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Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 13, 2005, at 16:17:32
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on March 13, 2005, at 15:40:43
Well, although often I don't agree with how it's been implemented, I don't think a year is too long. There have been a few cases where I think it's actually not nearly long enough. What I disagree with is the automatic double and triple blocking, but Dr. Bob seems to have been more considered with that lately.
Posted by alexandra_k on March 13, 2005, at 18:09:37
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion?, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 13, 2005, at 16:17:32
> Well, although often I don't agree with how it's been implemented, I don't think a year is too long. There have been a few cases where I think it's actually not nearly long enough. What I disagree with is the automatic double and triple blocking, but Dr. Bob seems to have been more considered with that lately.
How about a +1 and +2 system instead of X2 and X3? See, for example:
http://dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20050219/msgs/465833.html
That way it takes longer to get to very long blocks.
Posted by alexandra_k on March 13, 2005, at 18:15:31
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion?, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 13, 2005, at 16:17:32
> There have been a few cases where I think it's actually not nearly long enough.
Remember, though that if they get blocked again then they get blocked for the same length of time.
So if there is someone who repeatedly posts 'grossly offensive' posts they can only get a maximum of, say 12 of them out per year if the maximum block length is one month, or 6 if the maximum block length is two months.
Though I don't see why anybody would bother...
And people might learn better.
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 13, 2005, at 20:37:39
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Gabbi-x-2, posted by alexandra_k on March 13, 2005, at 18:15:31
> > There have been a few cases where I think it's actually not nearly long enough.
>
> Remember, though that if they get blocked again then they get blocked for the same length of time.
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> So if there is someone who repeatedly posts 'grossly offensive' posts they can only get a maximum of, say 12 of them out per year if the maximum block length is one month, or 6 if the maximum block length is two months.
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> Though I don't see why anybody would bother...
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> And people might learn better.
>
Yes, I'm well aware of that, I've been here for a while : )I still feel the same way, some people don't want to learn, some simply want to provoke.
Posted by Larry Hoover on March 13, 2005, at 22:35:01
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing, posted by Dr. Bob on March 11, 2005, at 2:45:58
> > When someone is mostly supportive and / or informative then it is a shame that they get blocked for such long periods of time.
> >
> > Is it worth changing the system to retain them?
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> > IMO yes.
> >
> > alexandra_kI wanted to think long and hard before I expressed my opinion on this issue.
> IMO, it's a shame to lose any support or information, but:
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> Is it worth it to whom? It may be worth it to the mostly supportive = repeatedly uncivil poster, sure. Is it worth it to other posters?Given the upset that has arisen amongst Babblers in general when lengthy or marginal blocks have been given out, I have to answer affirmatively to your latter question. Most definitely, all Babblehood is affected by lengthy blocks.
There may well be individuals that fall into a category of being mostly unsupportive, or who fail to make much effort at civility. For those posters, recurrent blocks would end up being virtually indistinguishable from one massive block. If it's not worth their trouble to modify behaviour under the punitive regime now in place, I can't see those 52 week blocks being any sort of deterrent, in any case.
No, the ones most likely to respond to the fist in a velvet glove are the majority of people who get blocked. Those whose passion got the better of them. Those who were triggered by subconscious reactions. Those who are trying to work through issues, and learn how to do things better. Those caring enough to try to be more civil, in fact. To learn from mistakes.
Believe me, a block of eight weeks is not insubstantial. I resigned from Babble over a six week block. It is the exponential increase in block duration that is most hurtful to the intent of the disciplinary act itself. Is not the intent to provide motive for change? But if the punishment increases at a rate that exceeds the capacity for change, what happens to the desire to change? It is crushed.
> The question could also be turned around, is it worth it to those posters to change how they post in order to be retained?
One must never take away dignity or respect or compassion while trying to invoke discipline. I fear the doubling and tripling block system fails in all three realms.
> > I suspect Dr. Bob has decided to stop being a tease when he has no intention of putting out change. I actually appreciate that. It's very frustrating to think you have a chance of getting somewhere with him, when in truth you don't.
> >
> > Dinah
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> It's nice to be appreciated, but there's a difference between needing a compelling reason to change and just not intending to...
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> BobWhen I saw people getting multi-week blocks for uttering an exuberant self-congratulatory "I kicked *ss!", I was heart-broken. Now we have an automatic asterisk system. The "crime" has not been redefined, it has been accomodated. It has been accomodated by offering a default setting that precludes blocking arising from a simple failure of self-censoring or inattention.
