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Posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
I have taken note that there are a number of people who have, as I have, been on a number of medications and have had problems with many of the medications. I also wonder how many people get caught up in searching for the good life soley in some medication and don't try to live life or perhaps make excuses to themselves why they can't move forward with their life. I will likely be backing off from PsychoBabble, only to return if I have a question. I am aware that many people must spend most of their time on this site. Why is that?? Answering and searching, I suppose. I have decided I need to stop wallowing (for me) and get on with things. I wish everyone well.
Karen
Posted by SLS on July 31, 2006, at 4:43:21
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
Drugs don't deal with issues. People do.
However, when things in the brain go wrong, drugs can facilitate the return of the ability to deal with issues.
Good luck.
- Scott
Posted by Glydin on July 31, 2006, at 6:32:39
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about li, posted by SLS on July 31, 2006, at 4:43:21
I believe SLS is correct. While alot of what this board is about is seeking, some do return after finding remission to try and be of help. I have found it is a way to give back - at least in my own mind - after being here during a difficult time. Granted, what we can do as help to others is quite limited here.
Medications will never be the the whole of the answer to get to a remission and a good quality of life. There are many, many factors, to include, possibly, an attitude of "getting on with life". For some of us, finding a workable chemical adjunct in that process in a key factor. For others, it is not.
I hope all goes well for you.
Posted by bkdog on July 31, 2006, at 7:09:43
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about li, posted by Glydin on July 31, 2006, at 6:32:39
would love to just get on with life.however, with my brain chemistry the way it is at the moment, i cant even visualize how i will get through TODAY.
even if i force myself out and about, i am not really there... I just dont process stimuli the same way anymore.... there is no enjoyment or expectation of such.
to quote Kramer (from Seinfeld):
" there is nothing out there for me "
Posted by Crazy Horse on July 31, 2006, at 8:45:39
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
> I have taken note that there are a number of people who have, as I have, been on a number of medications and have had problems with many of the medications. I also wonder how many people get caught up in searching for the good life soley in some medication and don't try to live life or perhaps make excuses to themselves why they can't move forward with their life. I will likely be backing off from PsychoBabble, only to return if I have a question. I am aware that many people must spend most of their time on this site. Why is that?? Answering and searching, I suppose. I have decided I need to stop wallowing (for me) and get on with things. I wish everyone well.
>
> Karen
Hmmmmm...interesting and somewhat true. I understand what you are saying and agree in part. Wish you well. :)Monte
Posted by wacky on July 31, 2006, at 9:20:17
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life?? » Karen44, posted by Crazy Horse on July 31, 2006, at 8:45:39
I have not been on this site for very long and have certainly gleened some very valuable information from it. However, I could see that spending too much time focusing on the illness could in itself become counterproductive. If I did not work - it would be very easy to spend hours here. For some, it could be lifesaving - for others, paying too much attention to the illness. Things tend to grow that we pay too much attention to.
Posted by Phillipa on July 31, 2006, at 10:00:17
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by wacky on July 31, 2006, at 9:20:17
True as reading the med board reminds of how many meds have failed and you tend to spend your time thinking only of meds. But I enjoy the interracting of the great people here. To say it's kindda a hobby wouldn't be fair. As I have learned so much here things I would never learn elsewhere. So I'm thankful to this site. Love Phillipa
Posted by pseudoname on July 31, 2006, at 10:02:47
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
This observation seems to come up about once a month, I think. I like Karen's post better because it's clearly voiced from her point of view, it's not sneering, and it sounds like genuine dialogue-type questions.
Others making similar points sometimes have such a tone of moral superiority. Sometimes people come here just for the purpose of saying what a waste of time it is to come here.
On the apparent lack of forward movement among frequent Babblers: A lot of people here are amateur psychopharmacologists & psychologists (and a few pros). We have interests in these subjects beyond just our own problems, and we have a lot of specialized information we can only talk about with other enthusiasts. This is about the only place where we can do that. It's like any other specialized interest.
To me, participating a lot here in that way counts as "life": it can be educational, developmental, communal; it deals with important social issues that *someone* needs to think about deeply; it keeps your mind & civility skills sharp, and it can genuinely provide big help to others. I don't know if I ever really help anyone here, but I know that I would never be able to share the limited specialty information I have about meds anywhere else, certainly not in my "real" off-line life. Participating here, even doing it a lot, doesn't *always* mean we're wallowing in our own problems, even if we include our own experiences in the discussion.
I do admit, people, myself included, can wallow in problems, with or without Babble. I post here a lot, but I think that looking over my posts in the last year, one can see a lot of progress. People overgeneralize easily about Babble, and it can seem like no one ever gets better. But there are a lot of successful experiences here. (I'm half-way there.)
