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Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Sara T on May 6, 2000, at 9:26:19

In reply to Re: age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 6, 2000, at 8:41:08

46 years old here. But is that too old to still be on the cheerleading squad? I think I never really got out of adolescence. So can I join the 18 to 20 year old group even if I'm chronologically over the hill?

OTOH, older women can be alluring.

Sara T

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Snowie on May 6, 2000, at 14:44:34

In reply to Re: age of babble landers, posted by Sara T on May 6, 2000, at 9:26:19

I'm 43, but thanks to good genes (and possibly never having married or had children), most people guess about mid-30s. I usually will admit to only 39, but since you guys don't know me, I've nothing to lose by being honest..hehehe

Snowie

 

Re: Chris A.- 47 (Yikes!); (no message)

Posted by Chris A. on May 6, 2000, at 15:00:31

In reply to Re: Mark 50; (no message), posted by Mark H. on May 5, 2000, at 15:20:42

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Kim on May 6, 2000, at 16:18:57

In reply to age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 4, 2000, at 22:25:05

I'm 43; with four kids oldest 21, youngest 8. I'm much too young to feel this damn old.
Kim

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by kellyR. on May 6, 2000, at 20:55:52

In reply to age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 4, 2000, at 22:25:05

>
>
> It's 11pm and I can't sleep. I was wondering about
> the ages of the people who use this board.
>
> If I had to guess, I'd say:
>
> 5% age 20 or younger
> 25% age 20-30
> 55% age 30-40
> 15% age 50 or older
>
> Sound about right?

Youth looks ahead,old age looks back,& middle age looks tired.
I'm 30yrs old be 31 in Aug.I have 3 kids 9,7,4.
Reaching forty prematurely! kellyR.

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by quilter on May 7, 2000, at 0:50:24

In reply to Re: age of babble landers, posted by kellyR. on May 6, 2000, at 20:55:52

> >
> >
> > It's 11pm and I can't sleep. I was wondering about
> > the ages of the people who use this board.
> >
> > If I had to guess, I'd say:
> >
> > 5% age 20 or younger
> > 25% age 20-30
> > 55% age 30-40
> > 15% age 50 or older
> >
> > Sound about right?
>
> Youth looks ahead,old age looks back,& middle age looks tired.
> I'm 30yrs old be 31 in Aug.I have 3 kids 9,7,4.
> Reaching forty prematurely! kellyR.


Much older than I ever expected to be. Poor planning on my part.
chronological- 47
physical- at least 107
mental - subject to change without notice
depression - 25 and still going strong
quilter

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Alan on May 7, 2000, at 9:09:36

In reply to age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 4, 2000, at 22:25:05

>
>
> It's 11pm and I can't sleep. I was wondering about
> the ages of the people who use this board.
>
> If I had to guess, I'd say:
>
> 5% age 20 or younger
> 25% age 20-30
> 55% age 30-40
> 15% age 50 or older
>
> Sound about right?
********************************************
I'm 42. But as Satchel Paige (the great baseball player/philosopher) once said, "How old would you think you were if you didn't know how old you really were?" I guess on good days I feel 30 - bad days 55 - whatever that might feel like.

Alan
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Re: age and registration

Posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 11:26:30

In reply to Re: age of babble landers, posted by Alan on May 7, 2000, at 9:09:36

Hi, everyone,

I was careful not to ask anything personal as part of the registration process, but it doesn't look like there's that much reluctance to share ages, so I think I'll add year of birth.

I might add email address, too, since that would simplify posting since the site could then fill it in for you automatically.

Both of these would be optional. If you would rather type in your email address each time, or would just leave it blank anyway, that's fine.

Bob

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Brenda on May 7, 2000, at 11:34:42

In reply to age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 4, 2000, at 22:25:05

>
>
> It's 11pm and I can't sleep. I was wondering about
> the ages of the people who use this board.
>
> If I had to guess, I'd say:
>
> 5% age 20 or younger
> 25% age 20-30
> 55% age 30-40
> 15% age 50 or older
>
> Sound about right?

