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Posted by gardenergirl on January 30, 2006, at 17:53:05
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 17:45:55
You could always sign your posts to that person like this:
With extra special fondness...
:-D
gg
Posted by caraher on January 30, 2006, at 18:43:51
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 17:45:55
I don't understand why someone might object to your using the "f-word" ;)
Posted by TexasChic on January 30, 2006, at 19:16:54
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by caraher on January 30, 2006, at 18:43:51
condescend - act in superior way
fondly - having affection or warm regard : LOVING
I think of it as your trademark too. I've always liked it.
-T
Posted by Gabbix2 on January 30, 2006, at 19:41:56
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
It doesn't charm me, no. But Do I think you should stop using it? HELL NO!
It's you, and whenever you have something unique it's precious, and if there are those who love you for it, then there are always going to be those who dislike it with the same intensity.
That's how you find kindred spirits.
Posted by JenStar on January 30, 2006, at 19:50:53
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
I like it - it's your signature greeting. Don't change it! I think it actually softens any post...just in case someone misreads something, or thinks a post is "harsh" (not that yours ever are), it's a nice way to soften the landing and remind them that you're writing fondly and not with any malice.
I always thought it was a kind, gentle way to sign your posts!
JenStar
Posted by gee on January 30, 2006, at 19:54:09
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore » Phillipa, posted by JenStar on January 30, 2006, at 19:50:53
I think you should use it. I love the alliteration of it. It flows so nice, and it's so you!
Posted by LegWarmers on January 30, 2006, at 20:18:14
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
....stop using Fondly!! you are Fondly Philipa!
I like fondly
Posted by Susan47 on January 30, 2006, at 21:16:27
In reply to Please do not.... » Phillipa, posted by LegWarmers on January 30, 2006, at 20:18:14
I like it, have always liked it, and see no negative connotations in your usage of the term "fondly" when you sign off. Suspicious minds ... glad mine is leaving me.
Posted by sleepygirl on January 30, 2006, at 21:24:35
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
Posted by Tabitha on January 30, 2006, at 22:28:31
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
Never change, Phillipa.
Posted by muffled on January 30, 2006, at 22:48:34
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by caraher on January 30, 2006, at 18:43:51
Posted by Gabbix2 on January 30, 2006, at 23:00:44
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore » Phillipa, posted by Tabitha on January 30, 2006, at 22:28:31
I need to reword that.
Not to be more civil, just because it didn't come across the way I'd intended it too.
Fondly, doesn't affect me one way or the other.
What I was trying to say was, if one kind word bugs someone that's *their* problem.Trust me, I know because I have word hostility issues : ) No associations, I just hate certain words.. that's it. And I know it's my problem, otherwise I'd have to invent a pseudo-moral reason why people shouldn't use the word creamy.. or slacks.. or...slab oh I have so many.
You're sweet Phillipa, don't change.
Posted by Gabbix2 on January 30, 2006, at 23:01:56
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore » Tabitha, posted by Gabbix2 on January 30, 2006, at 23:00:44
Posted by deirdrehbrt on January 30, 2006, at 23:19:16
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
Perhaps someone's grandmother used to pat them on the head as a child and say "I'm so fond of you". Maybe it brings up memories of being a child, and they interpret the word "fondly" in that way. Does that mean you should change? heck no.
If you ever want to change, because YOU want to, then go ahead. Until then, I'll be happy to see that someone is fond of us.
-- Dee (without an adequate word to express her affection for this place)
Posted by Sarah T. on January 31, 2006, at 0:14:37
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
What??!! Your posts are not in the least bit condescending. I think "fondly" is a lovely way to sign off on either a post or a letter.
Please don't let this bother you. You are such a kind, thoughtful person.
Sarah
Posted by crazy teresa on January 31, 2006, at 6:03:16
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
After you tell him to go &^%%$ himself in a very civil way... ;~}
Actually, doesn't telling someone she was condescending for using the word fondly make this person extremely consescending AND completely asinine?
Posted by alesta on January 31, 2006, at 14:15:26
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
do...what? someone said not to use fondly? that is just crazytalk!!;) how could you possibly interpret 'fondly' negatively?
the only way i can possibly think of is if they think you're being sarcastic. well, dude or dudette, i am 100% positive that she is not being sarcastic! i promise!!!!!:-) phillipa ain't like that man.
btw, hi phillipa.:-) and if you don't use it i'm going to. i like fondly. hope you are doing well p.
love aim
Posted by alesta on January 31, 2006, at 15:13:24
In reply to fondly is good! (nm), posted by muffled on January 30, 2006, at 22:48:34
hi muffled!! i just wanted to return the favor and give you a BIG hug (you gave me one a while ago at a time when i was particularly fragile:))((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((muffy)))))))))))))
i was seriously worried about you when you got blocked.
aim:)
Posted by AuntieMel on January 31, 2006, at 15:55:13
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
Like Kelly Green - I thought you were Fondly Phillipa.
Either way - it's a part of you.
Posted by Sarah T. on January 31, 2006, at 18:45:07
In reply to oh no!!! no...this is all wrong man! :-) » Phillipa, posted by alesta on January 31, 2006, at 14:15:26
So there!
Posted by justyourlaugh on February 3, 2006, at 0:39:04
In reply to Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by Phillipa on January 30, 2006, at 14:03:16
..
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do not twist "my " words..i did not "suggest", you were condesending..i was "suggesting" to you personal concerns between 2 friends..i am sad you did this..
it makes me ill..to think my attentions were displayed as hurtful and.....i am a good moral person..
why would you let others believe i was otherwise?
..
Posted by justyourlaugh on February 3, 2006, at 0:48:23
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore » Phillipa, posted by James K on January 30, 2006, at 15:58:21
hi james..
"that someone thought this needed to be dealt with seems strange"..phillipa expressed her concerns about "this" matters..on "board"
does that mean both she is ************ as well?..but on a larger scale?please rephrase..
Posted by justyourlaugh on February 3, 2006, at 0:50:54
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore » Phillipa, posted by Dinah on January 30, 2006, at 16:27:06
"speechless that someone would do that."
d..
i did not do that..
Posted by Phillipa on February 3, 2006, at 0:52:37
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore, posted by justyourlaugh on February 3, 2006, at 0:39:04
Sorry I hurt your feelings. I didn't intend to do this. Was just looking for some feedback from others as I had wondered the same thing. Friendship has nothing to do with this. As far as I'm concerned you are a great friend to bring this to my attention. Glad to see you posting again. Everyone including me has missed your witty humor you use at times . Love Jan
Posted by justyourlaugh on February 3, 2006, at 0:58:43
In reply to Re: Someone Said Not To Use Fondly Anymore » Phillipa, posted by 10derHeart on January 30, 2006, at 17:04:32
10..
"i feel " you broke the guidelines..
understood, not your concern your words hurt me..she expressed she was "unsolicited' ?
please do not jump.......
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