> I also wonder how many people get caught up in searching for the good life soley in some medication
That's a real concern. People get fixated too easily, searching for the good life solely in a lover or spouse or job or physique or house or kid or degree or whatever. But if medications are even going to be just a part of the solution to a good life, it may take a lot of work & help to find that part.
I wish you well, too, Karen. I hope you pop back in for any reason.
Posted by UgottaHaveHope on July 31, 2006, at 10:23:42
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
Karen, with all due respect, your above post appears to be an affirmation message to yourself rather than an accurate description of the majority of people on this board.
Why do people get caught up in searching "for the good life soley" in some medication? I don't think that's the case with the majority of people in here; however, with those that you feel do, the answer is easy: HOPE. A hope to get better, and it's that hope that inspires them to search and search. Perhaps there is someone in here that is in the same type of situation, found a med that worked for it ... and may help them, too. (That's the short answer).
Again, your post appears to be some sort of confirmation to yourself. You seem like a great person, very well spoken and thoughtful, and your presence will be missed. Best wishes and we're always here if you need someone to chat with. Michael
Posted by pseudoname on July 31, 2006, at 11:43:07
In reply to Who said meds were the whole answer?????????????, posted by UgottaHaveHope on July 31, 2006, at 10:23:42
> your above post appears to be an affirmation message to yourself rather than an accurate description
Hi, Michael.
Apologies if this comes across as pedantic; I don't know how else to write it.
If we have a difference of opinion with another poster, it may be better simply to present evidence for our point of view than to make conclusions about the other's motivations or to characterize their opinion psychologically. I know that alternative interpretations are better-received if they don't *directly* characterize someone else's inner life (the "don't jump to conclusions" thing). I've done the characterizing routine myself, so I also know it doesn't mean anything bad about the writer; it's just something we can watch out for.
I recall that you've made somewhat similar posts to Karen's in the past. Were they "confirmations to yourself", as you say? I think it would be interesting to hear such experiences and any insights about them — if in fact that was the case.
Posted by Meri-Tuuli on July 31, 2006, at 11:56:54
In reply to about life » Karen44, posted by pseudoname on July 31, 2006, at 10:02:47
Hey PN!
That was a great post.
>But there are a lot of successful experiences here.
I like to think I'm a success story (so far anyway, there's always the chance of remission, unfortunately). When I first came here a couple of years ago, it was out of sheer desperation, because I was taking Celexa and had turned into a sleeping, carb munching zombie with no life and no motivation to do anything.
Thankfully, people here educated me about the real side effects of drugs like celexa, and I was able to discontinue and try a few other things. To cut a long and rather boring story sort, I'm doing well now on rhodiola (and some other herbs) and I can honestly say thats its been mostly down to Babble and my own research. Even the fact that I managed to see a pdoc here on the NHS was down to Babble - I didn't realise you had to sort of 'ask' for it, and really push for your GP to refer you to one.
I'm still here, even through I'm well (ish), because I like to keep up to date with my friends and to learn more about the brain.
But I can see how it might appear that we're all fixated trying to find the perfect med. But don't forget that there's a bunch of other boards here too completely unrelated to medications. If you were to jumble all the threads together over the whole site, you would be able to get a more realistic view of the traffic and content of Babble.
Kind regards
Meri
Posted by idolamine on July 31, 2006, at 12:19:41
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
OK
> I have taken note that there are a number of people who have, as I have, been on a number of medications and have had problems with many of the medications. I also wonder how many people get caught up in searching for the good life soley in some medication and don't try to live life or perhaps make excuses to themselves why they can't move forward with their life. I will likely be backing off from PsychoBabble, only to return if I have a question. I am aware that many people must spend most of their time on this site. Why is that?? Answering and searching, I suppose. I have decided I need to stop wallowing (for me) and get on with things. I wish everyone well.
>
> Karen
Posted by Declan on July 31, 2006, at 15:02:33
In reply to Re: about life » pseudoname, posted by Meri-Tuuli on July 31, 2006, at 11:56:54
A lot of people here have got to know each other and like chatting with each other.
Look at how much I know about some of you and how much I've told you about me.It is different to face to face contact, but that doesn't make it more or less real......isn't it like writing letters?
Posted by Crazy Horse on July 31, 2006, at 15:26:23
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by wacky on July 31, 2006, at 9:20:17
> I have not been on this site for very long and have certainly gleened some very valuable information from it. However, I could see that spending too much time focusing on the illness could in itself become counterproductive. If I did not work - it would be very easy to spend hours here. For some, it could be lifesaving - for others, paying too much attention to the illness. Things tend to grow that we pay too much attention to.
