Posted by Pfinstegg on August 12, 2004, at 10:19:01
In reply to Urgent Dilemma, Need TOVacation Club Support, posted by daisym on August 11, 2004, at 19:21:39
I really like the fact that your T. thought so carefully and then came down on the side of feeling it would be the most helpful to call you. If I remember your previous posts correctly, he has always welcomed your feelings of dependency and need for solace- my T also welcomes and encourages them, and feels that they are a vital first step towards secure attachment and growth. I think he has your inner children in mind, and perhaps feels that they won't understand the interruption as well as the adult you does. You and he have been working so hard to bring the children into your interactions; he is probably really encouraged by that, and doesn't want them to retreat. Also, I think your previous phone interactions with him have been quite positive and helpful, haven't they? I'd take him up on it!
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