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Posted by qtr-horse girl on January 4, 2004, at 17:53:50
In reply to Re: Lexapro + Wellbutrin, posted by Bali on January 4, 2004, at 8:39:13
I certainly appreciate your responses. I have been researching this in order to bring it up to my doc. They are about at wits end with me as much as I am. Mine started about 7 years ago after finally admitting I was depressed due to chronic pain. Last year it became really bad due to almost losing my sister in an automobile accident on Jan 13, she is a miracle, losing my mother in June to a fast acting cancer and the fact we have always been on shaky ground, then I was out of work for 2 months in Sept-Nov due to my pain and I have a knew boss who overstepped his boundries and began harassing me while I am on W/C. I hate to go on but I had a pretty rough year as I am sure everyone else has or worse. I tried coming off the stuff all together but it wasn't good. I am so glad I found ya'll.
Thanks, qtr-horse girl
Posted by Mrs C. on January 4, 2004, at 20:17:05
In reply to lexapro + social anxiety - any luck?, posted by reluctant on January 3, 2004, at 21:25:54
I don't really know anything about social anxiety, I just wanted to wish you luck. You sound like a wonderful and intelligent person.
Mrs C.
Posted by Mrs C. on January 4, 2004, at 20:19:04
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness » JohnFromCalifornia, posted by Jayslace on January 3, 2004, at 21:26:56
Wow, you sure have been through alot. Sounds like you will be a nice addition to this board. I hope you keep posting.
Mrs. C.
Posted by Mrs C. on January 4, 2004, at 20:35:49
In reply to Re: Lexapro + Wellbutrin, posted by qtr-horse girl on January 4, 2004, at 17:53:50
Hi,
Just wanted to thank you for such an honest and open post. I continue to be amazed by how open we can all be with eachother. I think it really helps everyone who reads this board even if they never post. I look forward to coming to this board every night when the kids are in bed and the house is quiet. I feel like I've made new friends and it feels wonderful to know that I am not alone in all of this. Hope everyone has a happy Monday! Good luck with your new combo qtr-horse girl.
Mrs. C
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 20:46:38
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness, posted by Jayslace on January 4, 2004, at 16:28:15
Ruthie:
Congratulations on climbing out of a pit that many would have trouble even seeing the top of, let alone managing to escape.
The adjustments you mentioned that you're having to make (reading, driving, working outside the home) are enormous. You've done very well to come so far, and how lucky for your husband and boys just to be able to have you at all beyond the whisper of memories.
Your courage and strength are an inspiration.
Health and friendship to you too.
Richard
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 20:55:46
In reply to Re: Lexapro + Wellbutrin, posted by qtr-horse girl on January 4, 2004, at 17:53:50
Dear Qtr-horse girl:
I'd say that after running a year like 2003, you deserve the Triple Crown.
It's a wonder and a testament to the human spirit that people can even function when beset by some of the experiences we read about on this board.
May 2004 be your best year yet.
Richard
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 20:59:58
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness, posted by JohnFromCalifornia on January 4, 2004, at 15:53:12
John:
You're sounding better than your previous post a few days ago. Sounds like things are picking up.
Please let us know when you get back on your bike again, even if it's just for a spin around the block.
Richard
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:01:10
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness, posted by JohnFromCalifornia on January 4, 2004, at 15:53:12
John:
You're sounding better than in your previous posting a few days ago. Sounds like things are picking up.
Please let us know when you get back on your bike again, even if it's just for a spin around the block.
Richard
Posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 21:06:14
In reply to Re: lexapro + social anxiety - any luck?, posted by Mrs C. on January 4, 2004, at 20:17:05
> I don't really know anything about social anxiety, I just wanted to wish you luck. You sound like a wonderful and intelligent person.