Your post is right on...paying too much attention on the illness, hanging here for hours every day can be counter productive. Excellent post..i agree 100%! :)
Monte
Posted by Crazy Horse on July 31, 2006, at 15:29:26
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Phillipa on July 31, 2006, at 10:00:17
> True as reading the med board reminds of how many meds have failed and you tend to spend your time thinking only of meds. But I enjoy the interracting of the great people here. To say it's kindda a hobby wouldn't be fair. As I have learned so much here things I would never learn elsewhere. So I'm thankful to this site. Love Phillipa
Yea..that's what i like too Jan. And i have learned a lot about pharmacology here. Meeting good people, i.e., you, Marty and John. Others too. :)
Monte
Posted by linkadge on July 31, 2006, at 16:25:26
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life?? » Phillipa, posted by Crazy Horse on July 31, 2006, at 15:29:26
I can only answer for myself.
At this point I'm not in any significant search for a medication to help me. I am looking for ways to possably reverse some of the problems the medications have caused.
I'm also looking for any information that may help my mothers condition, since there are a number of bipolars here.
Finally I have come to talk with people here that I have known for a long time.
For some people, the condition is chronic with or without medications. This site can simply offer hope, and perhaps new ways to approach their illness. Its just one tool in the box.
Linkadge
Posted by llrrrpp on July 31, 2006, at 23:24:32
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by linkadge on July 31, 2006, at 16:25:26
Hi all,
I came to this board when I was terrified and twitching and panicky about losing my mind on my very first ever psych-med. What I found was that a lot of people experience just what I have, and often far worse. And no matter how many times the pdoc says: it sounds like a side effect/you are probably anxious and it's affecting your sleep/you should try to stick it out a few more weeks... I just wanted to go into hibernation and emerge when I was "better".I had strange expectations regarding psych-meds. I guess not so strange, given the advertising on TV. I would be depressed, take a magic pill and then catch butterflies and play with puppies. On psycho-babble I enjoy hearing people's personal stories. I have learned a lot about mental illness, pharmacology and healthcare here. I have revised many expectations, and suggested things to my pdoc which ended up positively affecting my treatment.
Most of all, I think I have learned a lot from people that I used to shun as 'psycho'. You see, despite a family history of schizophrenia, bipolar, alcoholism and depression, I was arrogant and thought I was 'healthy'. I thought people were weak who needed to see a shrink or take 'those' kind of medications. I thought pdocs were little more than legal drug dealers with nice offices. Mostly I was scared of "them" the people in mental health- patients and practitioners, & probably of myself as well.
I was SOOOOO wrong. 'psycho' people are real people. Just because they have severe depression doesn't make them less human. It doesn't change the fact that we worry about our family, our jobs, our health and our money. Our problems may be more complicated, rarer, and so on, but we can learn so much from the roadblocks and insights of others who are walking the road of recovery with us.
The care and support of the mental health community was first demonstrated to me on psycho-babble. I learned that T and pdoc were not part of a 'system' to put me into a special category of 'crazy-psycho-for-life'. Rather, I learned that they care for my well-being and hope for my recovery. I could not have interpreted the events of my early sessions with T and pdoc were it not for p-babble help.
And finally, I made some good friends here- people from all over the place. I like meeting nice people.
sorry so long. I just wanted to reflect on how far I've come and how much I owe psycho-babble (all the boards)
-ll
Posted by Phillipa on August 1, 2006, at 0:02:08
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about li, posted by llrrrpp on July 31, 2006, at 23:24:32
You're too intelligent. Can they clone you? Love Phillipa
Posted by llrrrpp on August 1, 2006, at 0:04:55
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about li » llrrrpp, posted by Phillipa on August 1, 2006, at 0:02:08
> You're too intelligent. Can they clone you? Love Phillipa
Phillipa,
they don't want to clone me- I'm crazy, remember?:o)
-ll
Posted by Karen44 on August 1, 2006, at 1:14:29
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
I am sorry; I don't know what I did wrong, but my message did not go through. I will try to remember what I said. I wanted to say that I hoped I had not offended anyone as I was posting about what I think I need to do and just wondered about others and how this has helped. I see it has helped a number of people for various reasons.
As far as coming back to help others, I do not think this is very likely. However, I won't rule it out. The reason I say it is unlikely and actually very unlikely is because I am a psychologist and spend my days working with others (actually as a forensic psychologist of recent), and so I think it would be counterproductive for me to spend my days and evenings "helping."
I also want to say that I have found it helpful to have others give input to me and my situation. There are some people who appear to be very knowledgeable about psychopharacology. I have had some very difficult times with finding a medication that will not cause adverse reactions and/or allergic reactions. This was a problem for me in my younger days as well when I became very depressed.