I'm 44.
Brenda

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Noa on May 7, 2000, at 13:08:55

In reply to Re: age of babble landers, posted by Brenda on May 7, 2000, at 11:34:42

I notice a trend among the parents here--a lot of you started very young, at 20 or so. Is this significant?

 

Re: age and registration

Posted by Noa on May 7, 2000, at 13:12:54

In reply to Re: age and registration, posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 11:26:30

Dr. Bob, I usually love it when you pop in to a thread, but this time, I think your timing was off. There was a real energy, group cohesion thing going here. Your post about adding year of birth to the registration form kind of felt like an interruption to me, but even more than that, it felt like you were missing the point of what was happening among us in this thread. Actually, when I saw your name, before I actually read the subject of your post, for an instant I thought you might join in and tell us your age.

 

Re: age and registration - Dr.Bob

Posted by Cam W. on May 7, 2000, at 13:36:22

In reply to Re: age and registration, posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 11:26:30


Dr.Bob - In your post I did notice that something was missing……**** YOUR BIRTHDATE ****. I'm sure it was just an oversight. ;^)…- Cam

 

Re: age and registration.....Works for me!

Posted by shar on May 7, 2000, at 14:38:50

In reply to Re: age and registration, posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 11:26:30

Works for me, Dr. Bob.
Shar

 

Re: age and *not* registration

Posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 15:20:00

In reply to Re: age and registration, posted by Noa on May 7, 2000, at 13:12:54

> Dr. Bob, I usually love it when you pop in to a thread, but this time, I think your timing was off. There was a real energy, group cohesion thing going here. Your post about adding year of birth to the registration form kind of felt like an interruption to me, but even more than that, it felt like you were missing the point of what was happening among us in this thread.

Sorry, I guess registration's been on my mind lately. I'll start a new thread, which I should've done then.

> Actually, when I saw your name, before I actually read the subject of your post, for an instant I thought you might join in and tell us your age.

You already know my location, isn't that good enough? :-) My age is sometimes an issue I explore with my patients, so I think it's probably better if I don't make it public here.

I know it's already online at least that I graduated from medical school in 1984, so that should give you an idea, anyway.

Bob

 

Re: age - harry , gail

Posted by jane on May 7, 2000, at 18:49:45

In reply to Re: age of babble landers (I swear.....), posted by shar on May 5, 2000, at 21:40:59

> On my mother's eyes...
>
> 48 years OLD.
>
> Son, 29
> Depression, 33 yo
> Dog Shadow, 56 in human years--black lab
> Dog Lamar, 28 in human years--rough coat collie
> Therapy, 25 years
> Friend of Bill W., 13 years
>
> So far, I find Gail the MOST amazing person!! A two year old!! Omigod!
> Shar

gail - you're in my thoughts and prayers :-)
a two year old! I don't have enough energy for a four yr old dog -

harry b. - reading this thread is a blast;
something fun for a change. I'm loving it. jane

 

Re: age and *not* registration

Posted by jane on May 7, 2000, at 18:58:39

In reply to Re: age and *not* registration, posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 15:20:00

> You already know my location, isn't that good enough? :-) My age is sometimes an issue I explore with my patients, so I think it's probably better if I don't make it public here.
>
> I know it's already online at least that I graduated from medical school in 1984, so that should give you an idea, anyway.
>
> Bob

actually year of birth is listed in directory of board-certified physicans, but I haven't looked you up-----yet :-) jane

 

Re: age of babble landers --Shar

Posted by Cass on May 7, 2000, at 23:39:36

In reply to Re: age of babble landers (I swear.....), posted by shar on May 5, 2000, at 21:40:59

> On my mother's eyes...
>
> 48 years OLD.
>
> Son, 29
> Depression, 33 yo
> Dog Shadow, 56 in human years--black lab
> Dog Lamar, 28 in human years--rough coat collie
> Therapy, 25 years
> Friend of Bill W., 13 years
>
> So far, I find Gail the MOST amazing person!! A two year old!! Omigod!
> Shar


Shar, I've been wondering for the longest time who the heck friends of Bill W. are, and who the heck is Bill W?