> Mrs C.well I ain't too smart but I'm a hard worker . . .
honestly, between you & journeyman . . urk. thanks. journeyman asked me to list 3 things i'm good at w/ no disclaimers etc. "accepting compliments" would not be on the list, though "self-deprecating humor" might. so for the moment I will just hold my tongue. the support is appreciated! both for myself and for other people to whom you've lent kind words.
it is good to have this board; I've lurked for a long time before posting. part of me held back for a long time because of a perverse notion that discussing my condition with others would make it more real, cement it . . . but really,talking about it and allowing the depression to come out from under the carpet puts us more in control. does that make sense? personally I can't really talk about it anywhere else, except with my immediate family, and somehow their concern makes me feel worse - like an invalid.
there is also something healing about reaching out to others to offer help & support - on both ends. thank you everyone! it's especially nice to see that there are a lot of positive people on this board - which is fairly remarkable. it's hard to be positive with this stuff.
sorry this has gotten off the topic of medication. ok, a med update: lexapro/wellbutrin still ok (though inevitable teeth clenching going on) - cleaned apartment, washed and combed dog (no small feat) - generally feeling more capable. it's still early & i'm not exactly a ball of sunshine yet, but I sure do feel better than on the zoloft/wellbutrin. there, now i've talked about medication.
-r.
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:06:27
In reply to Re: Lexapro + Wellbutrin, posted by Mrs C. on January 4, 2004, at 20:35:49
Dear Mrs C:
Wherever you are and whatever you're doing, I wish you both a pleasant Monday and a vigorous, peaceful, joy-brimmed new year.
You're absolutely right about the board. There are times when I feel like writing; sometimes I just take comfort in reading what other people are saying. Either way, it's become an important new kind of community for me.
Thanks for your frequent and supportive messages to the board.
Richard
Posted by Jayslace on January 4, 2004, at 21:13:26
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness » Jayslace, posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 20:46:38
Good evening to all,
I've made it through another day, and stayed awake! Hard to have done , yes, even with all this rain in this Ohio valley plus the Lex. LOL
My kids are in bed, and my husband and I are heading that way too. But I just shared with him the encouraging letters I just read on this board. We both feel I have finally found the right people to have come to talk to , or at times to just sit back and listen to.
I do see a psychologist every 2 weeks also. She has been a very welcome 3rd party person , I have to say. I've only been seeing her for 2 months now. But she gives me a comfortable feeling to be able to talk.
There is just so much more to life than looking down at the dirt, we must look up at the sky more often. See the birds, the tree tops, watch the clouds float by. Feel the sun on our face.
That's what I am trying to do again. And I am doing it much more.
I breathe therefore I am...
Health and friendship and good sleep to us all,(but not too much!!)
Ruthie
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:25:33
In reply to psychobabble mutual admiration club » Mrs C., posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 21:06:14
Dear r (which along with reluctant, could also stand for revered, rambunctious, rollicking, riveting, etc.)
If I were an editor (and thank god/buddha, the goddess, Allah, Yaweh, etc. I'm not) and I were gleaning missives for you know what, I wouldn't even get past your first sentence to Mrs C.
Well, I'll save that challenge for your actual response posting.
In the meantime, I'm glad you had a decent day today.
And even if you aren't "exactly a ball of sunshine yet," where would we (and those of The Great Depression) be without moonshine?
No sure how long you've been on Lex, but a number of people have mentioned the teethclenching.
Richard
Posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 21:30:24
In reply to psychobabble mutual admiration club » Mrs C., posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 21:06:14
I wanted to offer some words to everyone that were helpful for me. They come from Thomas Moore's Care Of The Soul - a book that I have mixed feelings about. Sometimes its messages are a theraputic jolt & very thought-provoking, other times I think the book glosses over serious pain with new-agey hoke - but this passage in particular gave me a lot of food for thought:
(hope it's ok to excerpt passages on this board)"Loneliness can be the result of an attitude that community is something into which one is received. Many people wait for members of a community to invite them in, and until that happens they are lonely. There may be something of the child here who expects to be taken care of by the family. But a community is not a family. It is a group of people held together by feelings of belonging, and those feelings are not a birthright. 'Belonging' is an active verb, something we do positively. . . . A person who is oppressed by loneliness can go out into the world and simply start belonging to it, not by joining organizations, but by living through feelings of relatedness - to other people, to nature, to society, to the world as a whole. Relatedness is a signal of soul. By allowing the sometimes vulnerable feelings of relatedness, soul pours into life and doesn't have to insist on itself symptomatically."
easier said than done, maybe, but it put the problem of being with others in a new light. and i thought it was apropo for this board.