I will not say I am not depressed as I am very depressed, and I hope I can find a medication or medications that will help. I won't give up on this. For now, with the medication not so helpful, I plan to try to focus on work and friends. This works but not indefinitely, and so I know that any effort to gut it out and "pretend" I am okay will only work for so long. It would be very easy for me to just pull the covers over my head and never get out of bed to see anyone. I know too that doing something like that would only make me worse. So, I will try to manage as best I can until medication works. If it does not work, then I am not sure what I might do. ECT might be an option, but I am no where close to thinking I would consider it.
Who knows; I might be back sooner than I think if my bronchoscopy results show something I am not sure I want to know. Don't think there is any cancer, but a scrapping and some washings were sent off to see and rule out for sure. I am trying to stay positive. Anyway, I may pop back in from time to time but not daily, and this having been said,it is doubtful I will post for awhile. Take care everyone, and I wish you well.
Karen
Posted by UgottaHaveHope on August 1, 2006, at 4:55:44
In reply to Re: Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on August 1, 2006, at 1:14:29
PN, I am sorry if you have me confused with someone else, but I have never made "similiar" comments to Karen44 or anyone on this web site. I have tried to support or encourage Karen44, as I always do with everyone and will continue to do so.
I just took issue with a generalization she made: "I am aware that many people must spend most of their time on this site." I'm one of the most frequent posters and I average probably 20 minutes per day, if that. But if someone wanted to most of their time here, then I think that's fine too, as would everyone else. This is a healthy site, designed to educate and encourage others. There is a wealth of information on here for people in need.
Posted by Sobriquet Style on August 1, 2006, at 5:56:43
In reply to Medications the whole answer and what about life??, posted by Karen44 on July 31, 2006, at 0:08:40
3rd world countries and the people within them have a contentment and happiness that completely outweights that of the rich develeped countries of the world. Why? I don't know but I've witnessed it with my own eyes. Until we reach that balance perhaps the drugs help our thinking to stop us feeling repressed and down about our future ahead in the world of drug advertisments selling an idea whereby the only people really living that gratifying life are those in the 3rd world countries. I think the advertisment should be on how to live like they do in other parts of the world where they are far more happier overall and psychiatric drugs are simply not needed as much.
Psychiatric drugs are becoming our daily diet and filling a hole in our lifes, when truely the answer to filling that hole is what we choose it to be, whether that be psycho babble, medications, sex, socializing with friends or a whole number of things.
The more I enage in what life can give me which totally gives me balance, structure, goals and rewards etc, I find I need less drugs to artificially aid me in life. When these things fall apart and my psyche drops, I pick up the drugs, knowing it will do "something" but never enough to what life has to offer without them.
~
Posted by pseudoname on August 1, 2006, at 6:47:29
In reply to Pseudoname, I stand by everything I said before, posted by UgottaHaveHope on August 1, 2006, at 4:55:44
> PN, I am sorry if you have me confused with someone else, but I have never made "similiar" comments to Karen44 or anyone on this web site.
> I just took issue with a generalization she made [i.e., about Babblers]
I meant that, in my reading of them, you have made comments that were similar to Karen's *comments* — but only to the extent that they seemed constructed as Babbler generalizations; and not that you made the comments *to Karen*.
> I have tried to support or encourage Karen44
I don't question your motivations at all, Michael. My point was simply that I don't want others to question Karen's motivations, either, in the way that I outlined in my post.
Posted by Dr. Bob on August 1, 2006, at 9:03:38
In reply to Re: Pseudoname, I stand by everything I said before » UgottaHaveHope, posted by pseudoname on August 1, 2006, at 6:47:29
> My point was simply that I don't want others to question Karen's motivations
> I like Karen's post ... because it's clearly voiced from her point of view, it's not sneering, and it sounds like genuine dialogue-type questions.
Thanks for supporting Karen (and contributing in other ways), I appreciate that.
> Others making similar points sometimes have such a tone of moral superiority. Sometimes people come here just for the purpose of saying what a waste of time it is to come here.
But I'm afraid I need to ask you please to be careful when doing that not to jump to conclusions about others or to post anything that could lead them to feel accused or put down.
If you or others have questions about this or about posting policies in general, or are interested in alternative ways of expressing yourself, please first see the FAQ:
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforceFollow-ups regarding these issues should be redirected to Psycho-Babble Administration. They, as well as replies to the above post, should of course themselves be civil.
Thanks,
Bob
Posted by Declan on August 1, 2006, at 12:54:48
In reply to Quality of life the answer, and what about drugs?, posted by Sobriquet Style on August 1, 2006, at 5:56:43
Spot on, Sobriquet. Nice post. Anyway, the drugs aren't what they used to be, but it's good to know what to avoid. I just come here to chat.
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