The motive force for changing that aspect of Babbledom was the general sense that the magnitude of the punishment was not in accord with the violation.
It is my sense that blocks in excess of eight weeks duration are not in accord with any system of justice that I can accomodate.
I truly hope the maximums are substantially reduced, along with the rate of escalation towards those maximums. Progressive discipline will not be lost if the rate of escalation is reduced. Recurrent maximum blocks will have virtually identical effects as the sanctions now in place. It is the middle ground cases that will most benefit. Those most amenable to efforts to modify behaviour. Those are the posters who disappear under the current regime. Those needlessly lost to us. And I may be the next to go.
Lar
Posted by Larry Hoover on March 13, 2005, at 22:57:14
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » alexandra_k, posted by gardenergirl on March 13, 2005, at 15:40:43
> Three months? I don't know. I am interested in finding out how many folks come back after posts. Is there an asymptope (sp?) where folks do not come back?
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> ggOh, that's very sexy. Asymptote. Geek-girl sexy. ;-)
Lar
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 13, 2005, at 23:33:28
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » Dr. Bob, posted by Larry Hoover on March 13, 2005, at 22:35:01
Those are good points. I guess I agree, but I wish for the two or 3 people (i've seen since I've been here) who are simply being *ssh*les is that they could be banned altogether.
Posted by alexandra_k on March 14, 2005, at 0:00:12
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » Larry Hoover, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 13, 2005, at 23:33:28
> Those are good points. I guess I agree, but I wish for the two or 3 people (i've seen since I've been here) who are simply being *ssh*les is that they could be banned altogether.
I can think of maybe one or two posters who I feel that way about at times. But I figure that they are lessons for me in tolerance. Also, maybe they will change over time. Unlikely to be sure, but possible.
Whereas if they never come back then I guess we will never know. I don't like the idea of giving up on anybody.
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 14, 2005, at 0:27:12
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » Gabbi-x-2, posted by alexandra_k on March 14, 2005, at 0:00:12
I think if you knew of the posts I am thinking of, you would feel the same. They are one's that Bob actually deleted though. And I won't make reference to them here. I too am tolerant and forgiving, there was no lesson in these posts. None.
Posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 14, 2005, at 0:47:11
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 14, 2005, at 0:27:12
Sorry, I should have said that I couldn't imagine anyone finding a worthwhile lesson in these posts.
Posted by alexandra_k on March 14, 2005, at 1:19:41
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » alexandra_k, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on March 14, 2005, at 0:27:12
> I think if you knew of the posts I am thinking of, you would feel the same. They are one's that Bob actually deleted though. And I won't make reference to them here. I too am tolerant and forgiving, there was no lesson in these posts. None.
Perhaps there could be a different system for posts that are deemed to be so very grossly offensive that they are deleted. I mean, it is not like that happens very often...
Posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 9:18:32
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Gabbi-x-2, posted by alexandra_k on March 13, 2005, at 18:15:31
The thing that's getting overlooked here is the administrative side. Dr. Bob is often off board for days at a time. Yes, there are deputies, but...
At any rate, if posters are to be only blocked for brief periods of time, then come back for brief periods of time before being blocked again, there are going to be problems and innocents (in the sense that they are responding to rather than intitiating uncivil posts) getting admin actions and all the accompanying disturbance that comes when there's a dustup on board.
There is no way on god's green earth that twelve one month blocks are equivilant to one twelve month block administratively or in terms of how it affects the board, the posters, etc.
If Dr. Bob were viewing every post before it got posted, then yes, maybe. Otherwise it's just NOT equivilant.
Posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 9:44:08
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 9:18:32
Actually, I guess what I'm saying is that there's nothing wrong with the machinery being in place. I think it's perfectly reasonable to lobby Dr. Bob for judicious use and mercy.
Posted by Larry Hoover on March 14, 2005, at 10:51:20
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 9:18:32
> The thing that's getting overlooked here is the administrative side. Dr. Bob is often off board for days at a time. Yes, there are deputies, but...
>
> At any rate, if posters are to be only blocked for brief periods of time, then come back for brief periods of time before being blocked again, there are going to be problems and innocents (in the sense that they are responding to rather than intitiating uncivil posts) getting admin actions and all the accompanying disturbance that comes when there's a dustup on board.