 

Re: age and *not* registration

Posted by Renee N on May 7, 2000, at 23:53:45

In reply to Re: age and *not* registration, posted by Dr. Bob on May 7, 2000, at 15:20:00

>
> You already know my location, isn't that good enough? :-) My age is sometimes an issue I explore with my patients, so I think it's probably better if I don't make it public here.
>
> I know it's already online at least that I graduated from medical school in 1984, so that should give you an idea, anyway.
>
> Bob

No, Dr. Bob, that is not enough, and we aren't your patients. I graduated college in 1980, but I graduated from highschool in three years. So, I'm guessing you, Donnie Osmond, Madonna, Michael Jackson, and I are about the same age. I'm 41. I have a friend who reminds me that Madonna is actually four months older than me. (Aren't friends great?!) I'm guessing you are 42 or 43. Please don't keep us guessing...Renee N

 

Re: age of babble landers

Posted by Annie on May 8, 2000, at 0:29:28

In reply to age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 4, 2000, at 22:25:05

> Rats, I replied to this message a few days ago and it didn't show up. I'm 34, live in Canada, and was hoping I'd find out if people were from Canada, USA or elsewhere, simply curious.
No kids yet, I have always felt I can barely take care of myself, can't imagine having to look after little kids!!
>
> It's 11pm and I can't sleep. I was wondering about
> the ages of the people who use this board.
>
> If I had to guess, I'd say:
>
> 5% age 20 or younger
> 25% age 20-30
> 55% age 30-40
> 15% age 50 or older
>
> Sound about right?

 

Re: age of Babbleland's oldest child

Posted by medlib on May 8, 2000, at 0:52:23

In reply to age of babble landers, posted by harry b. on May 4, 2000, at 22:25:05

>
>
> It's 11pm and I can't sleep. I was wondering about
> the ages of the people who use this board.

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Harry---I've been hesitant to contribute because of my current mental state (vegetative) and because, chronologically, I'm the oldest poster to these I.D. threads (at least so far). Then I figured,"What the hell--since I'm well into my 2nd childhood, I'm not responsible anyway!"

Currently, I live with 2 children--my "Inner Child" and my "Other Child" (aka Mental Illness). Though my "Other Child" is older than most people on this board, she seems like a slightly autistic two-year-old, forever stuck in the land of NOT.

My two offspring, a son and a daughter, both in their early 30s, appear to have survived and thrived in spite of me. Though reared by a severely depressed, single parent, neither is, or has been, mentally ill. Both were highly successful academically (though each dropped out initially), are happy in their relationships (1 married, the other, about-to-be), and are satisfied and successful in their careers.

It is, therefore, difficult to perceive them as my children. The only genetic similarity I see (turning introspective as Mothers' Day approaches) is that each is, on occasion, a bit of a smartass. During recent birthday calls, my daughter remarked acidly, "You know, in case you haven't been paying attention, you're still alive; and, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but Virtual just isn't the only reality." My son asked (rather plaintively, I thought), "Have you given any thought to what you'd like to do when you regain consciousness?" Neither of them has children yet; may they reap what they sow.

Guess I better have the treadmill repaired and kick up the thyroid; my dog (84 in people years) is more agile and interested in life than I am.

"The Raves of the Ancient Babbler"---medlib

 

Re: Cassre Friends of Bill W.

Posted by medlib on May 8, 2000, at 2:58:18

In reply to Re: age of babble landers --Shar, posted by Cass on May 7, 2000, at 23:39:36

---------------------------------

Cass--

May I answer for Shar? (I don't mean to butt in, but am afraid she might be reluctant to reply.) Bill W. cofounded Alcoholics Anonymous. Members have traditions of not using their last names and not revealing their membership in the organization to others (lest it become an unintended source of pride that sabotages sobriety, I think). Because I am not a member, I am free to tell you that "Friends of Bill W." is a kind of shorthand some use to refer to AA without naming it.

