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Posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 1:55:52
geeeez maybe I should go-I haven't encountered anything like this the whole 4 weeks I've been here.
I didn't come here to be bashed or put down, nor to "pick up" on anyone, let alone see posts that are incenuating of a "pick up"-there is only 1 purpose of this board and I had to take a quiz on it to be here from Dr. Bob
Oh well, tomorrow's another day!
Posted by ace on March 26, 2003, at 2:02:19
In reply to totally inappropriate-sign for me to leave, posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 1:55:52
Posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 2:04:51
In reply to Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? (nm) » Krissy P, posted by ace on March 26, 2003, at 2:02:19
justyourlaugh's rude comment to me-totally uncalled for, and that's all I have to say about that. WRONG
Posted by ace on March 26, 2003, at 2:29:12
In reply to Re: Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? ?ace, posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 2:04:51
> justyourlaugh's rude comment to me-totally uncalled for, and that's all I have to say about that. WRONG
This person has a knack for this Krissy. Don't leave, bring it to Dr. Bobs attention ASAP. Look at all the crap this person has been saying to me /about me. In the psych administration he they said they would 'bash me in a bar' or something childish like that. They seem to be preety tough when they ar miles away!
But don't worry Krissy, this person is obviously just prodding. Just look at all the posts he said to me. I got fed up and abused him. If he keeps it up Dr. Bob will block him off.
Take Care Krissy and don't you dare leave!
Ace.
Posted by Viridis on March 26, 2003, at 2:49:28
In reply to totally inappropriate-sign for me to leave, posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 1:55:52
Hi Krissy,
I wouldn't stress over one (kind of ambiguous) post. You have tons of support here, so just focus on that. It's strange and frustrating how these small things can be magnified when you're depressed and agitated (believe me, I know!). There's way more positive than negative here, and we'd be sad to see you leave.
All the best,
Viridis
Posted by ayuda on March 26, 2003, at 7:55:22
In reply to Re: totally inappropriate-sign for me to leave » Krissy P, posted by Viridis on March 26, 2003, at 2:49:28
> Hi Krissy,
>
> I wouldn't stress over one (kind of ambiguous) post. You have tons of support here, so just focus on that. It's strange and frustrating how these small things can be magnified when you're depressed and agitated (believe me, I know!). There's way more positive than negative here, and we'd be sad to see you leave.
>
> All the best,
>
> ViridisI agree, Krissy, you are being a big help to me, and I'd hate to see you go because of one person. I have had some similar problems with some people on these boards, and I too have felt at times like I need to distance myself from this board because of certain people, but then again, so many more people have been supportive. So I just chose to 1) not read their posts to me and 2) keep my conversations limited to those with which I feel comfortable. It's okay to ignore people who get under your skin -- I think that some of us are too polite to do that, but, unfortunately, even here on Psycho-Babble, sometimes it's necessary.
Posted by janejj on March 26, 2003, at 14:32:35
In reply to Re: Don't leave, Krissy, posted by ayuda on March 26, 2003, at 7:55:22
Hi krissy,
Please don't leave cos of this one person, I think they are just a bit confused as their posts hardly make sense.
You wrote me a really helpful reply once and it would be a real shame if you were to leave. There are loads of people on this board that want to help out and aren't mean, so please stay!!
janejj xx
Posted by Janelle on March 26, 2003, at 15:20:53
In reply to Re: Don't leave, Krissy, posted by janejj on March 26, 2003, at 14:32:35
I would echo the sentiments of ayuda above; I've experienced negativity directed at me, it bothered me at first, then I learned to develop a thick skin, especially because this is *just* a computer message board. Try not to take whatever was said too seriously and stick around. You were asking questions about meds that I've either been on or know about, and I was enjoying trying to help you! You seem very sweet. STAY!
