Posted by belljar on August 21, 2007, at 9:10:05
In reply to Lost years, posted by Amandafran on August 18, 2007, at 22:22:03
Hey Amandafran
You are awesome - and 28 is the best time to "start your life". At 43, I look back and feel the same things you're feeling - and I try to think that instead I will just make it batter starting today...
I do regret that I spent my 20s and 30s worrying about it - 40 arrives either way, so you may as well just enjoy everyday.
SPeaking of relatinships - I gave up on the idea of ever finding one, when I was 34. I was angry, frustrated, bitter..... went to visit a friend, had an argument with a guyfriend of hers - and married him a year later. Had a baby at 36. And guess what, I still ahvent found a drug that helps me, I'm still all over the place, but I have a beautiful daughter and a husband who hates my ticks and noises and binges and temper tantrums but puts up with them anyways, says "he loves me"... You just never know. The twenties are a messed up decade. Just look forward to your thirties.
It'll be ok.
Belljar
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