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Re: the seriousness of the offense

Posted by Dr. Bob on February 26, 2005, at 12:44:26

In reply to Of course it is » alexandra_k, posted by mair on February 24, 2005, at 17:05:56

> the length of the block has everything to do with the number of times you've been blocked before, and generally nothing to do with the seriousness of the offense.

It may *primarily* have to do with that. IMO, the more times someone "offends", the more serious it is...

Bob

 

Re: the seriousness of the offense » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on February 26, 2005, at 15:34:49

In reply to Re: the seriousness of the offense, posted by Dr. Bob on February 26, 2005, at 12:44:26

> It may *primarily* have to do with that. IMO, the more times someone "offends", the more serious it is...

Sure, but more than one or two months?????

I mean currently it is capped at 12 months
But you could cap it at 4 or 6 or 8 and there is still some room to increase it for reoffending.

 

Re: Don't you agree Dr Bob?? (nm)

Posted by alexandra_k on March 1, 2005, at 17:44:23

In reply to Re: the seriousness of the offense » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on February 26, 2005, at 15:34:49

 

Well, if he did... » alexandra_k

Posted by Dinah on March 1, 2005, at 20:01:14

In reply to Re: Don't you agree Dr Bob?? (nm), posted by alexandra_k on March 1, 2005, at 17:44:23

there wouldn't be a one year cap. :)

 

Re: Well, if he did... » Dinah

Posted by alexandra_k on March 1, 2005, at 20:21:28

In reply to Well, if he did... » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 1, 2005, at 20:01:14

Hmm. Well maybe he is working on changing it ;-)

 

Re: cap

Posted by Dr. Bob on March 2, 2005, at 8:19:43

In reply to Re: the seriousness of the offense » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on February 26, 2005, at 15:34:49

> you could cap it at 4 or 6 or 8 and there is still some room to increase it for reoffending.

But then it wouldn't really be capped at 4 or 6 or 8...

Bob

 

Re: to clarify » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on March 2, 2005, at 14:09:52

In reply to Re: cap, posted by Dr. Bob on March 2, 2005, at 8:19:43

If it was capped at 4 then there is room to increase it for reoffending as follows:
1st block - 1 week
2nd block - 2 weeks
3rd block - 3 weeks
4th block - 4 weeks
5th block - 4 weeks (that is where the cap kicks in - see??)

and if it was six weeks then it would be different as follows:

5th block - 5 weeks
6th block - 6 weeks
7th block - 6 weeks
(There the cap kicks in)

And if it was an 8 week cap then

7th block - 7 weeks
8th block - 8 weeks
9th block - 8 weeks
(Cap is there at 8 weeks instead - see?)

And of course you can continue to use discretion with respect to whether the next block increases or remains the same as the last one etc.

Clearer?

> > you could cap it at 4 or 6 or 8 and there is still some room to increase it for reoffending.
>
> But then it wouldn't really be capped at 4 or 6 or 8...
>
> Bob

 

Re: to clarify

Posted by Dr. Bob on March 2, 2005, at 22:31:38

In reply to Re: to clarify » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on March 2, 2005, at 14:09:52

> If it was capped at 4 then there is room to increase it for reoffending as follows...

Ah, I see what you mean, thanks. A year is definitely a long time. But as far as whether it's *too* long, maybe we should just agree to disagree?

Bob

 

Re: a slightly different issue then... » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on March 3, 2005, at 0:52:14

In reply to Re: to clarify, posted by Dr. Bob on March 2, 2005, at 22:31:38

> Ah, I see what you mean, thanks. A year is definitely a long time. But as far as whether it's *too* long, maybe we should just agree to disagree?

Well, I don't suppose there is much I can say in response to that...

How about changing the 2X and 3X blocking system to a +1 and +2 week blocking system then???

So instead of the 2X system there is:
1st block: 1 week
2nd block: 2 weeks
3rd block: 3 weeks
etc.

And instead of the 3X system there is:
1st block: 1 week
2nd block: 3 weeks
3rd block: 5 weeks
etc.

That way it takes longer for people to get to the very large number of weeks blocks???


 

Dr. Bob, is it difficult to change this?

Posted by Jai Narayan on March 3, 2005, at 18:11:18

In reply to Re: to clarify, posted by Dr. Bob on March 2, 2005, at 22:31:38

is the blocking system difficult to change?
or is it your mind that is difficult to change?

"remember it's not the spoon that bends....."
quote from "The Matrix"
Ja* Narayan

 

Re: He he » Jai Narayan

Posted by alexandra_k on March 4, 2005, at 0:10:38

In reply to Dr. Bob, is it difficult to change this?, posted by Jai Narayan on March 3, 2005, at 18:11:18

You been reading about Toeplitz matrix eigenproblems Jai???

 

MCK

Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 4, 2005, at 1:57:48

In reply to Rod is desperate for attention, posted by MCK on February 17, 2005, at 19:23:38

Thank you

I didn't really believe what you had said, when I read your post, however I have reason to now.
Thanks.

 

Re: the latter (nm)

Posted by Dr. Bob on March 5, 2005, at 19:06:43

In reply to Dr. Bob, is it difficult to change this?, posted by Jai Narayan on March 3, 2005, at 18:11:18

 

Re: why? (nm) » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on March 5, 2005, at 23:33:31

In reply to Re: the latter (nm), posted by Dr. Bob on March 5, 2005, at 19:06:43

 

Re: why? » alexandra_k

Posted by Dinah on March 6, 2005, at 9:35:35

In reply to Re: why? (nm) » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on March 5, 2005, at 23:33:31

If you mean why is it so difficult to have a meaningful dialog with Dr. Bob where you feel understood and understand, welcome to my world.

