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Posted by Racer on June 9, 2005, at 23:46:57
In reply to Lou's request to Dr. Hsiung, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 17:40:04
I don't generally get involved in this sort of thread, because -- frankly -- these constant requests for Dr Bob to check this thread or that for *potential* problems do not seem to add any value to this site. I figure, if someone actually *does* have a problem with a post, that person is perfectly capable of coming here him or herself to say so.
In this case, though, after reading most of the threads, it looks to me like intentional misunderstanding. This thread has obviously upset a number of people -- not least Gardenergirl, who seemed to me to be complimenting Spriggy on her strength and resilience. The original post reads to me like a strong, resilient woman who has not lost her sense of humor in a very, very trying time in her life when it would be so easy for her to do so.
If someone on one of these boards were to post something to me, and *someone else* -- anyone except me, anyone -- came over here to complain about it, or to ask that Dr Bob make a determination about its appropriateness, I would be offended. I would find that disrespectful, because it would feel as though I wasn't thought to be capable of speaking for myself.
Just some food for thought.
This thread very much offends me.
Posted by Phillipa on June 9, 2005, at 23:59:38
In reply to I am very much offended by this thread. » Lou Pilder, posted by Racer on June 9, 2005, at 23:46:57
Racer, Me too! Spriggy has already posted on Faith that what was said didn't offend her. I won't speak for her. Visit the Thread which starts this one. I too, don't get involved in this type of Thread but Spriggy is my friend. I'll go out on a limb any day for her. She is one of the strongest people I know. And she's been through so much. I love Spriggy! Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by justyourlaugh on June 10, 2005, at 0:51:03
In reply to Re: I am very much offended by this thread. » Racer, posted by Phillipa on June 9, 2005, at 23:59:38
many of us posted about this style...
if i do not agree..should i tell?
if i do not understand motive..should i bring it to administration?..
why am i always looking for hurt?
why do i always feel hurt is out there?
j
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 10, 2005, at 5:09:43
In reply to Lou's request to Dr. Hsiung, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 17:40:04
> I am requesting that you write a determination as to if the following post is or is not in accordance with your guidline
I think it is.
Bob
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 7:20:43
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to All Done » Lou Pilder, posted by Phillipa on June 9, 2005, at 23:06:13
Phillipa,
You wrote,[...article was...2001..]
Below is a link to a 2005 article.
Lou
http://www.theorator.com/bills109/s756.html
Posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
In reply to Lou's reply to All Done » All Done, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 22:16:42
There are people on this board with Lupus, or who are being tested for Lupus. They are aware of the risks, and that most people with Lupus live with it for a normal lifespan as they do with any other chronic illness.
I have Diabetes, and while I'm aware of the risks, I'm also aware that for most it is a chronic illness and you can live a normal lifespan.
But I think I'd feel distressed with someone linking to or discussing extremely negative information about diabetes.
People are trying their best to remain positive, Lou. Do you think you could help them out a bit by remaining positive yourself?
Posted by gardenergirl on June 10, 2005, at 8:41:06
In reply to Lou?, posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
I was thinking something similar, but I didn't quite know how to address it.
Thanks. You've eased some of my concern for someone I care about.
gg
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 9:28:11
In reply to Lou?, posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
Dinah,
You wrote,[...linking...infomation...help them out..]
Are you saying that my offering a link in my response to another poster's statement that my other link was [...from a few years ago and that there is new...]is a link that I should not have posted?
Lou
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 11:21:50
In reply to Lou's reply to Phillipa- » Phillipa, posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 7:20:43
Lou, So what's the problem? It's only 20%. Our point is we don't want Spriggy to worry when she has reported she is feeling so much better. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by Lou Pilder on June 10, 2005, at 12:09:36
In reply to Re: Lou's reply to Phillipa-, posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 11:21:50
> Lou, So what's the problem? It's only 20%. Our point is we don't want Spriggy to worry when she has reported she is feeling so much better. Fondly, Phillipa
Phillipa,
In your above post, could you clarify what you mean by a "problem" and also what you mean by,[...it's only 20%...]?
Lou
Posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 12:16:10
In reply to Lou?, posted by Dinah on June 10, 2005, at 8:19:41
Some people would rather be despised than ignored.
Posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 12:32:28
In reply to Re: Lou? » Dinah, posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 12:16:10
> Some people would rather be despised than ignored.
Can you clarify? ;-|
Thank you for making this point. I don't want to speculate whether that is really what's happening here, but you just cut through a lot of chaff to find the heart of the wheat.