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> There is no way on god's green earth that twelve one month blocks are equivilant to one twelve month block administratively or in terms of how it affects the board, the posters, etc.
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> If Dr. Bob were viewing every post before it got posted, then yes, maybe. Otherwise it's just NOT equivilant.It is not equivalent because of administrative failings, rather than of merit.
I quickly realized that my proposal would require an enhancement of administrative action; more work for Dr. Bob, without doubt. However, if that is his reason for maintaining the status quo, I cannot accept that. His expediency does not supercede justice.
In analogy, locks only keep honest men out. There is no administrative process that will preclude posts which are intentionally uncivil. We all know that a determined poster will find a way to post.
I do not wish to be lumped in with that group, should I again fall afoul of the rules. I am not like that, but the punitive measures in place today do not make such a distinction. One more block, and I'm gone forever.
Lar
P.S. I still do not agree with the merits of two of my prior blockings.
Posted by alexandra_k on March 14, 2005, at 12:43:06
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 9:18:32
> At any rate, if posters are to be only blocked for brief periods of time, then come back for brief periods of time before being blocked again, there are going to be problems and innocents (in the sense that they are responding to rather than intitiating uncivil posts) getting admin actions and all the accompanying disturbance that comes when there's a dustup on board.
I realise that it won't be equivalent. I guess it is a matter of a trade-off between some mostly supportive posters leaving the boards because of the length of their blocks and posters putting up with a bit more incivility on the boards.
To weigh up which is more important to us...
I guess there might be a bit more work for moderators...
Posted by alexandra_k on March 14, 2005, at 12:46:44
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » alexandra_k, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 9:18:32
With respect to 'innocents' getting admin action - my experience is that the only way to get admin action is to fall foul of the civility rules.
We aren't supposed to post uncivil replies to uncivil posts.
And that applies to all of us.
That being said - if someone does make an uncivil reply to an uncivil post they will only be blocked for a maximum of 4-8 weeks. Enough to make people think about it before doing that again?
If we just ignored uncivil posts / posters I really do think they would be more inclined to stop it / to go away.
It is giving some people the reaction they are looking for that encourages them.
Posted by AuntieMel on March 14, 2005, at 13:43:00
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing, posted by Dr. Bob on March 11, 2005, at 2:45:58
Well, in some cases I would say that the block is more harmful to the board than not blocking would be.
Like Chemist - who is a huge wealth of information for many, many people. Who's only infractions involve getting a bit snide with people who bait him.
The disruption is caused by others, not by him.
I owe a large part of my current condition to information I got from Chemist. Where would I be if he hadn't come back from a prior block?
Posted by Toph on March 14, 2005, at 15:24:36
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » Gabbi-x-2, posted by alexandra_k on March 14, 2005, at 0:00:12
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> I can think of maybe one or two posters who I feel that way about at times. But I figure that they are lessons for me in tolerance.
>
If PB strives at all to be a group therapeutic milieu, the lessons to be learned about behavioral and attitudinal norms should come primarily from other group members and not from the group facilitators. This is the primary deficiency in the group dynamic on Psycho-Babble, as I see it.Toph
Posted by mair on March 14, 2005, at 17:44:32
In reply to Re: Is it worth changing? Yes » alexandra_k, posted by Toph on March 14, 2005, at 15:24:36
I've always found the current system to be extremely disruptive. Regardless of how cut and dried Bob tries to make the civility rules seem, they are not, and they are frequently applied subjectively and arbitrarily. If they weren't, we probably wouldn't even be having this discussion.
The system of escalating penalties causes harm in a number of different ways. 1) We lose valued posters - (does everyone appreciate how lucky we are to have Larry Hoover back here? - once not a given at all) 2) People who have been at the wrong side of arbitrary blocks take it with far more sensitivity than is probably appreciated. There's a huge difference between the poster who is out to stir up trouble (we've had a fair number of those), and posters who really intend no harm. Indeed many have been blocked in their attempts to defend others. I'm sure those who believe that their blocks were unfair, don't have the same confidence that this site is "safe" in the way this site is supposed to be safe. 3) Perhaps most importantly, some of the biggest admin fights I remember arose over blocks that seemed unfair either in their imposition or, maybe as frequently, in their length. Far from generating a healthy give and take, many admin discussions over blocks have deteriorated quickly into a miasma of hurt feelings and recriminations. Many people have left here not because they were sanctioned unfairly, but rather because they felt someone else was, or even, sometimes that someone else wasn't. The appearance of unequal and uneven treatment can be extemely upsetting.
