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Posted by Greg on May 28, 2001, at 14:46:17
Hi Bob,
There was a discussion several months back about starting an old-timers board. I don't recall it ever reaching any type of conclusion. Can you bring me up to date on what happened with it?
I hope this finds you doing well!
Greg
Posted by Cam W. on May 28, 2001, at 15:00:26
In reply to Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board?, posted by Greg on May 28, 2001, at 14:46:17
Greg - The reason it was probably scrapped is that none of us are as old as you. - Cam 8^P
> Hi Bob,
>
> There was a discussion several months back about starting an old-timers board. I don't recall it ever reaching any type of conclusion. Can you bring me up to date on what happened with it?
>
> I hope this finds you doing well!
>
> Greg
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 30, 2001, at 1:36:12
In reply to Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board?, posted by Greg on May 28, 2001, at 14:46:17
> There was a discussion several months back about starting an old-timers board. I don't recall it ever reaching any type of conclusion. Can you bring me up to date on what happened with it?
There wasn't much interest. Should we reconsider?
Bob
Posted by Shar on May 30, 2001, at 17:39:52
In reply to Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board?, posted by Greg on May 28, 2001, at 14:46:17
There seem to be few old-timers around anymore. My participation has certainly plummeted over the past few months. It's good to see the 'oldies but goodies' when they do post; I wonder what issues an old-timers board would address. The idea is appealing.
I wonder if this absence of old-timers is a changing of the guard that all boards undergo?
Shar
> Hi Bob,
>
> There was a discussion several months back about starting an old-timers board. I don't recall it ever reaching any type of conclusion. Can you bring me up to date on what happened with it?
>
> I hope this finds you doing well!
>
> Greg
Posted by mair on May 30, 2001, at 21:49:55
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board? » Greg, posted by Shar on May 30, 2001, at 17:39:52
> " My participation has certainly plummeted over the past few months."
WHY? - I haven't always agreed with you but I've always thought that your posts were well worth reading. I've missed your substantial contributions and have wondered on more than 1 ocassion why you've been so absent.Mair (fka ksvt)
Posted by Deb R on May 30, 2001, at 22:00:40
In reply to Re: Old-Timers board, posted by Dr. Bob on May 30, 2001, at 1:36:12
Hi Dr Bob, everyone,
How would we define "old timers" anyway - I missed the previous discussion about this, so perhaps this has already been talked about. It made me think though, how long have people been posting here? I would be really interested in who are the "oldest" timers!! I think I joined about 2 years ago when Mum was in hospital...how about everyone else.
Of course, you must be the grandaddy old timer Dr Bob as yours would have been the first post I guess! (he he)
Best wishes and kind regards,
Deb.
> > There was a discussion several months back about starting an old-timers board. I don't recall it ever reaching any type of conclusion. Can you bring me up to date on what happened with it?
>
> There wasn't much interest. Should we reconsider?
>
> Bob
Posted by Rach on May 31, 2001, at 5:55:14
In reply to Re: Old-Timers board, posted by Deb R on May 30, 2001, at 22:00:40
I was about to mention exactly the same thing, Deb. What is the definition of an old timer?
As for how long I have been posting here - it's been 1 year and two months for me.
> Hi Dr Bob, everyone,
>
> How would we define "old timers" anyway - I missed the previous discussion about this, so perhaps this has already been talked about. It made me think though, how long have people been posting here? I would be really interested in who are the "oldest" timers!! I think I joined about 2 years ago when Mum was in hospital...how about everyone else.
>
> Of course, you must be the grandaddy old timer Dr Bob as yours would have been the first post I guess! (he he)
>
> Best wishes and kind regards,
>
> Deb.
Posted by Dr. Bob on May 31, 2001, at 8:17:04
In reply to Re: Old-Timers board, posted by Deb R on May 30, 2001, at 22:00:40
> How would we define "old timers" anyway
Good question. I'm open to suggestions... Maybe some combination of how long you've been here plus how often you've posted? Some of you were here before there was a registration system to track you!
> I missed the previous discussion about this, so perhaps this has already been talked about.
Here are a few links. There may be more, too...
