Posted by lara53 on April 5, 2005, at 16:04:53
In reply to Re: anyone that will listen?, posted by Phillipa on April 3, 2005, at 17:03:32
My husband and I used to be really close;I didn't even get a haircut without him tagging along. He's had to work such long hours;leaves at 5 gets home around 8-9; depending on how much overtime. Alot of times not home till 10-12. This has been going on for about 5 yrs. In the meantime have had financial problems, every thing seemed to happen to house and cars plus some foolish things we did.Also I gave too much money to kids {you know how moms are] After they left home they became more needy! Anyway alot of it is my fault I don't handle stress well and would rather not deal with it and be alone.Another thing is last time I had a really bad time with cutting and hosp. he told me few yrs. later he couldn't deal with it again,so I think he's worried and ignoring it? I haven't been this bad in long time, think I was good at dealing with it, if I must say so myself!BTW just wanted to let you know,you are so kind to others. And I am extremely jealous of your surgery!Hope you are doing well.
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