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Posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:37:43
In reply to Re: Ive broken the secet code there all against me no, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:34:15
i am real iam real iam real iam real iam rea i am real iam real iam real iam real iam real iar real iam real iam ireal
Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 21:37:49
In reply to Re: Ive broken the secet code there all against me no, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:34:15
Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 21:39:47
In reply to Re: I'm sorry. (nm) » OddipusRex, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 21:37:49
Posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:51:55
In reply to Re: But ouch. Oily? (nm), posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 21:39:47
Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 21:55:44
In reply to Yeah OIIIILLLLLLYYYYYY will that get me banned? (nm), posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:51:55
But I won't bother you with my oily compliments any more.
Sigh.
But I still do like you, Oddipus.
Posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:00:21
In reply to Re: I hope not. » OddipusRex, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 21:55:44
no reference was made to Dinah the Good.
> But I won't bother you with my oily compliments any more.
>
> Sigh.
>
> But I still do like you, Oddipus.
Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 22:03:41
In reply to We interrupt this decompensation to announce » Dinah, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:00:21
Seriously, if you'd prefer I not compliment you, I won't.
Did you see my decompensation on board? It was a nasty nasty scene. I printed it out and brought it to my therapist.
Posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 22:08:01
In reply to We interrupt this decompensation to announce » Dinah, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:00:21
Oops. Time for quality time with my dear husband. I guess you'll have to continue alone. But do let me know about the compliments. I don't do it to make someone feel bad, and I'll stop if it does make you feel bad.
And feel free to email me too. I'm in the FAQ.
Posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:32:16
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good. » OddipusRex, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 22:03:41
No it didn't mean anything. I guess I missed your decompensation. I didn't read a lot for a long time.
I need to stay away from people who spew out their pain and hatred onto everyone around them. I can't take professional victims. And she sure has plenty of other support which is what irritates me. I didn't wnat anything to do with that thread but I thought she was new. So I worried about her and cared. It was painful for me because I know real people who not only don't plagiarize but also suffer without trying to spread the pain around.And people who are dead. It was so decietful and manipulative. I mean the the PSB melodrama not you.
Yeah if she was standing on a bridge I'd try to pull her back but I wouldn't be surprised if she stepped aside and let me fall while she spouted second hand verse and emoted on how the world mistreated her.
But I don't want to be like her. (Maybe that's why I posted all this junk a kind of if you can't beat em join or something. But I don't like it) I'll probably get banned for this little character analysis and I don't care. Although it will be a little ironic. And apparently I can just reregister like everyone else anyway.
I don't mean good and boring I just mean good. I was just thinking of a crusading knight or something.
Seriously, if you'd prefer I not compliment you, I won't.
>
> Did you see my decompensation on board? It was a nasty nasty scene. I printed it out and brought it to my therapist.
Posted by shar on June 20, 2003, at 22:45:55
In reply to Re: Ive broken the secet code there all against me no, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:32:02
Did you mean "they're" all against me?
Shar
Posted by shar on June 20, 2003, at 22:50:58
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good. » Dinah, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:32:16
I like you a lot, OR. Tho you annoy me immensely at times.
To me, that is true love talk.
Shar
Posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:55:44
In reply to Re: Ive broken the secet code there all against me no » OddipusRex, posted by shar on June 20, 2003, at 22:45:55
ainti
special?
> Did you mean "they're" all against me?
>
> Shar
Posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 23:09:53
In reply to Is this oily? » OddipusRex, posted by shar on June 20, 2003, at 22:50:58
Posted by zenhussy on June 20, 2003, at 23:28:27
In reply to Get me out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 21:00:20
> bob this little melodrama on the part of one of one of your posters has stripped off my last nerve ive still got my mind but ive already lost my punctuation where's the civility king when you need him
And after filing the report stay away from posts that are harming you so much. You, like any other member of this board, deserves to be well and be supported and if you are not receiving it here I suggest you seek it elsewhere. You need to keep your health at the forefront and let the other things in life that bother you so much slide.
Please go get some help OR before something happens to you. You are too dear to lose.
Be well.
zenhussy
Posted by shar on June 21, 2003, at 0:34:23
In reply to Nope. Its a poem and im a poet » shar, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:55:44
My point 'zackly, OR. U R special (tho lord knows I hate to be positive....).
:))
Shar
Posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 2:33:09
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good. » Dinah, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:32:16
> No it didn't mean anything. I guess I missed your decompensation. I didn't read a lot for a long time.
>
Hhoooo boy, you missed something. There was more than one of them really. Complete with commentary by others. And yet I'm still here. I must be hard to embarass away. At the first(?) one, Alii was extremely supportive when I really needed some support. I'll always remember that fondly. Actually, I suppose I still do decompensate on board on a not infrequent basis. :( Luckily I decompensated at my therapist's office today and hopefully got it out of my system.
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> I don't mean good and boring I just mean good. I was just thinking of a crusading knight or something.