Posted by Krissy P on March 26, 2003, at 21:01:44
In reply to Re: Don't leave, Krissy, posted by ayuda on March 26, 2003, at 7:55:22
Posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 1:44:13
In reply to Re: Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? » Krissy P, posted by ace on March 26, 2003, at 2:29:12
hugs to you ace-you have helped me out a lot here and I am eternally grateful! Just because we are *ill* still doesn't give a person the right to do this, and especially get others to take somewhat sides and put their 2 cents in-it goes both ways I guess. I'm over it, but I WILL remember who I choose to help and who I will ask for help from.
Hope you're doing good buddy:-)
Kristen
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> > justyourlaugh's rude comment to me-totally uncalled for, and that's all I have to say about that. WRONG
>
> This person has a knack for this Krissy. Don't leave, bring it to Dr. Bobs attention ASAP. Look at all the crap this person has been saying to me /about me. In the psych administration he they said they would 'bash me in a bar' or something childish like that. They seem to be preety tough when they ar miles away!
>
> But don't worry Krissy, this person is obviously just prodding. Just look at all the posts he said to me. I got fed up and abused him. If he keeps it up Dr. Bob will block him off.
>
> Take Care Krissy and don't you dare leave!
>
>
> Ace.
Posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 5:44:44
In reply to Re: Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? » Krissy P » ace, posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 1:44:13
I'm sorry you see it as "choosing sides". I don't think that those who express caring for one person, and attempt to explain what was going on, are therefore "against" you. It's not an either/or thing.
I hope you hold off on deciding to or not to ask for or receive support from others based on this. You might be pleasantly surprised. People who are able to be supportive of one person, are frequently able to be supportive of others (inclucing yourself) and I would hate to see a line in the sand made. You might miss out on a lot.
But it is, of course, your own choice.
Posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 11:44:06
In reply to Re: Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? » Krissy P, posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 5:44:44
Dinah,
that's why I said it goes both ways. I never said anyone was against me-so please do not put words in my mouth. I'm okay, I'm over it, and others have helped me out a lot concerning it, and have encouraged me to post-for that I am grateful. I have support right here and I'm not going anywhere. We just need to drop it. Out of respect not only for me, but for jyl too.Take Care of YOU
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I'm sorry you see it as "choosing sides". I don't think that those who express caring for one person, and attempt to explain what was going on, are therefore "against" you. It's not an either/or thing.
I hope you hold off on deciding to or not to ask for or receive support from others based on this. You might be pleasantly surprised. People who are able to be supportive of one person, are frequently able to be supportive of others (inclucing yourself) and I would hate to see a line in the sand made. You might miss out on a lot.
>
> But it is, of course, your own choice.
Posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 16:22:27
In reply to Re: Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? » Krissy P » ace, posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 1:44:13
> hugs to you ace-you have helped me out a lot here and I am eternally grateful!
> Just because we are *ill* still doesn't give a person the right to do this,
> and especially get others to take somewhat sides and put their 2 cents in-it goes both ways I guess. I'm over it,
> but I WILL remember who I choose to help and who I will ask for help from.
> Hope you're doing good buddy:-)
> KristenJust forget my post altogether.
Posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 17:44:07
In reply to Re: Please tell me what's wrong Krissy? » Krissy P » ace, posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 1:44:13
> hugs to you ace-you have helped me out a lot here and I am eternally grateful! Just because we are *ill* still doesn't give a person the right to do this, and especially get others to take somewhat sides and put their 2 cents in-it goes both ways I guess. I'm over it, but I WILL remember who I choose to help and who I will ask for help from.
> Hope you're doing good buddy:-)
> Kristen
>Oops. Sorry, this wasn't an old post. All the posts in which you request that the subject be dropped seem to be dated March 26, while this post was dated on March 27, 2003, at 1:44:13.
Of course, I admit that Dr. Bob's dating system may have had a glitch, in which case I beg your pardon, and ask that you understand my confusion.
If his dating system is correct, then I will pledge to take your request not to discuss this matter further at least as seriously as you do.
