Posted by jay on February 12, 2005, at 15:43:18
In reply to Re: Jay gives the Ultimatum..comments needed :) » jay, posted by Gabbi-x-2 on February 12, 2005, at 15:04:46
> It sounds to me like she was trying to tell you how she felt through her actions, perhaps she was not able to say things outright, that's not ideal but it's common, human. I can't say anything about your e-mail I'd probably get blocked.
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>Well, not quite, because she was telling me what a "great guy" I am, and all of the compliments in the world. Then, out of the other side of her mouth, she would seek any excuse not to see me...even though we live only an hour or so away from each other. We are not talking days or weeks, but months...(And I was the one who always drove to her.) I am sorry but at 37 years old, if she can't make up her mind, then there are problems there. She constantly scorns me for taking medication, yet refuses to take hers and is always in a real 'mess'. She refused to go through with therapy because she say's alls it does is 'bother' her. She is always talking about suicide, while again refusing *any* treatment. So what am I to do? I am sorry but not talking is just 'not ideal', it is 'not an option', as far as I am concerned. I gave and gave and gave...asked for very little. Instead I get the door slammed in my face, constantly. That makes me feel just wonderful.
Jay
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