Posted by jay on February 12, 2005, at 18:10:12
In reply to Re: Jay gives the Ultimatum..comments needed :) » jay, posted by KaraS on February 12, 2005, at 17:38:06
> Jay,
> She definitely doesn't appear interested. I have a feeling from what you've said so far that she probably wouldn't be interested in anyone who was interested in her because she doesn't feel she's worthy. Often times when people aren't healthy enough mentally they automatically think less of anyone who would be interested in them.
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> You deserve more. You are doing much better than she is and are capable of a healthier and more complete relationship. Unfortunately you might have to go through many disappointments before finding some you're compatible with. The trick is to try not to become bitter and keep your heart open so that you can will be able to be participate when someone more appropriate comes along.
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> KaraThanks very much Kara. In honesty, I even feel sorry for her...and like someone suggested...maybe I am trying to take on the 'rescuer' role. But that in itself could be dangerous. I feel kinda odd right now about the email I sent her, but I honestly think it had to be done. I can't risk going into a depressive relapse, and I would hope she wouldn't want me to anyways.
Thanks,
Sincerely,
Jay
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