I believe that the same traditions are a part of most, if not all, Anonymous programs that have grown out of AA's remarkably successful 12-step program. I don't know what shorthand references they use, if any.

Best wishes--medlib

 

Re: Friends of Bill W. - Cass/Medlib/Anyone

Posted by Greg on May 8, 2000, at 7:39:01

In reply to Re: Cassre Friends of Bill W., posted by medlib on May 8, 2000, at 2:58:18

>
> ---------------------------------
>
> Cass--
>
> May I answer for Shar? (I don't mean to butt in, but am afraid she might be reluctant to reply.) Bill W. cofounded Alcoholics Anonymous. Members have traditions of not using their last names and not revealing their membership in the organization to others (lest it become an unintended source of pride that sabotages sobriety, I think). Because I am not a member, I am free to tell you that "Friends of Bill W." is a kind of shorthand some use to refer to AA without naming it.
>
> I believe that the same traditions are a part of most, if not all, Anonymous programs that have grown out of AA's remarkably successful 12-step program. I don't know what shorthand references they use, if any.
>
> Best wishes--medlib

Cass & Medlib,
Medlib, you are correct that Bill W. is a co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. The reason why we only use the initial of our last names is protect our anonymity. I have never been reluctant to tell anyone who asks me what my last name is (White), I'm very proud of the 12 years of sobriety I've worked very hard for. I am who I am, a recovering alcoholic. We have many sayings in AA, "a friend of Bill W." is one of them, no secret codes intended, just hard and fast rules that help us stay sober. I use the same principals to get thru my depression that I do with my alcoholism, one day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time, whatever it takes to survive.

If you have any specific questions, don't hesitate to ask.

Greg

 

Re: Greg - Friends of Bill W. - Cass/Medlib/Anyone

Posted by Brenda on May 8, 2000, at 10:30:07

In reply to Re: Friends of Bill W. - Cass/Medlib/Anyone, posted by Greg on May 8, 2000, at 7:39:01

> >
> > ---------------------------------
> >
> > Cass--
> >
> > May I answer for Shar? (I don't mean to butt in, but am afraid she might be reluctant to reply.) Bill W. cofounded Alcoholics Anonymous. Members have traditions of not using their last names and not revealing their membership in the organization to others (lest it become an unintended source of pride that sabotages sobriety, I think). Because I am not a member, I am free to tell you that "Friends of Bill W." is a kind of shorthand some use to refer to AA without naming it.
> >
> > I believe that the same traditions are a part of most, if not all, Anonymous programs that have grown out of AA's remarkably successful 12-step program. I don't know what shorthand references they use, if any.
> >
> > Best wishes--medlib
>
> Cass & Medlib,
> Medlib, you are correct that Bill W. is a co-founder of Alcoholics Anonymous. The reason why we only use the initial of our last names is protect our anonymity. I have never been reluctant to tell anyone who asks me what my last name is (White), I'm very proud of the 12 years of sobriety I've worked very hard for. I am who I am, a recovering alcoholic. We have many sayings in AA, "a friend of Bill W." is one of them, no secret codes intended, just hard and fast rules that help us stay sober. I use the same principals to get thru my depression that I do with my alcoholism, one day at a time, one hour at a time, one minute at a time, whatever it takes to survive.
>
> If you have any specific questions, don't hesitate to ask.
>
> Greg

Greg, I also have many many years of sobriety. I use the twelve steps for help with my depression. The hardest for me with the depression has been the acceptance. After years of therapy and 7 years of AD's, I'm getting closer. It's still so hard sometimes. The slogans of the 12-step programs do help with my depression though. Especially "act as if ... and the feelings will follow." When I joined AA many years ago, AD's were taboo. The program has come a long way. I remember severely depressed people and even schizophrenics going without meds. Thank God that's all changed. I'll also help to answer any questions about the Steps or whatever.
Brenda

 

Cass: Bill W. ( Welcome all friends of Bill W.)

Posted by shar on May 8, 2000, at 21:15:13

In reply to Re: age of babble landers --Shar, posted by Cass on May 7, 2000, at 23:39:36

Cass,
A moment to welcome other Friends of Bill's !!