>
Awwww, you sweetie. OK then, can I still compliment you? Smooch, smooch. You're the bestest Oddipus. On the other hand it reminded me that my own reception of compliments is sometimes less than gracious. They remind me of how far I fall short of where I want to be. So I'll try to tone them down for you, how's that?As far as the other, I think different people just have different ways of expressing pain. I understand and identify more with some than others. I feel more capable of providing support to some than others. But all are equally valid.
Posting under different names without being open about it does bother me. A lot. I find it absolutely crazy making. But it's not against the rules as long as people don't post under two names at once. :(
I'm sorry you were hurt by trying to extend yourself to someone who you now feel decieved you. That's got to hurt. I don't think it was done to hurt others on purpose, if that helps any. And to reassure any suspicions you might have, I know absolutely nothing. It just didn't feel malicious. But being hurt is bound to happen from time to time in this sort of forum. Guarding your emotions is vital here, I think, no matter how supportive you try to be. I think I have that part mostly down. Now I need to learn to keep my obsessive little brain from twisting in knots.
Take care of you.
(((Oddipus)))
Posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 2:33:41
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good., posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 2:33:09
Posted by OddipusRex on June 21, 2003, at 5:24:56
In reply to File an adverse event report then » OddipusRex, posted by zenhussy on June 20, 2003, at 23:28:27
Posted by OddipusRex on June 21, 2003, at 5:57:45
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good., posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 2:33:09
>
> I'm sorry you were hurt by trying to extend yourself to someone who you now feel decieved you. That's got to hurt. I don't think it was done to hurt others on purpose, if that helps any.No it probably wasn't done with any thought at all of the effect it would have on others. If I'd known who was posting I would have avoided it having seen some of her other productions. I'm angry at myself for getting drawn into it. And I'm angry at people that commit suicide and I'm angry that people feel so horrible they want to commit suicide. I'm angry at me for being angry. I'm embarassed too. Ol' Bob and his never delete policy has got me on record now.
Thanks to you and Shar. I'm undeserving but truly grateful.
Posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 8:01:31
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good., posted by OddipusRex on June 21, 2003, at 5:57:45
> I'm embarassed too. Ol' Bob and his never delete policy has got me on record now.
>
Dratted policy. But I've lived past my shame, even though I behaved far worse. And many people are not even aware of what happened with me. Time rolls over all pages.> Thanks to you and Shar. I'm undeserving but truly grateful.
I don't think you're undeserving. It's a kindness you've repaid many times. :)
But am I the only person on the entire planet who still has no earthly idea of what was going on? Oh, never mind. I have mastered my pique. Really. :)
Posted by shar on June 21, 2003, at 10:13:37
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good., posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 8:01:31
> But am I the only person on the entire planet who still has no earthly idea of what was going on? Oh, never mind. I have mastered my pique. Really. :)
Dinah,
Nope you are not the only person, there's me, too (again!). From what I've gathered the poster we worried over is someone we know. I have no idea who it is, I'm naive and gullible, initially take people at face value (unless something happens that makes me suspicious). I have a hard time reading posts by person ABCDEFG and saying it sounds just like QRSTUV, except if a poster has something very unique about their style (like speaking Latin or something). Maybe if it was someone I knew REALLY, REALLY well, I'd notice, but then, I think, they'd tell me they were using another name.So, I think it'd be really cool to find out who it is because I'm a very curious person. But, I probably won't unless that person said "hey, it's me--ABCDEFG" and gave me their name. Once again I'm on the outside of the in crowd, but at least I'm in good company.
Shar
Posted by noa on June 21, 2003, at 11:04:50
In reply to u r not the only one » Dinah, posted by shar on June 21, 2003, at 10:13:37
Yes, I too have no idea what is going on here or in many threads in social.
I am just skipping those threads because it is like trying to read a language I am not familiar with. Oh well.
Here, it does bother me to see that O.R. seems to be in distress but I have no idea what is going on and therefore have no idea how to respond at all.
So I, too, am clueless. That is ok. If people write cryptically, I assume it isn't meant for me to understand. I can live with that.
Posted by Dinah on June 21, 2003, at 11:30:35
In reply to Re: u r not the only one, posted by noa on June 21, 2003, at 11:04:50
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 23, 2003, at 5:27:01
In reply to Re: Are you sure? And I'm not Good. » Dinah, posted by OddipusRex on June 20, 2003, at 22:32:16
> destroyed by the conspiratorial babblers
> I need to stay away from people who spew out their pain and hatred onto everyone around them. I can't take professional victims... It was so decietful and manipulative.
>
> Yeah if she was standing on a bridge I'd try to pull her back but I wouldn't be surprised if she stepped aside and let me fall while she spouted second hand verse and emoted on how the world mistreated her.I'm sorry if it's been hard for you here, but please don't post anything that could lead others to feel accused or put down, thanks.
Bob
Posted by Dinah on June 25, 2003, at 8:07:29
In reply to Re: We interrupt this decompensation to announce » OddipusRex, posted by Dinah on June 20, 2003, at 22:08:01
I can be a big pushy broad sometimes, and I apologize. But if you ever need to talk, or if you ever just want to say hi, you know where to find me. I won't push it though.
I hope you're taking care of yourself.
Dinah
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