Posted by pegasus on August 12, 2004, at 13:30:10
In reply to Urgent Dilemma, Need TOVacation Club Support, posted by daisym on August 11, 2004, at 19:21:39
Daisy, I think you should let him call you. He's obviously comfortable with it, and probably even would prefer it. He's probably worried about you, or at least understanding how hard this will be. It might even help him to have some contact with you. Not that that should factor into your decision; he needs to take care of his own self separately from your therapy. But maybe it will help you feel better about saying yes to the call, to realize that he'll probably feel better about you, too, if he checks in with you.
My therapist offered an actual phone session before she left on vacation. I haven't been with her all that long, and we weren't in the middle of big things, so I said no. So, I'm wondering whether it might be somewhat accepted to do that type of thing.
Let us know what you decide, and how the conversation goes. I also love the idea of him leaving you a voicemail that you can play over while he's gone. I would *love* that.
pegasus
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