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20000630/msgs/39641.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20001124/msgs/601.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20001124/msgs/619.html> Of course, you must be the grandaddy old timer Dr Bob as yours would have been the first post I guess! (he he)
If you look close you can see the gray hair... :-)
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/19981001/msgs/1.html
Bob
Posted by Shar on May 31, 2001, at 23:01:26
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board? » Shar, posted by mair on May 30, 2001, at 21:49:55
Hi, K!! I didn't know that was you! And, what do you mean you don't always agree with me?!? (j/k)
The flavor or ambience of the board nowadays is not something I am eager to participate in. It actually began to lose its rosy glow with all the hatefulness that came out around the fun being had with the Lump posts. Such vituperation!
Shar
> > " My participation has certainly plummeted over the past few months."
>
> WHY? - I haven't always agreed with you but I've always thought that your posts were well worth reading. I've missed your substantial contributions and have wondered on more than 1 ocassion why you've been so absent.
>
> Mair (fka ksvt)
Posted by Mair on June 1, 2001, at 22:34:49
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board? » mair, posted by Shar on May 31, 2001, at 23:01:26
> " It actually began to lose its rosy glow with all the hatefulness that came out around the fun being had with the Lump posts."
>
> Wasn't that late last fall. I remember that as a very strange time. Posters seemed to either be despondent (I was definitely in that category), or testy and/or a tad on the silly side. (I don't think this is the right word) These various mood states were constantly at odds. I was somewhat anti-lumps altho that may have just been the result of my own poor mental state. Anyway, it was pretty awful, but I chalked it up to seasonal changes and challenges posed by early winter, and fortunately after awhile, things did seem to calm down.BTW aren't you from Texas? Does anyone down there ever publicly express a disatisfaction with George W. or are those sentiments as unwelcome as the political sensitivities of Sen. Jeffords? I'd really like your take.
Mair
>
>
> > >
Posted by Shar on June 2, 2001, at 23:12:40
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board? » Shar, posted by Mair on June 1, 2001, at 22:34:49
> > " It actually began to lose its rosy glow with all the hatefulness that came out around the fun being had with the Lump posts."
> >
> > Wasn't that late last fall. I remember that as a very strange time.,,,,,,,,,Yes, it was around November forward. Covered the holidays, had a great version of the 12 days of xmas. It was strange, the atmosphere--so viscious. Maybe that's when I stopped feeling too safe here. Since then, I haven't felt that I could respond to hateful posts without doing the PBC dance, tiptoes and all, trying to please all the people all the time.
>
> BTW aren't you from Texas? Does anyone down there ever publicly express a disatisfaction with George W. or are those sentiments as unwelcome as the political sensitivities of Sen. Jeffords? I'd really like your take.
>
,,,,,,,,,Yee-hawww, yes indeedy. Every yellow-dog Democrat in the Great State of Texas breathed a collective sigh of relief when Shrub left for the White House. We are dearly hoping that we will be soon forgotten (or at least left alone) as he attempts to understand other issues. In terms of verbalizing sentiments, oh yeah. Ya jes gotta smile when ya say that, pardner.Shar
> Mair
> >
> >
> > > >
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 3, 2001, at 10:10:52
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board?, posted by Shar on June 2, 2001, at 23:12:40
> Since then, I haven't felt that I could respond to hateful posts without doing the PBC dance, tiptoes and all, trying to please all the people all the time.
There should be a song to go with the dance! :-)
Seriously, it is in fact like dancing. In either case, you can't be as uninhibited if you try not to step on others' toes, but it's better in general if you do.
Bob
Posted by Cam W. on June 3, 2001, at 11:46:57
In reply to Re: the PBC dance, posted by Dr. Bob on June 3, 2001, at 10:10:52
> > Since then, I haven't felt that I could respond to hateful posts without doing the PBC dance, tiptoes and all, trying to please all the people all the time.
>
> There should be a song to go with the dance! :-)
>
Dr.B - Sung to the Kinks' tune, "You Really Got Me" or the Grateful Dead cover, "Goin' Down the Road Feelin' Bad"? - Cam=^)
Posted by Greg on June 3, 2001, at 11:55:28
In reply to Re: the PBC dance, posted by Dr. Bob on June 3, 2001, at 10:10:52
> > Since then, I haven't felt that I could respond to hateful posts without doing the PBC dance, tiptoes and all, trying to please all the people all the time.
I don't Shar, I think you have all the moves down. After all, you could have taken the cheap shot at my age like a certain pharmacist I know.... :^)
(Please note the critical placement of the smiley face)
Posted by Greg on June 3, 2001, at 12:02:01
In reply to Re: Old-Timers board, posted by Dr. Bob on May 31, 2001, at 8:17:04
That's a good criteria. One question comes to mind though. Some of the "old-timers" here have changed their e-mail addys and screen names over the months. Do you have a way of linking that info into a search so that no one is left out that should be included?
