Posted by ace on December 7, 2010, at 1:29:35
In reply to Re: Thoughts please.... Nardil + Xanax + more » ace, posted by sigismund on December 6, 2010, at 10:51:15
> >Two edged sword. Because I think this desire, by perforce, it makes us conform to others expectations and desires, not truly our own. We lose our true identities under so many masks.
> What do you think?
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> YES
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> But I don't think the solution lies in having less of this desire, but rather finding the right people to share it with.I agree, but alas! the right people can be so tough to find.
The right people might find it very lovely.
In any case, it is part of us and only repressed at a cost. The desire to merge is legitimate and attractive to some people.I see your point. I think, overall, we have to try and set limits on our desires. Otherwise we end up turning away people and chasing our tails.
Thanks for the post:)
Ace
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