worry when she has reported she is feeling so much better. Fondly, Phillipa
Phillipa,
In your above post, could you clarify what you mean by a "problem" and also what you mean by,[...it's only 20%...]?
Lou
Posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 12:16:10
In reply to Lou?, posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
Some people would rather be despised than ignored.
Posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 12:32:28
In reply to Re: Lou? » Dinah, posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 12:16:10
> Some people would rather be despised than ignored.
Can you clarify? ;-|
Thank you for making this point. I don't want to speculate whether that is really what's happening here, but you just cut through a lot of chaff to find the heart of the wheat.
Thank you.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 10, 2005, at 13:12:07
In reply to I am very much offended by this thread. » Lou Pilder, posted by Racer on June 9, 2005, at 23:46:57
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 14:13:46
In reply to Re: Lou? » Toph, posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 12:32:28
Nope I won't clarify. Enough has already been said. I'm done with this Thread. I just hope Spriggy hasn't seen it. She had said she was busy so I hope she's not been on Administration. She has enough problems to deal with. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 14:15:04
In reply to Re: Me too! (nm) » Racer, posted by Minnie-Haha on June 10, 2005, at 13:12:07
I had no idea this had become such an issue. Quite frankly, my life has kept me so busy that I haven't much of a chance to catch up with you all as much as I would like.
Honestly, I want to make it very, very, very clear that nothing anyone said in response to my faith thread was offensive to me. Most people here that understand me, understand that humor is a large part of my personality and life. Even in difficult things like death, lupus, a son with autism, an unemployed husband,etc.. I am grateful to say I still have the ability to laugh! Not laugh or make light of all the serious situations I am in, but laugh because sometimes, life is just funny!
I have no problem with other people finding humor in difficult things either- even if it's difficult things I'm enduring. I welcome it in fact, if we can't laugh, that leaves us with the feeling that we are hopeless.
Humor is a gift from God. I don't see it as being at my expense- I see it as a gift.
Honestly, when I see things like this result from me sharing my heart, it really makes me question if I should ever even open again because I hate seeing chaos and people getting hurt.
I love you guys and want you to understand where I stand on this. I have not been offended.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 10, 2005, at 14:31:04
In reply to Can I say something here??????????????????, posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 14:15:04
> Honestly, when I see things like this result from me sharing my heart, it really makes me question if I should ever even open again because I hate seeing chaos and people getting hurt.
>
> I love you guys and want you to understand where I stand on this. I have not been offended.I'm with you on trying to keep a sense of humor. Please don't stop sharing. I love reading your posts!
Posted by Deneb on June 10, 2005, at 14:55:05
In reply to Lou's request to Dr. Hsiung, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 17:40:04
Posted by Jai Narayan on June 10, 2005, at 14:59:18
In reply to Dear Lou, posted by Slinky on June 9, 2005, at 19:34:00
loose stools...
oh honey...
gosh been there too...it's sh**y
love ya
Jai
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 15:04:18
In reply to slinky now that's not a good reason to get blocked, posted by Jai Narayan on June 10, 2005, at 14:59:18
Spriggy, I'm glad you had a chance to voice your opinion. I just didn't want you to worry more. I know your positive attitude and Faith in God. And I know that you are definitely struggling with what life has dealt you. I guess I was trying to protect you like a mother. Love you my friend, Phillipa
Posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 15:14:49
In reply to Re: slinky now that's not a good reason to get blocked, posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 15:04:18
And if so, can I please get my allowance?
ROFL
((((love ya)))
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 15:18:27
In reply to thanks Phillipa... can I call you mom? LOL, posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 15:14:49
Spriggy, I just put it in the mail! Love, Hugs, Kisses, Phillipa
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on June 10, 2005, at 16:32:15
In reply to thanks Phillipa... can I call you mom? LOL, posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 15:14:49
if I gave him a stern lecture right about now?
(((Spriggy)))
Posted by AuntieMel on June 10, 2005, at 16:47:36
In reply to Re: Lou? » Dinah, posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 12:16:10
Posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 17:02:57
In reply to Re: Lou? » Toph, posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 12:32:28
> > Some people would rather be despised than ignored.
>
> Can you clarify? ;-|
>
> Thank you for making this point. I don't want to speculate whether that is really what's happening here, but you just cut through a lot of chaff to find the heart of the wheat.
>
> Thank you.All I know is that when I am shown that I have upset another person, either accidentally, intentionally, or even justifiably, I am or I strive to be remorseful, and I strive to make whatever changes are necessary to avoid such harmful actions from reocurring. I am not always successful unfortunately. I am not saying that people should be like me, I'm mentally ill after all.
Posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 23:36:31
In reply to Re: Lou? » Racer, posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 17:02:57
Posted by gardenergirl on June 11, 2005, at 0:07:28
In reply to Lou's reply to gardenergirl- » gardenergirl, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 18:07:00
Hi Lou,
I said that was "all I have to say about that", but I guess I was wrong. I was not going to post further on this, but I have found more to say about this process, and I have decided to say it publicly.But first, "F. Gump" refers to Forest Gump. The movie. I was quoting from the movie. It's a very good movie. Perhaps you would enjoy it and also find it inspiring. I know I learn more from F. Gump's life each time I see the movie.
Now, about this process. I have made comments about it in the past. I am not going to rehash those now, as I don't have the energy to do so. But I've gained first-hand knowledge now of what it feels like to be a subject of your requests for determination.
I feel hurt. Yes, it hurts. I feel empathy for others who have expressed similar feelings in the past. I suspect that my previous posts may not have validated their feelings. I want to do that now. I believe others when they say they have been hurt as well.
And may I say that the timing also sucked royally? I do not believe that the timing was anything more than a coincidence; however, let's just say that it certainly did not help to turn my birthday blues around. But that's not your job, so I am not angry with you for the timing of your post. But I am hurt by what I infer from your question about my post.
And that truly is all I have to say about that.
gg
Posted by Spriggy on June 11, 2005, at 1:11:46
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to gardenergirl- » Lou Pilder, posted by gardenergirl on June 11, 2005, at 0:07:28
Posted by alexandra_k on June 11, 2005, at 3:02:45
In reply to Re: Lou's request, posted by Dr. Bob on June 10, 2005, at 5:09:43
I can understand why people feel upset about some of the requests for determination.
I can also understand why in general it is inappropriate to joke about death.
But... Humour in the face of struggle can be really useful.
I think Lou is trying to understand the civility rules the best he can.
One of the hardest things to get is context.
How something can be fine in one context and not so fine in another.
Maybe 'joking about death' is one of those.I think Lou is trying to understand
And that he doesn't mean to hurt
But he has a hard time understandingIt is hard...
For everyone
Posted by NikkiT2 on June 11, 2005, at 7:11:31
In reply to Re: Lou's request, posted by alexandra_k on June 11, 2005, at 3:02:45
I think Lou understands how much he hurts people with his reuqests.. Its been explained to him time and again..
*shrugs*
I guess everyone can draw their own opinions from that..
Nikki
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