Thank you.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 10, 2005, at 13:12:07
In reply to I am very much offended by this thread. » Lou Pilder, posted by Racer on June 9, 2005, at 23:46:57
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 14:13:46
In reply to Re: Lou? » Toph, posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 12:32:28
Nope I won't clarify. Enough has already been said. I'm done with this Thread. I just hope Spriggy hasn't seen it. She had said she was busy so I hope she's not been on Administration. She has enough problems to deal with. Fondly, Phillipa
Posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 14:15:04
In reply to Re: Me too! (nm) » Racer, posted by Minnie-Haha on June 10, 2005, at 13:12:07
I had no idea this had become such an issue. Quite frankly, my life has kept me so busy that I haven't much of a chance to catch up with you all as much as I would like.
Honestly, I want to make it very, very, very clear that nothing anyone said in response to my faith thread was offensive to me. Most people here that understand me, understand that humor is a large part of my personality and life. Even in difficult things like death, lupus, a son with autism, an unemployed husband,etc.. I am grateful to say I still have the ability to laugh! Not laugh or make light of all the serious situations I am in, but laugh because sometimes, life is just funny!
I have no problem with other people finding humor in difficult things either- even if it's difficult things I'm enduring. I welcome it in fact, if we can't laugh, that leaves us with the feeling that we are hopeless.
Humor is a gift from God. I don't see it as being at my expense- I see it as a gift.
Honestly, when I see things like this result from me sharing my heart, it really makes me question if I should ever even open again because I hate seeing chaos and people getting hurt.
I love you guys and want you to understand where I stand on this. I have not been offended.
Posted by Minnie-Haha on June 10, 2005, at 14:31:04
In reply to Can I say something here??????????????????, posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 14:15:04
> Honestly, when I see things like this result from me sharing my heart, it really makes me question if I should ever even open again because I hate seeing chaos and people getting hurt.
>
> I love you guys and want you to understand where I stand on this. I have not been offended.I'm with you on trying to keep a sense of humor. Please don't stop sharing. I love reading your posts!
Posted by Deneb on June 10, 2005, at 14:55:05
In reply to Lou's request to Dr. Hsiung, posted by Lou Pilder on June 9, 2005, at 17:40:04
Posted by Jai Narayan on June 10, 2005, at 14:59:18
In reply to Dear Lou, posted by Slinky on June 9, 2005, at 19:34:00
loose stools...
oh honey...
gosh been there too...it's sh**y
love ya
Jai
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 15:04:18
In reply to slinky now that's not a good reason to get blocked, posted by Jai Narayan on June 10, 2005, at 14:59:18
Spriggy, I'm glad you had a chance to voice your opinion. I just didn't want you to worry more. I know your positive attitude and Faith in God. And I know that you are definitely struggling with what life has dealt you. I guess I was trying to protect you like a mother. Love you my friend, Phillipa
Posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 15:14:49
In reply to Re: slinky now that's not a good reason to get blocked, posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 15:04:18
And if so, can I please get my allowance?
ROFL
((((love ya)))
Posted by Phillipa on June 10, 2005, at 15:18:27
In reply to thanks Phillipa... can I call you mom? LOL, posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 15:14:49
Spriggy, I just put it in the mail! Love, Hugs, Kisses, Phillipa
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on June 10, 2005, at 16:32:15
In reply to thanks Phillipa... can I call you mom? LOL, posted by Spriggy on June 10, 2005, at 15:14:49
if I gave him a stern lecture right about now?
(((Spriggy)))
Posted by AuntieMel on June 10, 2005, at 16:47:36
In reply to Re: Lou? » Dinah, posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 12:16:10
Posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 17:02:57
In reply to Re: Lou? » Toph, posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 12:32:28
> > Some people would rather be despised than ignored.
>
> Can you clarify? ;-|
>
> Thank you for making this point. I don't want to speculate whether that is really what's happening here, but you just cut through a lot of chaff to find the heart of the wheat.
>
> Thank you.All I know is that when I am shown that I have upset another person, either accidentally, intentionally, or even justifiably, I am or I strive to be remorseful, and I strive to make whatever changes are necessary to avoid such harmful actions from reocurring. I am not always successful unfortunately. I am not saying that people should be like me, I'm mentally ill after all.
Posted by Racer on June 10, 2005, at 23:36:31
In reply to Re: Lou? » Racer, posted by Toph on June 10, 2005, at 17:02:57
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