> > How would we define "old timers" anyway
>
> Good question. I'm open to suggestions... Maybe some combination of how long you've been here plus how often you've posted? Some of you were here before there was a registration system to track you!
>
> > I missed the previous discussion about this, so perhaps this has already been talked about.
>
> Here are a few links. There may be more, too...
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20000630/msgs/39641.html
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20001124/msgs/601.html
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20001124/msgs/619.html
>
> > Of course, you must be the grandaddy old timer Dr Bob as yours would have been the first post I guess! (he he)
>
> If you look close you can see the gray hair... :-)
>
> http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/19981001/msgs/1.html
>
> Bob
Posted by Cam W. on June 3, 2001, at 13:45:52
In reply to Re: the PBC dance - Shar, posted by Greg on June 3, 2001, at 11:55:28
LOL - Sorry Dad =^P
> I don't Shar, I think you have all the moves down. After all, you could have taken the cheap shot at my age like a certain pharmacist I know.... :^)
>
> (Please note the critical placement of the smiley face)
Posted by Mair on June 4, 2001, at 17:57:54
In reply to Re: Dr. Bob, the Old-Timers board?, posted by Shar on June 2, 2001, at 23:12:40
> >This discussion is starting to make me uneasy because most of what has been said centers on the logistics of the board. No one has raised an issue of whether this is a good idea. When an old timers board was first discussed, I had not been on the board for very long and I felt both hurt and panicked by the suggestion - hurt because it did have an exclusionary feel, and panicked because getting support from people who had thought and written alot about depression was helpful to me. There is the obvious appeal that maybe people like Greg and Shar and some other old timers who have since disappeared, would participate more. But I think there are downsides and I'd really like to hear from "old timers" why the benefits outweigh the detriments, and I'd like to here from some newer people as to whether they even care, or as to what benefitsor detriments they think there are to not have as many participants on the regular PSB board. My recollection is that the idea arose because lots of people were tired of fielding the same questions about meds on PB. PSB is obviously a very different kind of board.
Mair
Posted by Dr. Bob on June 4, 2001, at 21:16:38
In reply to Re: Old-Timers board » Dr. Bob, posted by Greg on June 3, 2001, at 12:02:01
> That's a good criteria. One question comes to mind though. Some of the "old-timers" here have changed their e-mail addys and screen names over the months. Do you have a way of linking that info into a search so that no one is left out that should be included?
For better or for worse, I'm limited in my ability to link different handles. Actually, another idea here was that it might be an incentive for people to stick to the same handle...
I suppose people could just tell me who they used to be in the past?
Bob
Posted by Greg on June 5, 2001, at 9:40:29
In reply to Food for Thought re: Old Timers Board, posted by Mair on June 4, 2001, at 17:57:54
Hi Mair,
I hope this finds you doing well. I needed to think a bit before responding. I wanted to let you know why I think this is a good idea, and the opinions and feelings I express here are my own and I'm not speaking on anyone else's behalf (my disclaimer :).
I have two reasons for liking the idea of an old timers board:
First, there have been people here who have literally, in every sense of the word, saved my life on more than one occasion. Some of them I'm still in touch with, others I haven't heard from in a very long time. I'd like to hear from them, their successes, their failures, how life in general is treating them. I like those "do you remember when" conversations. I think an old timers board *might* encourage some of them to post. And who knows, they might also start posting to the other boards as well? A win-win situation.
Second, the flavor of PB has changed IMHO, drastically. There seems to be so much friction, fighting, nerves on end. In the 1 1/2 years I've been here, I've never known it to be this bad. I haven't posted much for several months because of this, I just don't feel comfortable. I don't feel like I can open up the way I used to. I read posts and want to respond, but I find myself analysing everything I write for fear that I might say something that will offend someone else and start a big fight. In the end, it takes so much of my energy to write a post, that I find myself unable to do it. There have always been arguements and differences of opinion here. But we always seemed to be able to work out our problems with a minimum of effort, and always walked away friends. While initially I was against splitting up the boards (I believe that was the beginning of the change here), I now see that a new board, one where all issues can be dicussed, whether it be meds, social stuff or admin or just talking with old friends, might be beneficial for getting back some of what has been lost here.
