Posted by KaraS on February 12, 2005, at 17:38:06
In reply to Jay gives the Ultimatum..comments needed :), posted by jay on February 12, 2005, at 14:32:18
Jay,
She definitely doesn't appear interested. I have a feeling from what you've said so far that she probably wouldn't be interested in anyone who was interested in her because she doesn't feel she's worthy. Often times when people aren't healthy enough mentally they automatically think less of anyone who would be interested in them.You deserve more. You are doing much better than she is and are capable of a healthier and more complete relationship. Unfortunately you might have to go through many disappointments before finding some you're compatible with. The trick is to try not to become bitter and keep your heart open so that you can will be able to be participate when someone more appropriate comes along.
Kara
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