If you mean why is he adamant on this point, I can say that having experienced both sides of administrating, I have considerable empathy for his position. Which isn't to say that I always agree with his longer blocks. I think they should only be imposed for uncivil behavior against other posters, not for nonthreatening actions toward Dr. Bob. And not for those who are trying but fall short in interpreting the civility rules.

And don't many sites ban people for life? Not only does Dr. Bob cap people's block at one year, but if they email him and present him with a reasonable reason for doing so (here we get back to issue one) he can and has lowered the time involved. He's promised to let us know in the future when he does that, though.

 

Re: why? » Dinah

Posted by alexandra_k on March 6, 2005, at 14:41:03

In reply to Re: why? » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 6, 2005, at 9:35:35

I guess I posted something once about people not returning if they got a very long block. I can understand why it might be nice to push out 'trolls' for a while. Give them some time to maybe change their posting style or something. But when someone is mostly supportive and / or informative then it is a shame that they get blocked for such long periods of time.

I wonder what the longest block length is that someone has properly returned from...

 

Re: why?

Posted by alexandra_k on March 6, 2005, at 14:43:26

In reply to Re: why? » Dinah, posted by alexandra_k on March 6, 2005, at 14:41:03

Also, my understanding (though I might need to be corrected here) is that once upon a time in Babble history people started running riot.

Strict civility rules were introduced to bring people back under control...

And that worked out well.

I just wonder whether they need to be so very strict to be effective. Whether we lose people because of them. I think Dr Bob said something once before about it being sad when that happens. I guess I am just wondering whether it could be prevented.

 

Re: hmm. » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 1:03:41

In reply to Re: the latter (nm), posted by Dr. Bob on March 5, 2005, at 19:06:43

Do you want to tell us why you don't want to tell us why?

Are you afraid we might make you change your mind?

 

Re: its okay I give up...

Posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 21:49:36

In reply to Re: hmm. » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 1:03:41

Well... Not give up exactly. Make a strategic retreat...

No doubt this will come up again at some point...

 

Re: its okay I give up...

Posted by gardenergirl on March 9, 2005, at 22:40:39

In reply to Re: its okay I give up..., posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 21:49:36

It always does.

The wheels on the bus go round and round, round and round...

gg

 

Re: round and round

Posted by Dr. Bob on March 9, 2005, at 23:11:43

In reply to Re: its okay I give up..., posted by gardenergirl on March 9, 2005, at 22:40:39

> Do you want to tell us why you don't want to tell us why?
>
> alexandra_k

> The wheels on the bus go round and round, round and round...
>
> gg

It's not that I don't want to tell you why, it's that this wheel has gone round before...

> > > is the blocking system difficult to change?
> > > or is it your mind that is difficult to change?
> >
> > the latter

Because this is an equilibrium we've reached and to upset it there should to be a compelling reason?

Bob

 

Re: LOL gg!!! Welcome back :-) (nm) » gardenergirl

Posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 23:14:04

In reply to Re: its okay I give up..., posted by gardenergirl on March 9, 2005, at 22:40:39

 

Re: round and round » Dr. Bob

Posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 23:24:15

In reply to Re: round and round, posted by Dr. Bob on March 9, 2005, at 23:11:43

> It's not that I don't want to tell you why, it's that this wheel has gone round before...

There now, that wasn't so hard :-)
I didn't know that.

> Because this is an equilibrium we've reached and to upset it there should to be a compelling reason?

Is it inevitable that the equilibrium would be upset were the length of blocks or the 2x and 3x system changed?

It might turn out to be a better system...

I guess this is my main reason:

> When someone is mostly supportive and / or informative then it is a shame that they get blocked for such long periods of time.
>I wonder what the longest block length is that someone has properly returned from...
The point being that
Some people don't come back.

Is it worth changing the system to retain them?

IMO yes.

But I have been reading about slime moulds. Hope I don't offend anyone but Babble is starting to look like a slime mould to me :-)

I'll explain later over on Books.


 

Re: round and round » alexandra_k

Posted by Dinah on March 9, 2005, at 23:35:49

In reply to Re: round and round » Dr. Bob, posted by alexandra_k on March 9, 2005, at 23:24:15

I suspect Dr. Bob has decided to stop being a tease when he has no intention of putting out change. I actually appreciate that. It's very frustrating to think you have a chance of getting somewhere with him, when in truth you don't.

Maybe he's figured out how much it hurts posters and has decided to be more upfront about it.

 

Re: round and round » Dinah

Posted by alexandra_k on March 10, 2005, at 1:43:50

In reply to Re: round and round » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 9, 2005, at 23:35:49

> I suspect Dr. Bob has decided to stop being a tease when he has no intention of putting out change. I actually appreciate that. It's very frustrating to think you have a chance of getting somewhere with him, when in truth you don't.

But it is nice to know the reasons why people have made up their mind the way they have. Sometimes hearing other peoples reasons can result in our changing our mind to agree with them. Even if we don't change our mind it can be helpful to understand why they made their mind up the way they did.

To me anyway.
Sometimes changing peoples minds is one issue.
And understanding why they are so resolved is another.
Even if we continue to disagree.
I personally find that better than nothing.



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