I'm sorry that this topic is uncomfortable for you. I understand and respect your feelings about this. Unfortunately, you're right, a board like this would probably be exclusionary to some people. If you have thoughts about criteria to keep that from happening, I'd love to hear them.
I hope old and new members alike will comment about this. If this is a bad idea, then it should be dropped quickly. But if it has some merit, I'd like to see it move forward.
Mair, I hope I haven't offended you or anyone else here with my comments, it certainly is not my intention.
Be well,
Greg> > >This discussion is starting to make me uneasy because most of what has been said centers on the logistics of the board. No one has raised an issue of whether this is a good idea. When an old timers board was first discussed, I had not been on the board for very long and I felt both hurt and panicked by the suggestion - hurt because it did have an exclusionary feel, and panicked because getting support from people who had thought and written alot about depression was helpful to me. There is the obvious appeal that maybe people like Greg and Shar and some other old timers who have since disappeared, would participate more. But I think there are downsides and I'd really like to hear from "old timers" why the benefits outweigh the detriments, and I'd like to here from some newer people as to whether they even care, or as to what benefitsor detriments they think there are to not have as many participants on the regular PSB board. My recollection is that the idea arose because lots of people were tired of fielding the same questions about meds on PB. PSB is obviously a very different kind of board.
>
> Mair
Posted by Greg on June 5, 2001, at 9:55:05
In reply to Re: Food for Thought re: Old Timers Board » Mair, posted by Greg on June 5, 2001, at 9:40:29
I don't think the new board would cause the existing members to post any less to the existing boards. It might in fact cause participation on those boards to increase...hopefully.
> Hi Mair,
>
> I hope this finds you doing well. I needed to think a bit before responding. I wanted to let you know why I think this is a good idea, and the opinions and feelings I express here are my own and I'm not speaking on anyone else's behalf (my disclaimer :).
>
> I have two reasons for liking the idea of an old timers board:
>
> First, there have been people here who have literally, in every sense of the word, saved my life on more than one occasion. Some of them I'm still in touch with, others I haven't heard from in a very long time. I'd like to hear from them, their successes, their failures, how life in general is treating them. I like those "do you remember when" conversations. I think an old timers board *might* encourage some of them to post. And who knows, they might also start posting to the other boards as well? A win-win situation.
>
> Second, the flavor of PB has changed IMHO, drastically. There seems to be so much friction, fighting, nerves on end. In the 1 1/2 years I've been here, I've never known it to be this bad. I haven't posted much for several months because of this, I just don't feel comfortable. I don't feel like I can open up the way I used to. I read posts and want to respond, but I find myself analysing everything I write for fear that I might say something that will offend someone else and start a big fight. In the end, it takes so much of my energy to write a post, that I find myself unable to do it. There have always been arguements and differences of opinion here. But we always seemed to be able to work out our problems with a minimum of effort, and always walked away friends. While initially I was against splitting up the boards (I believe that was the beginning of the change here), I now see that a new board, one where all issues can be dicussed, whether it be meds, social stuff or admin or just talking with old friends, might be beneficial for getting back some of what has been lost here.
>
> I'm sorry that this topic is uncomfortable for you. I understand and respect your feelings about this. Unfortunately, you're right, a board like this would probably be exclusionary to some people. If you have thoughts about criteria to keep that from happening, I'd love to hear them.
>
> I hope old and new members alike will comment about this. If this is a bad idea, then it should be dropped quickly. But if it has some merit, I'd like to see it move forward.
>
> Mair, I hope I haven't offended you or anyone else here with my comments, it certainly is not my intention.
>
> Be well,
> Greg
>
> > > >This discussion is starting to make me uneasy because most of what has been said centers on the logistics of the board. No one has raised an issue of whether this is a good idea. When an old timers board was first discussed, I had not been on the board for very long and I felt both hurt and panicked by the suggestion - hurt because it did have an exclusionary feel, and panicked because getting support from people who had thought and written alot about depression was helpful to me. There is the obvious appeal that maybe people like Greg and Shar and some other old timers who have since disappeared, would participate more. But I think there are downsides and I'd really like to hear from "old timers" why the benefits outweigh the detriments, and I'd like to here from some newer people as to whether they even care, or as to what benefitsor detriments they think there are to not have as many participants on the regular PSB board. My recollection is that the idea arose because lots of people were tired of fielding the same questions about meds on PB. PSB is obviously a very different kind of board.
