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Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 20:36:58
In reply to pictures before hand, posted by rainbowbrite on May 17, 2005, at 17:29:32
Does that mean you're coming? Cooool.
I am really really serious about hating my pictures. I guess I can't help you all seeing my body-container. I like to think I look nothing at all like that, though.
I'll be the big fat person in pink and yellow.
Posted by rainbowbrite on May 17, 2005, at 20:58:08
In reply to Re: pictures before hand » rainbowbrite, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 20:36:58
OMG Dinah you are so mean to yourself!
It was a general suggestion about piks because I am imaging what it would feel like to meet up with a bunch of people you dont know, but you kind of do know, so do we know each other or not?? LOL
As for going Id really like to, but what do I tell people? im trying to fit it in to my schedule. Im still iffy. how private and confidential will this be? Not that I would ever worry about that LOL
Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:09:56
In reply to Re: pictures before hand » Dinah, posted by rainbowbrite on May 17, 2005, at 20:58:08
I'm not sure about the private and confidential. What in particular are you worried about? Believe me, I understand that concern. My husband is absolutely paranoid. He's positive Babble is filled with axe murderers.
I'm planning to go as "Dinah", if that's what you mean. When the party looked to be bigger, Dr. Bob spoke of hiring security.
My husband and therapist know where I'm going. As far as everyone else is concerned, I'm going on a trip with some friends. No lie there. If they're internet savvy enough, I might say to meet some friends I met on the internet. I'd never say that to my Mom.
Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:12:41
In reply to Re: And who cares?? » Dinah, posted by AuntieMel on May 17, 2005, at 9:22:31
I wasn't fishing. :)
It's a genuine concern. In fact, it was the first thing out of my therapist's mouth when I told him. He asked me if I realized what a big chance I was taking. That people had a certain image of me (and vice versa of course) from my posts, and a physical persona might not match.
He wasn't discouraging my going. In fact, he likes the idea. He just wanted to make sure I had thought of the worst case scenarios (as if I weren't a hundred times better at that than he is).
Posted by rainbowbrite on May 17, 2005, at 21:23:34
In reply to Re: pictures before hand » rainbowbrite, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:09:56
Well Im worried about axe murderers too :-) seriously haha
But the final decisions should probably be emailed to the people who are going, having it up here leaves it open to axe murders and well, alot of people. Like how about not having it in Chicago ;-) hehe
I would tell people my first name, well I may chicken on that but I dont think i could go by rain it isnt me, Im oddly not a rain. I look like my name...what a coincidence :-)
I am thinking on a story. What else is going on in Chicago that weekend? Any shopping events? Ill hopefully come up with something.
Posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:46:19
In reply to Re: pictures before hand » Dinah, posted by rainbowbrite on May 17, 2005, at 21:23:34
From what I hear, shopping is always a valid excuse if you live near enough.
Someone at one point suggested that the final arrangements be sent to just those who confirm they are going. Or nametags be sent from Dr. Bob just to those who confirm they are going. But that was also back when the party looked to be bigger.
How about it, Dr. Bob? What security measures do you think would be wise?
So I can reassure my husband, the axe-murderer phobic.
Posted by Dinah on May 18, 2005, at 0:31:31
In reply to Re: pictures before hand » rainbowbrite, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:46:19
Hotel and plane.
I hope I got the dates right. June 3-4 right?
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 18, 2005, at 0:49:47
In reply to Re: pictures before hand » rainbowbrite, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:46:19
> Though I think Dr. Bob might be hinting that he wants more info before he posts anything.
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> Dinner Friday night at ____ p.m. at _________.
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> Activities Saturday
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> Meet
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> _____ at ____________Right, I think more info might help people decide if they want to come or not...
> How about it, Dr. Bob? What security measures do you think would be wise?
I think it would depend on what we're doing and where we'll be. I don't know, alerting the staff? Hiring a security guard?
Bob
Posted by partlycloudy on May 18, 2005, at 5:02:11
In reply to Re: more info, posted by Dr. Bob on May 18, 2005, at 0:49:47
I was thinking that specifics about the weekend would not be posted here but emailed to attendees only to prevent security concerns?
How about a mailing list for confirmed attendees to finalize the details of where and when to meet?
pc
Posted by Annierose on May 18, 2005, at 8:54:43
In reply to Re: more info, posted by partlycloudy on May 18, 2005, at 5:02:11
If we are meeting at a public place, such as a restaurant, I would feel pretty safe. I spoke with my husband last night, and I am fairly sure I can come.
Posted by partlycloudy on May 18, 2005, at 9:09:28
In reply to Re: more info, posted by Annierose on May 18, 2005, at 8:54:43
> If we are meeting at a public place, such as a restaurant, I would feel pretty safe. I spoke with my husband last night, and I am fairly sure I can come.
Excellent! So far all the proposed activities have been at public places - parks and restaurants. So glad you are coming.
pc
Posted by AuntieMel on May 18, 2005, at 13:45:05
In reply to Re: And who cares?? » AuntieMel, posted by Dinah on May 17, 2005, at 21:12:41
I didn't think you were fishing.
But, gee, from the way you describe yourself I'll be there looking for a warthog.