I don't think capping blocks is necessarily the answer, but I do think it would help alot. People might still feel that either they or some others were treated unfairly, but if the consequences weren't so draconian, passions might not run as high.
IMHO of course
Mair
Posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 18:04:19
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Dinah, posted by Larry Hoover on March 14, 2005, at 10:51:20
Lar, you know I agree about that (your blocks). I said so at the time. And I'll say so now.
I'm certainly not saying that you are a disruptive poster.
But I'm glad Dr. Bob has the ability to do what he is able to do, and I'm against taking that ability away from him. Whether I think he should use it in any given situation is something different altogether.
I'm not actually against Dr. Bob being able to use his judgement. I may not always agree with it, but a completely arbitrary system would be worse IMHO.
I'm not going to say any more about it. I'm sorry I said as much as I did. I think I can rely on Dr. Bob in this one.
Posted by Jai Narayan on March 14, 2005, at 20:08:15
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Larry Hoover, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 18:04:19
One really only needs time out for the duration of 6 weeks.
that is, for the worst offense.
in that time the person will have learned something.okay I can see that Dr. B has more work to do if the extreme offense is limited to 40 days....
but, with all this heated discussion...this topic seems to resurface often...this takes time as well.
what do you want Dr. B....
irritated posters?I must say it's very difficult to convince Dr. B of the importance of changing this rule....he really likes it this way.
I guess it works for him.has anyone ever been banned?
Posted by alexandra_k on March 15, 2005, at 1:15:43
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Larry Hoover, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 18:04:19
> But I'm glad Dr. Bob has the ability to do what he is able to do, and I'm against taking that ability away from him.
Absolutely. But if the length of block were to be reduced he would still have the power to block people.
> I'm not actually against Dr. Bob being able to use his judgement.
Me neither.
>I may not always agree with it, but a completely arbitrary system would be worse IMHO.
Absolutely. Thats why I have tried to provide a concrete alternative. I know it isn't perfect. But I thought it might be an improvement?
> I'm not going to say any more about it. I'm sorry I said as much as I did.
I like to hear what you have to say.
Even if I disagree...
It still gets me thinking :-)
Posted by Larry Hoover on March 15, 2005, at 10:22:51
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Larry Hoover, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 18:04:19
Dinah, sweetie, I'm not looking for you (or anyone) to agree with me, and I'm not dismissing your opinion. I honour your feelings and beliefs. I needed to say what I did, just as did you.
Lar
Posted by Toph on March 15, 2005, at 11:39:18
In reply to Re: anybody else have an opinion? » Larry Hoover, posted by Dinah on March 14, 2005, at 18:04:19
>
> But I'm glad Dr. Bob has the ability to do what he is able to do, and I'm against taking that ability away from him. Whether I think he should use it in any given situation is something different altogether.
>Probably someone has posed this before, but I'd like to see discipline completely removed from Bob's authority. I believe that members of this community would do at least as well or likely a better job of fairly sending messages to others that their conduct is inappropriate, unsupportive, condescending, whatever. Personally, I would take notice and heed more a jury of my peers than an impassionate arbitor who frequently disregards mitigating circumstances. Bob could act as the prosecutor who presents his argument to the tribunal for consideration. This way he too could learn something about fairness and group dynamics. I'm not sure how the justices would be selected or replaced, but I'm sure most would take the responsibility seriously. This community needs to have more of a say in formulating its norms of conduct. I would feel put down if Bob or others felt that we are incapable of doing this effectively ourselves. I suppose there's a risk that a mob mentality could develop like public lynchings, or a risk of inconsistency or leniency that fosters not qwells incivility, but I highly doubt it. I'm tired of watching the capricious beheadings in the Tower. If Bob didn't like how the citizens here governed themselves, he could always grab the scepter and put the crown back on his head.
Toph
Posted by AuntieMel on March 15, 2005, at 12:10:28
In reply to Re: my opinion » Dinah, posted by Toph on March 15, 2005, at 11:39:18
I disagree on this one. Putting it in the hands of the posters could create an atmosphere of advirsity.
And I've seen cases where one person felt hurt by something a person said, and that person's opinion colored others.
Many, many times a post can be taken more than one way. If you read it knowing someone else read it one way you might be influenced by that knowledge.
It's happened to me. Later when I shook out come cobwebs and re-read the post I could see where it could easily be read differently.
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