> >
> > Mair
Posted by shelliR on June 5, 2001, at 11:36:00
In reply to Food for Thought re: Old Timers Board, posted by Mair on June 4, 2001, at 17:57:54
Hi Mair.
I've been on a bit over a year--perhaps around the same time you starting participating on PB. But I am definitely not part of the "old-timers" group, so I don't identify with wanting a separate board to reconnect. I think I came just when the tightness of a small group of people was loosening a bit, but I found it very hard to find a place for myself on the board. There were a lot of messages to specific people about vacation plans. Some posters were quite open about only reading posts from people they knew and cared about. There were a lot of postings about leaving on vacations, coming back from vacations, progress on cleaning apartments, etc.--it was, I think, the beginnings of the end of a highly personal board with many less participants. So I understand those folks sort of longing to be back there again, where it seems that posters were missed if they took even a few days off, a true community feeling.
So personally having a lack of nostalgia for that time, I don't really want another board. On the other hand, I don't have any strong opposition to the creation of one. As Greg said, many of those people have left the board, and others like himself have mostly disconnected, so I don't think it will affect overall the rest of BP. I have good feelings for some of the regulars on PB and still want to participate on BP. I don't, however, think it is in my best interest to increase my participation by becoming part of a tightknit group on the internet. I live alone and work from home, and need to really point my energy into getting out more into the real world, something that is difficult for me.
My two cents, Shelli
Posted by Mair on June 5, 2001, at 21:51:15
In reply to Re: Food for Thought re: Mair, PS, posted by Greg on June 5, 2001, at 9:55:05
>Greg-
First, please don't feel you have to put in so many disclaimers. Do you remember the quote from a member of the US Supreme Court about the definition of pornography (or are you too young to remember)? He said "I know it when I see it." I'm a little the same way about incivility. I don't think it's so much whether you agree as how you disagree, and how personal your disagreement becomes. I try to stay away from alot of the civility discussions because I don't like being around so much animosity. Moreover, I can't imagine taking offense over someone's opinion unless the statement of their opinion carried with it an implication that anyone who doesn't share it is an idiot.
Second, aren't you the one who started ASH? I never made it over there but I frankly assumed that's where the old timers who disappeared went?
Third, alot of what you say has a great deal of merit, although I'm not quite sure when, why or how things changed. Unlike Shellie, I rather miss some of the more personal discussions even if I wasn't a part of them. I think it helped me put some of the more established posters in some context, and probably contributed to a sense of safety. It would be nice to recover that, but unfortunate to make that unavailable to some. I disagree that old timers will spend time on both boards. Time to spend on this board has been a scarce commodity for many people. Since the split of PB, I've barely been back there.
There are no easy answers which is probably why I invited some feedback to begin with. I sometimes think my ability to see multiple sides of every dilemma paralyzes me from ever making a decision about anything. I hope we get some more responses.Mair
PS: I too sometimes have that feeling that it takes too much energy to post, but that feeling waxes and wanes with the intensity of my depression. I might not feel so inhibited posting certain things, if I knew who was going to be receiving it. However,I don't think I fail to post simply because I'm afraid of offending someone else.
Posted by Shar on June 5, 2001, at 23:26:59
In reply to Re: Food for Thought re: Old Timers Board » Mair, posted by Greg on June 5, 2001, at 9:40:29
Greg & All,
I think an old-timers board would be just fine, and it would be unfortunate if people felt excluded, but a trade-off. I think the trade-off would be worth it if there was participation like that described by Greg. I also miss the connections I had with people (for many varied reasons), the feeling of safety I had, and the continuity of the 'community.'Just the other day (now, there's an old-timers expression) I was thinking about Harry B. and wondering how he was, wishing he would post, having some questions to ask him.
Also, I think the O-T board might find itself addressing different issues. For example, people who have been posting for a long while may be in different phases of their illness, at least as far as having gone through it ON PsychoBabble. I think (IMHO) people early in their illnesses or early on the boards sometimes have very different issues than O-Ts.
So, I would be in favor of an O-Ts board, but would not cut off a hand to have it.
Shar
> Hi Mair,
>
> I hope this finds you doing well. I needed to think a bit before responding. I wanted to let you know why I think this is a good idea, and the opinions and feelings I express here are my own and I'm not speaking on anyone else's behalf (my disclaimer :).