Posted by Dinah on May 18, 2005, at 19:02:17
In reply to Re: And who cares?? » Dinah, posted by AuntieMel on May 18, 2005, at 13:45:05
My *mother*!!!!!
Eeeeeeeek!
But the important thing.
Does that mean you're coming?
Oh, please say it does! :)
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 19, 2005, at 3:52:35
In reply to Re: more info, posted by partlycloudy on May 18, 2005, at 5:02:11
> I was thinking that specifics about the weekend would not be posted here but emailed to attendees only to prevent security concerns?
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> How about a mailing list for confirmed attendees to finalize the details of where and when to meet?I'm not sure there's any way to prevent security concerns. Who would be considered "confirmed"?
A mailing list at Yahoo? One that's by invitation only?
Bob
Posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 4:50:48
In reply to Re: security concerns, posted by Dr. Bob on May 19, 2005, at 3:52:35
Several people have mentioned that option. Maybe it would be a good idea, Dr. Bob.
But I do think you should announce the dates, and a general plan. Something along the lines of dinner Fri night, Saturday activities, and Sunday activities if anyone is interested.
It's kind of a catch 22. If you don't announce the date, no one knows how many people may or may not come, and it's harder to plan. Right now we seem to be talking about such a small group that it's not a big deal. But if we make plans based on a small group...
Besides, planes, hotels, finances. Those things need to be done a week or two in advance. :)
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 19, 2005, at 9:24:51
In reply to Re: security concerns » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 4:50:48
> Several people have mentioned that option. Maybe it would be a good idea, Dr. Bob.
Sorry, what option?
> But I do think you should announce the dates, and a general plan. Something along the lines of dinner Fri night, Saturday activities, and Sunday activities if anyone is interested.
I think a general plan is fine. But what activities? Or just "activities"?
Bob
Posted by rainbowbrite on May 19, 2005, at 9:29:32
In reply to Re: activities, posted by Dr. Bob on May 19, 2005, at 9:24:51
I think this is what she was referring to:
"A mailing list at Yahoo? One that's by invitation only?"
Posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 9:41:26
In reply to Re: activities » Dr. Bob, posted by rainbowbrite on May 19, 2005, at 9:29:32
> I think this is what she was referring to:
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> "A mailing list at Yahoo? One that's by invitation only?"
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>That's what I meant. Several people have mentioned an arrangement like that.
Posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 9:44:29
In reply to Re: activities, posted by Dr. Bob on May 19, 2005, at 9:24:51
If that's all we got, then yes "activities". :)
Sorry I can't be more help there, but a)I'm not on the planning committee and Dr. Bob probably thinks I've already overstepped my bounds and b) I know no more about the area than I saw when googling.
How about someone present a proposed general (for security sake) itinerary (maybe even you Dr. Bob) just to get the ball rolling. I'm sure there will be more than enough countersuggestions and objections (especially if it's you, Dr. Bob) to eventually end up where we wish to be.
Posted by rainbowbrite on May 19, 2005, at 11:44:15
In reply to Re: activities » Dr. Bob, posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 9:44:29
I got some insider tips, but I think I will wait till I post them...untill this gets more organized.
And I know I am totaly budding in here, especially since Im not for sure coming.How about finding out what kind of food people like and then narrow down restaurants from there for Friday night. Isnt that the plan? Dinner?
Maybe Dr Bob would have some suggestions??As for the next day my understanding is that it is not a dull city and that there are many attractions that could keep a group occupied for awhile. When I get more organized on my end I will post what I know.
Posted by AuntieMel on May 19, 2005, at 14:16:35
In reply to (Worse yet....) » AuntieMel, posted by Dinah on May 18, 2005, at 19:02:17
I've got to work on hubby. It's been quite an expensive year so far.
Posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 17:25:21
In reply to Re: attending » Dinah, posted by AuntieMel on May 19, 2005, at 14:16:35
I understand that well. It took lots of begging and please-ing on my end. And I've promised him he can go on a trip of his own. :) I see Vegas in the future for him. oooooooo
Money's *always* a problem for me. Fortunately I (we) almost never travel, so husband doesn't think it's uncalled for.
Posted by fallsfall on May 20, 2005, at 9:59:10
In reply to Re: attending » AuntieMel, posted by Dinah on May 19, 2005, at 17:25:21
Making plane reservations and hotel reservations now.
I'll arrive on Friday afternoon and leave early Sunday.
Anyone else?
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 20, 2005, at 10:02:13
In reply to Re: activities » Dr. Bob, posted by rainbowbrite on May 19, 2005, at 9:29:32
> I think this is what she was referring to:
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> > A mailing list at Yahoo? One that's by invitation only?OK, we have a list. Now:
> > How about a mailing list for confirmed attendees to finalize the details of where and when to meet?
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> Who would be considered "confirmed"?Bob
Posted by fallsfall on May 20, 2005, at 11:53:58
In reply to I'm coming, posted by fallsfall on May 20, 2005, at 9:59:10
Actually, I'll leave Sunday eve, if anyone wants to hang out on Sunday.
Plane reservations have been made.
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