-r.
Posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 21:39:12
In reply to Hi, it's the thorn in your side calling » reluctant, posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:25:33
If I were an editor (and thank god/buddha, the goddess, Allah, Yaweh, etc. I'm not) and I were gleaning missives for you know what
. . . no, what?
well, maybe it's better if I don't know.
I haven't forgotten our deal & you'll get your response - but then you're up to bat!ha!
-r.
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:47:37
In reply to Re: Hi, it's the thorn in your side calling » Journeyman, posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 21:39:12
sdb (aka - self-deprecating behavior)
Read a review of Care of the Soul; sounds interesting.
What do you mean then I'm up to bat. That's sounds grossly fair.
Richard
Posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:52:47
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness » Journeyman, posted by Jayslace on January 4, 2004, at 21:13:26
Ruthie:
We are such stuff
As dreams are made on, and our little life
Is rounded with a sleep.
"The Tempest" (4.1.168-170)Sweet Dreams.
Posted by reluctant on January 4, 2004, at 22:40:33
In reply to Re: Hi, it's the thorn in your side calling » reluctant, posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:47:37
Three things I do well, no caveats etc.
This is hard. Everything I think of comes with a footnote or a qualifier.
Here goes:I’m good at making the things I make (I’m an artist by avocation and occasionally by vocation)
I’m good at encouraging others to keep at their artwork or their passion
I’m good at expressing myself in writing, and . . .BONUS ROUND: I make a mean fruit salad. Mmm, mm.
(really, I do! mint, lime, maple syrup & pecans - add to best fruit you can find, don't skimp on the mango)It’s funny – it was hard getting started but when I finished a few more came to mind, most importantly: I’m good at confronting fear.
(I had a qualifier in that last sentence, and took it out, and you’re right – it feels much better!)
your turn . . .
-r.
Posted by platinumbride on January 4, 2004, at 23:09:25
In reply to Re: Lexapro + Wellbutrin, posted by Bali on January 4, 2004, at 8:39:13
How wonderful for you to have such a re-awakening! Thank you so much for sharing it. You kinda made me feel as is I had been right there with you ;-)
Diane
Hi. I am on the Lex/Well cocktail and it has worked beautifully for me. I do have joy for life now (Platinumbride)....sometimes looking back at my former dark self I just can't believe I am the same person. I am a pleasure to be around (says my daughter and son) and just the other night I met someone and there were actual sparks. I've not wanted to go out, much less be involved with a man for at least three years. I used to be a social butterfly (Reluctant)but for some unknown reason just pulled inside of myself three years ago after a bad break up. It's not that I was still in love with this man from three years ago, it's just that I slid into a bad place and wasn't coming out of it. Those dark, ugly feelings I was having about people I would encounter in my everyday life were scaring me. I felt like an evil, very unattractive person. As I have posted before, Lex took away those sinister thoughts and made me feel good about myself despite me being over my regular weight. Adding Wellbutrin, I think, is what got me out of the house and socializing...and, voila, I even talked to and felt chemistry toward someone.(!) This is a wonder to me because I've not had this feeling for so long. You know that normal feeling that you can have when you see an attractive man/woman and you get a little butterfly feeling? Well, that was totally dead inside of me. When I met this guy, I wasn't thinking "Oh, this is the one, swoon, swoon", but I was thinking, "Wow, I can be attracted to and be attractive to someone(!)" This has been a long post, but you can see from all of the above that Lex-Wellbutrin has been very, very good to me. I like myself and because of that other people like me. Bali
Posted by Vandy on January 5, 2004, at 0:28:39
In reply to Hi, it's the thorn in your side calling » reluctant, posted by Journeyman on January 4, 2004, at 21:25:33
> Dear r (which along with reluctant, could also stand for revered, rambunctious, rollicking, riveting, etc.)
