Posted by 10derHeart on September 27, 2009, at 23:22:01
In reply to Re: please be civil » Dr. Bob, posted by Phillipa on September 27, 2009, at 19:35:05
Speak just about **your** feelings, and usually you are okay.
Something like, "I felt hurt when I read that," as it does not accuse or put down anyone else. But NOT, "I felt hurt by your rude reply," (that's not an "I-statement" and it would really be the same as what Bob cited..)
Of course, that is just my non-admin, non-official advice, but hopefully it is good anyway ;-)
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