You've gotten some good replies to your question already. What being a friend of Bill W's. means to me is that (other than being probably the most significant event in my life prior to AD's) when I meet another friend, there is a kindred spirit about.

I discovered my uncle was a friend at another uncle's funeral. We had never really known each other, but there was sort of a comfort set in with that shared experience.

He asked me how long, and it was about 10 years of sobriety at that time, and he said "oh, you're an oldtimer" which was such a hoot because he had about 30 years of sobriety.

One of my favorite sayings (also applies in some ways to depression) --well, AA says 30 meetings in 30 days. Sort of a corollary to that is "30 days and a thousand nights." Yessir!! I can relate to that!

The Big Book is the culmination of how things happened, came about, and AA began. It contains the steps the promises, and a lot of wisdom. Plus some pretty religious stuff I don't relate to too well.

Ask away, if you have any other questions. It's been a (hellish) life saver--both the drinking and the sobriety.

Shar (no reluctance here)

> > On my mother's eyes...
> >
> > 48 years OLD.
> >
> > Son, 29
> > Depression, 33 yo
> > Dog Shadow, 56 in human years--black lab
> > Dog Lamar, 28 in human years--rough coat collie
> > Therapy, 25 years
> > Friend of Bill W., 13 years
> >
> > So far, I find Gail the MOST amazing person!! A two year old!! Omigod!
> > Shar
>
>
> Shar, I've been wondering for the longest time who the heck friends of Bill W. are, and who the heck is Bill W?

 

Re: RE: To Shar - re Bill W.

Posted by Brenda on May 8, 2000, at 21:31:31

In reply to Cass: Bill W. ( Welcome all friends of Bill W.), posted by shar on May 8, 2000, at 21:15:13

> Cass,
> A moment to welcome other Friends of Bill's !!
>
> You've gotten some good replies to your question already. What being a friend of Bill W's. means to me is that (other than being probably the most significant event in my life prior to AD's) when I meet another friend, there is a kindred spirit about.
>
> I discovered my uncle was a friend at another uncle's funeral. We had never really known each other, but there was sort of a comfort set in with that shared experience.
>
> He asked me how long, and it was about 10 years of sobriety at that time, and he said "oh, you're an oldtimer" which was such a hoot because he had about 30 years of sobriety.
>
> One of my favorite sayings (also applies in some ways to depression) --well, AA says 30 meetings in 30 days. Sort of a corollary to that is "30 days and a thousand nights." Yessir!! I can relate to that!
>
> The Big Book is the culmination of how things happened, came about, and AA began. It contains the steps the promises, and a lot of wisdom. Plus some pretty religious stuff I don't relate to too well.
>
> Ask away, if you have any other questions. It's been a (hellish) life saver--both the drinking and the sobriety.
>
> Shar (no reluctance here)
>
>
>
> > > On my mother's eyes...
> > >
> > > 48 years OLD.
> > >
> > > Son, 29
> > > Depression, 33 yo
> > > Dog Shadow, 56 in human years--black lab
> > > Dog Lamar, 28 in human years--rough coat collie
> > > Therapy, 25 years
> > > Friend of Bill W., 13 years
> > >
> > > So far, I find Gail the MOST amazing person!! A two year old!! Omigod!
> > > Shar
> >
> >
> > Shar, I've been wondering for the longest time who the heck friends of Bill W. are, and who the heck is Bill W?
Shar, I'm curious - I haven't been to a meeting in years - I have almost 20 yrs. clean/sober - Do you find you still have the desire at times to medicate your depression with alcohol? I quit when I was just 25 y.o., and at 44 I still find the urge when the pain is soooo bad or I'm sooo overwhelmed to pick up a drink - and this is with 11 yrs. of therapy and AD's. BTW, I have a 24 y.o. son, 4 dogs, 2 cats, 40 rosebushes, a husband in law school fulltime and my own business. Any help you can offer would be wonderful.
Thanks, Brenda


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