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> If I were an editor (and thank god/buddha, the goddess, Allah, Yaweh, etc. I'm not) and I were gleaning missives for you know what, I wouldn't even get past your first sentence to Mrs C.
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> Well, I'll save that challenge for your actual response posting.
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> In the meantime, I'm glad you had a decent day today.
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> And even if you aren't "exactly a ball of sunshine yet," where would we (and those of The Great Depression) be without moonshine?
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===========================Yeah. Right. Reminds me of that Martin Mull thing: "I'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy."
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> No sure how long you've been on Lex, but a number of people have mentioned the teethclenching.
>
> Richard
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Posted by Vandy on January 5, 2004, at 0:31:46
In reply to Re: Lexapro + Wellbutrin, posted by platinumbride on January 4, 2004, at 23:09:25
YOU GO GIRL!
Posted by lexman on January 5, 2004, at 0:32:33
In reply to Re: Lexapro and Wellbutrin SR » Leo Bostar, posted by EGR on February 10, 2003, at 21:19:25
> I recently added 100 mg of Wellbutrin to my 20 mgs of Lexapro. I have to skip a day or two every 5 or 6 days because of the buzzing in my head. So far I haven't noticed any increase in my sex drive, but I'll keep you all posted.
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> > > Is anyone on the combination of Lexapro AND Wellbutrin SR/ I am on 10mg Lexapro and 150 mg os Wellbutrin Sr. I like combining them because of the sexual side effects of the SSRI and I think Wellbutrin enhances it---anyone else trying this???
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I am taking lexapro 10mgs and wellbutrin sr 100mg.I noticed my depression and energy seem to be better but not sexual.Do you take them together at the same time during the day?
Posted by Kim B. on January 5, 2004, at 10:06:41
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness » JohnFromCalifornia, posted by Mariposa on January 1, 2004, at 12:17:16
I am starting week four of Lexapro. I have been taking 5mg but have started taking 10mg every other day. I am so lethargic and sleepy even during the day, but yet feel speedy at the same time. Does this go away and when will the anxiety attacks lessen they seem to be worse at the moment?
Posted by John2222 on January 5, 2004, at 10:15:20
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness, posted by Kim B. on January 5, 2004, at 10:06:41
Are you taking the Lexapro in the evenings or mornings? I'm wondering the same thing though--when should you take it? I thought morning was supposed to be best so you could sleep easier at night, but I've also heard of others taking it in the evening.
Any opinions here?
> I am starting week four of Lexapro. I have been taking 5mg but have started taking 10mg every other day. I am so lethargic and sleepy even during the day, but yet feel speedy at the same time. Does this go away and when will the anxiety attacks lessen they seem to be worse at the moment?
Posted by Mandy Roberts on January 5, 2004, at 10:54:06
In reply to Re: Lexapro side-effects, posted by Esmarelda on December 15, 2003, at 14:58:03
I'm starting the the first day of week number two on 10mg of Lexapro & need some encouraging words. I didn't have a hard time eating or sleeping before, but since the first day I started taking it, I've not had much of an appetite, I've been nauseous and I've had horrible insomnia - usually waking up with severe anxiety (which is fairly new). I don't want to give up if it truly gets better after the 2nd week. Let me know!!
Posted by bluesfan on January 5, 2004, at 10:56:42
In reply to Re: Excessive Sleepiness - morning or night?, posted by John2222 on January 5, 2004, at 10:15:20
I've been on Lexapro for 17 days now, and I've been taking it primarily at night before bed. I tried to take it first thing in the morning initially, but the side effects weren't good on me. Now that I take it at night (around 10:30pm) I sleep well and have energy throughout the day. Hope this helps!
> Are you taking the Lexapro in the evenings or mornings? I'm wondering the same thing though--when should you take it? I thought morning was supposed to be best so you could sleep easier at night, but I've also heard of others taking it in the evening.
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> Any opinions here?
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> > I am starting week four of Lexapro. I have been taking 5mg but have started taking 10mg every other day. I am so lethargic and sleepy even during the day, but yet feel speedy at the same time. Does this go away and when will the anxiety attacks lessen they seem to be worse at the moment?
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