It wouldn't seem fair, out of respect for everyone involved, to promise more than that, since you must confess that the above post was hardly phrased in the most positive terms. Unless, again I have misunderstood. Perhaps you meant "but I WILL remember who I choose to help and who I will ask for help from." in a positive way? Or "and especially get others to take somewhat sides and put their 2 cents in". I'm sure you can understand why I apparently misunderstood what you meant by taking sides. And perhaps you meant "Just because we are *ill* still doesn't give a person the right to do this" with all the respect you refer to.
You seem to be a sweet girl, Kristen. And I wouldn't post this if you hadn't reminded me that you had asked that no further discussion take place on this subject. I felt really bad about it, until I checked the posting times again.
Posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 17:51:45
In reply to Re: Oops. My mistake » Krissy P, posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 17:44:07
hi Dinah,
no problem, ya know, if you really got to know me-I am not into name calling etc.
I know we all are struggling at times and if you read a few more of my posts on this-I have been nothing but respectful of jyl after this unfortunate thing happpened. Many others have put their 2 cents in-pretty much more than I have and that's fine-that's what I meant, and of course, it was all positive-but I also have a righ to feel.
I was angry and yes, the posts are somewhat dated in a way that makes us hard to remember who wrote what and when.
Don't feel bad Dinah-just let's move on,
Kristen
> > hugs to you ace-you have helped me out a lot here and I am eternally grateful! Just because we are *ill* still doesn't give a person the right to do this, and especially get others to take somewhat sides and put their 2 cents in-it goes both ways I guess. I'm over it, but I WILL remember who I choose to help and who I will ask for help from.
> > Hope you're doing good buddy:-)
> > Kristen
> >
>
> Oops. Sorry, this wasn't an old post. All the posts in which you request that the subject be dropped seem to be dated March 26, while this post was dated on March 27, 2003, at 1:44:13.
>
> Of course, I admit that Dr. Bob's dating system may have had a glitch, in which case I beg your pardon, and ask that you understand my confusion.
>
> If his dating system is correct, then I will pledge to take your request not to discuss this matter further at least as seriously as you do.
>
> It wouldn't seem fair, out of respect for everyone involved, to promise more than that, since you must confess that the above post was hardly phrased in the most positive terms. Unless, again I have misunderstood. Perhaps you meant "but I WILL remember who I choose to help and who I will ask for help from." in a positive way? Or "and especially get others to take somewhat sides and put their 2 cents in". I'm sure you can understand why I apparently misunderstood what you meant by taking sides. And perhaps you meant "Just because we are *ill* still doesn't give a person the right to do this" with all the respect you refer to.
>
> You seem to be a sweet girl, Kristen. And I wouldn't post this if you hadn't reminded me that you had asked that no further discussion take place on this subject. I felt really bad about it, until I checked the posting times again.
Posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 17:55:48
In reply to Re: Oops. My mistake » Dinah, posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 17:51:45
Posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 17:59:20
In reply to Re: Movin' on.... (nm) » Krissy P, posted by Dinah on March 27, 2003, at 17:55:48
Posted by Dr. Bob on March 28, 2003, at 8:34:59
In reply to Re: Oops. My mistake » Dinah, posted by Krissy P on March 27, 2003, at 17:51:45
> justyourlaugh's rude comment to me-totally uncalled for, and that's all I have to say about that. WRONG
Please be sensitive to the feelings of others and don't post anything that could lead them to feel accused or put down. I've asked you to be civil before, so now I'm going to block you from posting for a week.
> I also have a righ to feel.
> I was angryYou certainly have a right to feel, but feeling is one thing, posting another.
> yes, the posts are somewhat dated in a way that makes us hard to remember who wrote what and when.
IMO, it's easy to see who wrote what when. Best wishes,
Bob
PS: Follow-ups should be redirected to either Psycho-Social-Babble or Psycho-Babble Administration, thanks.
Posted by Dr. Bob on March 28, 2003, at 8:39:01
In reply to Re: Don't leave, Krissy, posted by janejj on March 26, 2003, at 14:32:35
> Please don't leave cos of this one person, I think they are just a bit confused as their posts hardly make sense.
It's great to support Krissy P, but please be careful at the same time not to post anything that could lead justyourlaugh to feel accused or put down, thanks.
Bob
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