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Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 22, 2005, at 22:04:01
Dr. Bob I thought this might be the best place for this thread and not Social. I am wondering why you have allowed her to feel so badly when all you had to do was to undo what many of us feels is/was a mistake but an uncivil action. It clearly cause her to feel MORE than put down. She states she emailed you also and I am just needing to understand why a seemly nice man like yourself would allow her to feel this pain when all you had to do was xxx out a name? Please could you clarify this for me/us??? As a doctor of psychiatry unless you felt it was just to manipulate why would you allow this???..I am stumped....I hope you undestand the intent of my letter....I am not sure you will see an email in time or I would have emailed you. I just do not understand your view on this as it is clearly harming a person who if she were your client...well, would you then stand up for her and xxxxxx the word out??? Sorry if this is off base or anything I have been sick over this for weeks and reading her post breaks my heart. Thank you for your time and consideration in answering this.
Posted by Angel Girl on January 23, 2005, at 13:20:49
In reply to Dr Bob....on AngelGirl and her email's, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 22, 2005, at 22:04:01
Dr. Bob
To be honest, when I read fallen's post to you and saw that maybe you could interpret my actions to be that of manipulation, I was quite taken aback because that couldn't be further from the truth and it had never even occurred to me.
I do know that fallen is not accusing me of such but merely asking for your reasonings of leaving that word beside my name.
Dr. Bob, all I desperately need from you is the removal of that word in the subject line in question. I am not asking for anyone to be reprimanded at all. I am beyond that at this point. It is of very little importance to me.
I JUST NEED THAT WORD TO BE REMOVED FROM MY NAME IN THAT SUBJECT LINE.
I also recognize that Lou meant no malice in use of the word and always did but I have been and continue to be extremely traumatized by the presence of that word next to mine.
This is not about Lou whatsoever or his faith, it is about MY feelings of seeing that word next to mine.
I once again beg and plead with you to try to understand the depths of my feelings, the effect this is having on me, how very fragile it has left me and to PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE reconsider your initial actions and to remove the word in it's entirety. That will be the ONLY thing that would make me feel safe here again.
Dr. Bob, thanks for reading my desperate plea to you. I pray for your compassion and empathy to help me feel safe here again.
AG
Posted by Lou Pilder on January 23, 2005, at 13:47:33
In reply to Re: Dr Bob....for the record, posted by Angel Girl on January 23, 2005, at 13:20:49
It has been written here,[...I... recognise that Lou meant no malice...].
Thanks for writing that.
Lou
Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 23, 2005, at 15:59:07
In reply to Re: Dr Bob....for the record, posted by Angel Girl on January 23, 2005, at 13:20:49
AG..I was just trying to put myself in a PDOC's shoes thus I can only come up with manipulation or he cannot for some reason due it as far as techincally...OTHERWISE....I AM LOST....Out of sheer compassion why he doesn't...so you are right...I KNOW you did and are not trying to manipulate....I am waiting for Dr Bob to see this post he does read a LOT of posts so it may be days./.....Hugs to you you know I love ya girl
> Dr. Bob
>
> To be honest, when I read fallen's post to you and saw that maybe you could interpret my actions to be that of manipulation, I was quite taken aback because that couldn't be further from the truth and it had never even occurred to me.
>
> I do know that fallen is not accusing me of such but merely asking for your reasonings of leaving that word beside my name.
>
> Dr. Bob, all I desperately need from you is the removal of that word in the subject line in question. I am not asking for anyone to be reprimanded at all. I am beyond that at this point. It is of very little importance to me.
>
> I JUST NEED THAT WORD TO BE REMOVED FROM MY NAME IN THAT SUBJECT LINE.
>
> I also recognize that Lou meant no malice in use of the word and always did but I have been and continue to be extremely traumatized by the presence of that word next to mine.
>
> This is not about Lou whatsoever or his faith, it is about MY feelings of seeing that word next to mine.
>
> I once again beg and plead with you to try to understand the depths of my feelings, the effect this is having on me, how very fragile it has left me and to PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE reconsider your initial actions and to remove the word in it's entirety. That will be the ONLY thing that would make me feel safe here again.
>
> Dr. Bob, thanks for reading my desperate plea to you. I pray for your compassion and empathy to help me feel safe here again.
>
> AG
Posted by Angel Girl on January 25, 2005, at 21:05:03
In reply to Re: Dr Bob....for the record » Angel Girl, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 23, 2005, at 15:59:07
> AG..I was just trying to put myself in a PDOC's shoes thus I can only come up with manipulation or he cannot for some reason due it as far as techincally...OTHERWISE....I AM LOST....Out of sheer compassion why he doesn't...so you are right...I KNOW you did and are not trying to manipulate....I am waiting for Dr Bob to see this post he does read a LOT of posts so it may be days./.....Hugs to you you know I love ya girl
>
fallenNo worries. I know where your heart is and you know mine. I am very grateful for all the support you have shown me on and off the boards.
AG
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