>
> I have two reasons for liking the idea of an old timers board:
>
> First, there have been people here who have literally, in every sense of the word, saved my life on more than one occasion. Some of them I'm still in touch with, others I haven't heard from in a very long time. I'd like to hear from them, their successes, their failures, how life in general is treating them. I like those "do you remember when" conversations. I think an old timers board *might* encourage some of them to post. And who knows, they might also start posting to the other boards as well? A win-win situation.
>
> Second, the flavor of PB has changed IMHO, drastically. There seems to be so much friction, fighting, nerves on end. In the 1 1/2 years I've been here, I've never known it to be this bad. I haven't posted much for several months because of this, I just don't feel comfortable. I don't feel like I can open up the way I used to. I read posts and want to respond, but I find myself analysing everything I write for fear that I might say something that will offend someone else and start a big fight. In the end, it takes so much of my energy to write a post, that I find myself unable to do it. There have always been arguements and differences of opinion here. But we always seemed to be able to work out our problems with a minimum of effort, and always walked away friends. While initially I was against splitting up the boards (I believe that was the beginning of the change here), I now see that a new board, one where all issues can be dicussed, whether it be meds, social stuff or admin or just talking with old friends, might be beneficial for getting back some of what has been lost here.
>
> I'm sorry that this topic is uncomfortable for you. I understand and respect your feelings about this. Unfortunately, you're right, a board like this would probably be exclusionary to some people. If you have thoughts about criteria to keep that from happening, I'd love to hear them.
>
> I hope old and new members alike will comment about this. If this is a bad idea, then it should be dropped quickly. But if it has some merit, I'd like to see it move forward.
>
> Mair, I hope I haven't offended you or anyone else here with my comments, it certainly is not my intention.
>
> Be well,
> Greg
>
> > > >This discussion is starting to make me uneasy because most of what has been said centers on the logistics of the board. No one has raised an issue of whether this is a good idea. When an old timers board was first discussed, I had not been on the board for very long and I felt both hurt and panicked by the suggestion - hurt because it did have an exclusionary feel, and panicked because getting support from people who had thought and written alot about depression was helpful to me. There is the obvious appeal that maybe people like Greg and Shar and some other old timers who have since disappeared, would participate more. But I think there are downsides and I'd really like to hear from "old timers" why the benefits outweigh the detriments, and I'd like to here from some newer people as to whether they even care, or as to what benefitsor detriments they think there are to not have as many participants on the regular PSB board. My recollection is that the idea arose because lots of people were tired of fielding the same questions about meds on PB. PSB is obviously a very different kind of board.
> >
> > Mair
Posted by Chris A. on June 8, 2001, at 0:50:30
In reply to Re: Food for Thought re: Old Timers Board, posted by Shar on June 5, 2001, at 23:26:59
To All,
Speaking from a socially avoidant perspective, exclusion can be very painful and down right dangerous for some people who share this malady. We tend to be very sensitive to rejection. Yes, I wonder about some of those from a couple of years back who were either very helpful or going through great pain themselves. Some were of great support to me when I was very suicidal. At times it feels like losing family. There was more of a sense of community, but I'm not sure an 'oldies' board would promote community, just a great divide - "I was here before you were."
I must admit, my nostalgia isn't terribly strong since losing so much of my memory following ECT, so you can take that into account. I simply don't remember what all went on, just bits and pieces.More food for thought,
Chris A.
Posted by Dr. Bob on April 2, 2002, at 19:37:48
In reply to Re: Food for Thought re: Old Timers Board, posted by Chris A. on June 8, 2001, at 0:50:30
[quotes below from the thread starting at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20020325/msgs/21221.html]
> I chalked [the change] up to turn-over rate in those who post...
> IsoM> It may be in part because there are many more posters than there were 2+ years ago...
> Greg> 1. the board has grown so it's tougher to know each other
> 2. dr. bob has had to respond to that growth by "policing" more.
> the board can be broken into another piece or two.
> - kk> I wish whole-heartedly that a lot of the "old timers would come back.
> I do think I know what is missing now that we had a few years ago, a sense of family. I miss that a lot.
> GregThe above made me think again about this idea of a separate board for old-timers. Other, even earlier, threads in which this has been discussed:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/20000630/msgs/39641.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20001124/msgs/601.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20001124/msgs/619.htmlWhat do you think? Give it a try? A more general version might be a limited-membership board without specific (well, with different) membership "criteria"...
Bob
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